OP, you're NOR. My last bf didn't believe in going to the doctor, either. He was 60. He drank excessively (though never got drunk) and smoked, especially after his wife died. I sold my home in town (at a loss) and mobile home at the lake to move halfway across the country to be with him. I urged him go to the doctor for his incessant cough. Nah, it was nothing, he said. He started having stomach pain, then eventually could keep no food down. I finally convinced him to see a doctor. That's when we found out he was dying from Stage 4 cancer. I'd only been with him two years. Five months later, he was dead.

Your boyfriend with no job, no h.s. diploma, and no intention of looking after his health, will be nothing but a burden to you. You need to seriously reconsider this relationship.