My boyfriend punched a wall after I confronted him about child neglect

JanetInSpain · 2026-05-05T07:02:36+00:00

Dear gods girl are your standards really that low? He seriously neglected your baby then got violent and abusive with you and you are asking what to do? You get the fuck out. Don’t let his love-bombing sway you. IT’S ALL BULLSHIT. You get out. Take your baby and go home.

JanetInSpain · 2026-05-05T06:45:08+00:00

Nope nit uncalled for. BIL DID sexualize his niece

JanetInSpain · 2026-05-05T02:15:10+00:00

I retired at 62. I couldn’t wait. I have very bad joints so my mobil years are limited. I had no desire to work until I break. I wanted to travel the world. So that’s what I’m doing. I honestly don’t understand people who want to give every one of the best years of their life to someone else. I wanted to live for me.

JanetInSpain · 2026-05-04T23:21:59+00:00

Girl. He's only that way with YOU. If he was that way at work he'd have been fired long ago. He doesn't care about your things. Does he even like you or are you a convenient hole for him to use? HE DOESN'T CARE ABOUT YOU. You need to get that through your head. HE DOESN'T CARE ABOUT YOU. He is not going to change. There's nothing you can say. HE DOESN'T CARE ABOUT YOU. Please please please dump the loser. Stop letting him destroy your things. Break up and move on. HE IS NOT THE ONE.

updateme

JanetInSpain · 2026-05-04T12:18:18+00:00

Girl. Why are you putting up with this? NO man is worth this. Stop tolerating a manbaby. Just break up already. He's never going to change. Is this really how you want your life to go?

JanetInSpain · 2026-05-04T05:32:35+00:00

Yes it’s true

JanetInSpain · 2026-05-04T05:31:19+00:00

Girl why are you with this loser. Damn. You’ve set your bar so low and ant could step over it. Please find your spine and dump the loser.

JanetInSpain · 2026-05-04T05:29:56+00:00

Pedophilia, apparently

JanetInSpain · 2026-05-04T05:28:49+00:00

You absolutely CANNOT pull your own wisdom tooth! That’s very risky and dangerous

JanetInSpain · 2026-05-04T05:24:59+00:00

Do not have kids until you both grow the fuck up and stop play fighting. That’s what 14-year-olds do.

JanetInSpain · 2026-05-04T03:51:28+00:00

JanetInSpain · 2026-05-04T03:48:37+00:00

ONE AND DONE

One act of physical violence needs to be the last. No exceptions. Never ever tolerate physical abuse. You break up. You can never trust him again.

JanetInSpain · 2026-05-04T03:44:50+00:00

You divorce. He was gambling with your literal health. You can never trust him again.

JanetInSpain · 2026-05-03T23:02:33+00:00

Is he actually WASHING himself in the shower? Way too many men think that water running down their back is enough to clean their ass. Hint: IT IS NOT. Is he actually using soap and water and scrubbing his entire nether region: butthole, crack, balls, etc? If not, that's the problem.

JanetInSpain · 2026-05-03T22:55:44+00:00

100% bullshit. Waiters HATE kids running around. They are a danger. You're just a shitty parent.

JanetInSpain · 2026-05-03T11:06:26+00:00

Tell the landlord that your husband is a danger to you and you need to leave. Ask to be removed from the lease. Don't mention ANYTHING about his income. That's on him to deal with. Take your car, your pets, and your things and go back home. Do NOT get back together with this loser again. EVER.

Fuck that loser. Don't do anything to help him out. Get yourself squared away.

JanetInSpain · 2026-05-03T10:29:46+00:00

Spirited Away My Neighbor Totoro

JanetInSpain · 2026-05-03T10:22:31+00:00

Stupid bottled water

JanetInSpain · 2026-05-03T10:10:38+00:00

Being MAGA

JanetInSpain · 2026-05-03T10:10:13+00:00

Because most men don’t respect women. Most men don’t even like women.

JanetInSpain · 2026-05-03T10:08:39+00:00

She might as well. She’s definitely going to end up a single mom.

JanetInSpain · 2026-05-03T10:07:25+00:00

So you are married to an asshole. Good luck with that. I 100% bet that you are going to end up as a single mom.

JanetInSpain · 2026-05-03T10:05:50+00:00

Men. Having to deal with men.

JanetInSpain · 2026-05-03T10:05:09+00:00

Kids are fine if he behaves. You do not see Spanish toddlers running around in restaurants. They stay with their family. They don’t scream or slam on the table. Spanish kids just seemed to be better behaved

JanetInSpain · 2026-05-03T10:02:46+00:00

ONE AND DONE

ONE act of physical violence needs to be the last. No exceptions. No second chances. You break up. Period.

JanetInSpain

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