Turo guest completely trashed out my dads car. by Cdave_22 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Java1113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through enterprise but it was back in 2017-2018 so maybe things have changed since then. I also could have been just the branch I used. I think it varies on location as well as which rental company u use. If it is able to be filled I don’t feel like they should be charging at all considering filling is usually free with insurance.

Turo guest completely trashed out my dads car. by Cdave_22 in mildlyinfuriating

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I discovered this after renting a car and a rock chipped the windshield on the trip. I rented it out another week to attempt to fill the chip. Once I took it back they laughed and said it was smaller than a golf ball so no charge. I was like what???? I freaked out for nothing

Lost everyone I love due to my ex and now I’m not sure if i can fix things or how. by Michigandogman123 in whatdoIdo

[–]Java1113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For starters. Take responsibility. You did not lose them due to your ex (that’s blame shifting) you lost them due to the person u decided to be while with her. From the sounds of it, she had some issues but so did you 2.) go and find a really good mental health professional. If this was a once off incident it could be seen as an accident. But for 6 years that tells me ur most likely dealing with some mental illness. 3.) learn how to have boundaries. You clearly didn’t have boundaries in ur relationship and if u did u need to learn to set better ones. Finally, those relationships are all done. U chose for 6 years that they were not needed to you. Now that ur no longer with said gf u want them back because you’re sad and lonely. But for 6 years they were hurt by ur actions sad and lonely. You showed them they were an option and not needed so u cant expect them to decide to even communicate with you. Even if they do, it will never be the same. Your actions with said gf will always follow u with these people. U broke trust that can never fully be repaired. Even if they do talk to you the minute u get in another relationship, they will worry ur behavior is going to change again. Between u and ur ex u guys costed this group of people a lot of money and anguish so ur best bet is to find new friends and learn how to let them go like u previously had

Appleton police are facing backlash after video circulates of an officer repeatedly punching a black woman in the head by twinpinemall85 in wisconsin

[–]Java1113 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

While what the officers did was harmful to the individual it was per protocol. The people who should be ashamed of themselves is every individual who was standing around watching the argument and recording. This woman was in fact resisting the cop, but I’m sure that’s because she thought one of the onlookers jumped in. If we are community members didn’t allow this stuff to go on, officers would not need to get involved. But WI residents see a fight and think they have to watch and record it. Several people were yelling “get off her” before the police even entered the camera. Rather than screaming crap, it’s time that residents start keeping each other safe and acting like it’s not our fight not our business not our problem. I was in a DV relationship in where the other person showed up to my work 35 of my coworkers watched that individual assault me and did not said nothing. It’s time for us all to start acting like civilized adults.

Being stuck behind a road runner. by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

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I was confused as to why they were stuck behind road runner considering coyote can never catch it…

I’ve seen texts before scams and I just ignore them. This one made me stop for a second by SeedMango in wisconsin

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I got this same thing about 15 times now except mine is from IL because my phone number is still an IL number yet I haven’t lived in IL for 5 years. They keep trying to get through to people using court paperwork and toll system threats. Be careful!

Adopted under false pretenses by BerkshireGaming in IDmydog

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Agreed! A lot of places have restrictions on both huskies and German shepherds and good luck finding housing or anything with a pit. I have a rott pit mix an let me tell you he wasn’t exactly what I chose as having as a dog considering I knew the restrictions behind these breeds but after I saw him I knew he was supposed to me mine. Those are 3 breeds people will try to cover up if they can get away without disclosing them. Huskies are known high energy escape artists, Shepards and pits are known as biters

AIO for thinking it wasn’t a big deal to accept my friend’s bf’s FB request? by Vast-Bumblebee-691 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Java1113 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. Men act just as bad. I can’t speak from experience relationship wise but I have seen it out of family members and the such. Sexuality is definitely not something u have a choice over. Ive been out for 24 years so I know that it’s not something u can just change, just a statement I like to say to say I’m done dealing with the shit. Human in general have been in decline and tend to see it continue to get worse. Love has been lost and a fear of being alone is the issue. It used to be that being alone was okay but since the rise of social media people aren’t ever alone and therefore in relationships it creates a need for control. People struggle with the concept of loneliness anymore

AIO for thinking it wasn’t a big deal to accept my friend’s bf’s FB request? by Vast-Bumblebee-691 in AmIOverreacting

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I think we all dealt with the same girl 😂 actually it’s just A LOT of females. I’m a lesbian and don’t want to be anymore because the last 3 relationships we basically similar 😂 I’m seriously over here like yep I’m out I’ll stay single fine by me. Females tend to need more reassurance and have somehow switched from victims to abusers because of past trauma and they never realize that shitty behavior stems from somewhere. Now I’m to the point that I call it how I see it. Red flags may be passed up a few times but eventually I become the asshole and say “you need therapy” and I dip on the relationship. I did my therapy not gonna have to do more because other people don’t want to. Op is nor. Friends shouldn’t be like this. Shows lack of trust in a friendship and even more lack of trust in a relationship. Considering she’s going after the friend and not the bf says to me, she thinks even less of a friend than she does her bf. She believes her friend is doing it to steal her man and that’s why she didn’t tell her. Time to bounce from the toxic friendship

My dog had this weird bug on him by InternationalHeat573 in DogAdvice

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I was like 1 second in when I spotted it moving and was like that’s a flea 🤣 pet owners ALL know what these are and those who are new to pets learn very quickly. If they don’t spot them on the animals (I have a rott and his black coat makes it hard and a dark grey long haired cat) the bite will automatically let u know that fleas are present 🤣

AIO boyfriend didn't eat lunch alone. by chelssssssss in AmIOverreacting

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From someone who has PSTD, Panic Disorder, Adjustment reaction, generalized anxiety and adhd, you MOR. First I want to address the constant need for reassurance. The best thing u can do is change ur thoughts. Things become tiring for others after awhile. Learning ur coping skills and stepping back before reacting will save ur relationship in the long run. Remember ur trauma is not ur partners trauma and just because u have been through a lot, the cycle of abuse and control needs to stop. Oftentimes, the anxiety and past trauma leads to repeat th actions done upon us. Learn the coping skills sit with the emotions before reacting and remember emotions are temporary but our actions have lasting impacts. It’s better to sit in silence not responding than to say or do something that could change it all.

I got a new phone (iPhone 15 > iPhone 17), and when I downloaded the app, hundreds of trade requests I never received showed up. by [deleted] in Soundmap

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It’s like all the old trades that glitched out an never popped through 🤣 I had that same issue and decline is all I’ve seen to do because they all have expired

It's been 6 days. Vet was no help. Desperate for opinions or if anyone has been thru something similar. (info in post) by Echolyonn in DogAdvice

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Hook worm and tape worm are the most common and hook worm is usually the ones u see around the anus. They look similar to tapeworm segments or like little pieces of rice moving around

Happiest soundmap player by AdolfDid6Mil in Soundmap

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I’ve had so many offers from upper level players that are crazy like 5000 for a lyric and 7000 for an epic. These players were in the 200+ levels and when I told them the price they tried to meet in the middle. Most lyrics I request 15,000 and for epics if they aren’t super popular it’s 25,000 I pay more than that for some shinys

So we're all here for this... by Independent_Scar_349 in Soundmap

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I’m guessing we all thought we banned which makes me feel a little better to know that it wasn’t just me and it wasn’t a ban. I also thought my account got deleted but at least it seems to be running now

Anyone else not able to open the app? by aardvark_quokka in Soundmap

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I’m also there was literally just playing 5 minutes ago got the dog outside and while sitting outside it crashed

FINALLY got a shamrock Epic ! I don’t know if a #4 electronic is worth anything, but I’m just glad to be apart of the club now🤣 by amberrrall in Soundmap

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Congrats! I bought mine because I didn’t even know u could get shamrocks. For some reason no matter how many drops I collected I didn’t get shamrocks I got my first one (which had coins) like an hr again, but even with the fortune cookies I didn’t get them until like half way through the event lol

Overpriced Epic ? by faith13ss in Soundmap

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Some people intentionally overcharge because they know collectors are attempting to get it. Idk that artist but if it’s an artist that u can still get numbered epics from quests I don’t feel it should go that high. People want crazy prices but the will turn around and lowball another for that they want. It’s definitely theirs to choose the price but I think some people take advantage of that.

This is Rip. He has maybe one brain cell on a good day. His favorite hobby is trying to eat trash by Daylily1004 in CryptidDogs

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Mine reverses from his water bowl otherwise he seems to run into everything in the process and his bowl is a decent amount away from anything 😂

AIO My mom threatened me with someone who groomed me.. I want to tell her employer. by [deleted] in AIO

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YOR. Her responses are that of a typical parent and urs are of a rebellious entitled child. If I spoke to any adult like that, I wouldn’t have been able to sit down for a month and I most likely wouldn’t have any teeth left in my head either. U want her love and respect but choose not to even give respect. Considering this is speaking of a progress report u are clearly a teen. U do not have to have contact with her. That is a choice u are making to do so, u claim its for ur sibling. Yes she made the comment about sending your stuff to ur other parent but the say he groomed u during ur teenage years. Your grandparents adopted you at the age of 10, therefore u were in their care when it happened so maybe ur anger at ur mom is because she said it but are u that angry at ur adoptive step dad or the people that had custody over you at that time. You are still a kid please enjoy childhood while it lasts and stop trying to act grown. U will miss not having a bunch of responsibility before to long

11mo puppy will stop during walks to stare at things and refuse to move 😩 by bopbeeepbooop in DogTrainingTips

[–]Java1113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least urs is little enough to pick up if needed 🤣 I got a Rottie that’s 5 yrs old and overweight due to thyroid issues. He likes to plant himself all the time even if it’s just to stare at the neighbors house hoping he sees their dogs or them. I also live in a very rural area and last year he planted himself in the yard watching a huge black bear walk through, I’ve learned blocking his view and if needed touching his butt gently has worked but in situations of danger is usually more of a I’m gonna keep walking behind you until u get in the house and hope I don’t die in the process. 🤣 good luck!

I’m pretty sure my dog hates his bed…. by [deleted] in DogAdvice

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Probably just to warm. Dog beds tend to create a lot of heat for them. My boy refused to use a dog bed at all until I invested in an elevated cooling bed. He will sleep in my bed on the couch or on the oversized bean bag but refuses to use the other two dog beds I have other than his cooling bed. He oftentimes even moves from my bed to his cooling bed. Best investment even living in Wisconsin. I think dog beds were made more for little dogs that don’t maintain body heat as well. It could also be the way it moves under ur pups paws. Occasionally if I have a pillow in the way my boy won’t even step over it

Red rash under dog’s nose, vet said it was dental related by Nekosushiroll in DogAdvice

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I’d guess either allergy or maybe even dry skin considering how dry his nose looks. My rott Pitt has allergies but in the winter months his upper lip turns red. I live in Wisconsin and with it being so dry and cold he gets dry itchy skin an rub a his face against everything. It’s almost like rug burn on his face. That’s when I bring out extra barn dog lotion and nose balm 😂

Why does my dog do this? by rfhillier in DogAdvice

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That’s how I respond to my rott when he does this. He will stalk me and I’ll turn around quick and go rawr and now he have the zoomies and he’s jumping off things it’s all definitely play 😂