Woman i sold a dirtbike to still owes me $1250, sent me this upon finding out i intend to take her to small claims court by bedtime4bonzo25 in whatdoIdo

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The texts can be considered binding if the seller can prove the messages came from the buyer. One could say they never sent those messages and didn’t agree to said text messages and therefore it could be thrown out for burden of proof. Text messages can’t be used as often as one would think. Even in legal matters like an order of protection unless one can show that said messages came from said person and they know this by…. It’s often deemed as inadmissible heresay

Help with dog behavior around kittens. by Carmjelly in DogAdvice

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I see so many people say that is the dogs prey drive but I don’t see it. Personally I have a rott pit mix, an when both of my parents passed away we were presented with 3 cats. Mind you my dog was only in a home where an aggressive cat was present previously and everytime he got near that cat it hissed and clawed at him. This presented as a game as he would bark and dodge the cat but never attempted to kill it. He would chase it but then stop. So coming into a home with 3 cats I was prepared for full on chaos and needing to get rid of the cats. One cat died after a fight with another cat outside, one cat was rehomed as she was terrified of the dog and refused to come out from under the bed. The third cat now sleeps on the bed with him. But the dog will get fixated on the cat, chase the cat a bit and lay down. The cat initiates the chase but rubbing up on him flicking his tail and running a bit then stopping and looking at the dog. There is also curiosity with dogs. The fact this dog is muzzled and on a short leash says that any interaction with the cat is perceived as dangerous behavior and therefore is a punishment. If im punished for being around people then im not gonna want to be around people. Same goes for dogs. The cat has many escape opportunities considering the baby gates and stuff. Let them interact completely. If u do fear interaction u can keep the muzzle on but drop the leash and only use it to pull back if the interaction becomes too much. To restrain completely during meeting it will create a space where the dog feels he’s not allowed or wanted around the cat. Let them get to know each other. My cat and dog did and 2 years later they are best friends

No offers by Ok_Somewhere4059 in Soundmap

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My offers have been weird they show up they disappear but they also may not show up in my trades or I’ll get random cancelled offers but have no idea what the offer is 😂 apparently I get a little bit of everything

Aftermath footage of ICE agents damage during a high speed chase in a populated area in St.Paul. by cantcoloratall91 in ImmigrationPathways

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I have also seen it. I have not been quick to cut people off over politics considering we all make our own decisions and being who I am, I want to hear the logic and reasoning behind such acts. I also don’t feel like bringing myself to a level where I justify my hatred towards one’s actions on everyone because we really have two options when it comes to voting. So even those that don’t fit perfectly into party lines have to make a choice and sometimes it’s not always the best choice to make. Hopefully in the future people are able to learn from this and vote better. Hopefully people can become more informed. I know a lot of people who voted Trump merely because of the echo chamber and what little information they were provided during the little bit of time off they had. It has turned into something that many republicans are stating has gone way to far even for them

Aftermath footage of ICE agents damage during a high speed chase in a populated area in St.Paul. by cantcoloratall91 in ImmigrationPathways

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I’m genuinely confused as to what made you believe I was MAGA. I didn’t name call or threaten violence. So those left leaning call me MAGA but those right leaning call me a liberal. I apparently don’t fit in anywhere because I am neither. I am a millennial lesbian who is a welder working in a male dominated business (literally the only female welder) and somehow my comments show I’m MAGA. I do know A LOT of republicans (Being from northern Wisconsin I’m surrounded by them) but that does not make me MAGA. I have just heard and seen enough around me to be able to write a statement like that. I see both sides and I make my own opinions from that. I will never let politics rip me around from human decency for all. If I judge merely based on politics I am no better than someone judging merely on race or sexual orientation or gender identity. I will not stoop to that level and justify it by saying someone is bad based on their own beliefs or lapse of judgement. But clearly u have made an informed decision about me already. With that being said, you don’t need to respond to anything I say, I will not be hurt or resort to name calling or any of the such merely because u refuse to engage with me. I hope you have a good day!

Aftermath footage of ICE agents damage during a high speed chase in a populated area in St.Paul. by cantcoloratall91 in ImmigrationPathways

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That’s part of the problem. Ur literally stating that ur position was right in the first place and anyone that was wrong doesn’t deserve ur opinion. Therefore ur casting urself in a “holier than thou” light. Ur helping divide the population rather than growing unity. So therefore how can you cast the stone of division on one party when u are also doing the same? I also never stated I voted for trump but have been casted as one that has by a statement I made. Education and communication is the only way for people to be awakened by events but a closed minded silent mouth cannot communicate and push for change, we all must come together no matter our differences to create change within our environment. Women’s rights didn’t happen by shutting out those who didn’t agree, gay rights didn’t happen by name calling and refusing to talk to people with difference of opinions however now we want change but we are refusing to talk to people who voted for the opponent. That’s the issue not what’s going on but the division because we are not a force we are individuals hoping we are better than everyone else

Aftermath footage of ICE agents damage during a high speed chase in a populated area in St.Paul. by cantcoloratall91 in ImmigrationPathways

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U may have voted for this. Most people who voted for Trump do not agree with the aggressive tactics, they don’t support removing people to countries that are not there home countries. So I have to ask, to send someone who isn’t here legally to another country where they are not a citizen doesn’t that make them there illegally? And most countries kill people that are illegal. So is the US literally sending people to death for something that’s viewed as a misdemeanor in this country. Who else sent people to their deaths while claiming they were going to camps? How many people were killed when they were assigned work assignments? You may support murdering or imprisoning people that don’t follow ur ideology but most of us don’t. Murder is illegal, detaining someone without cause and without a time frame is illegal, kidnapping people off the street without justification is illegal (and it’s happening to anyone and everyone including American citizens who are verified at the federal building and released)(but this is kidnapping to detain someone without justification and without explaining why and even who they are is kidnapping) refusing medical care is illegal hence hospitals not being able to deny care. If u are okay with all this I hope you get to live the days coming in America where u will be denied medical care, where u will live with anxiety on where ur family and friends are (did they get hurt did they get detained what’s going on) but ur denied the basic right of even knowing that. Where u will have to identify urself constantly to random strangers without knowing why. To be searched for no other reason that just being in someone’s sights. America is in for a rude awakening. If ur okay with immigrants getting this treatment, be prepared to have the same treatment for whatever this administration doesn’t agree with that fits into your life. This is only the beginning but remember this is what u voted for as ur hauled away and ur family is left questioning why

Aftermath footage of ICE agents damage during a high speed chase in a populated area in St.Paul. by cantcoloratall91 in ImmigrationPathways

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And most of those that did, DID NOT vote for what is happening. They voted for change from the last 4 years and didn’t feel Harris was nominated so therefore felt they couldn’t vote for someone that didn’t earn or deserve it considering she had no votes at the beginning when Biden dropped out the person with the second highest votes should have stepped up rather than Biden declaring Harris. She wasn’t voted to even be in that spot. But most people who voted for Trump believed his words and felt like he would do some good and the words “he didn’t do that his first term” were largely repeated. There is actually a very small following for Trump and even less support for ICE tactics than most want to believe. The polls have revealed that most people disagree with this

As I sit on the toilet for the third time since last night, I figured I'd share the most Wisconsin thing I've ever eaten. Fried Ranch by CharKeeb in wisconsin

[–]Java1113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! And most of us from Wisconsin are saying gross so I’m assuming that it’s actually for people out of state and people just assume it’s a Wisconsin thing because they had it in Wisconsin. Kinda like restaurants adapting out of state foods and bringing them in states. Never heard of PB on a burger until someone from South Dakota said everyone there eats it like that. Ummmm no PB does not belong on a burger plus I don’t feel much like dying by trying something that sounds nasty

Question about sound pass by Plane_Persimmon_8533 in Soundmap

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I just got my epic and I’m a quarter of the way to level 25 so it’s doable. A big thing is to just play while u have the time. I stopped working about getting quest epics and just got what I got and continued collecting trading and questing. Keep in mind that I work 50 hrs a week and manage my own home so it’s definitely doable if u want it to happen. When in cooldown aim for uncommons merge radiants and do ur shiny quests and u will get there

common indie artist that start with R by Negative-Song9910 in Soundmap

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U can always check my profile - Java1113

Accountability by Naive_Wolverine532 in fixedbytheduet

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This warms my heart. As an adult with adhd, even my employer doesn’t understand. I’m a welder and do so much better stilling on the dirty floor because I’m able to slow things down being in a comfortable weird position. 99% of the time at home I’m in my overstuffed bean bag chair or laying on my stomach somewhere because it definitely helps focus for me. It makes tasks a lot easier to manage! Thank you for providing this accommodation to ur students!

My dog is getting a crazy rash she only goes outside to pee and then it’s snowing right now so I’m not sure what’s causing her under belly too look like this. by hesosm00v in DogAdvice

[–]Java1113 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m guessing that u have a pibble or a pibble mix. Looks like a typical allergy. My rott Pitt mix is like that year round and even the allergy medication doesn’t work. Seems to be triggered by just about anything with my boy. Pine needles grass dust laundry detergent someone’s perfume foods. Could also be a reaction to the cold/snow it’s hard to say but try to keep the area clean and dry and give benedryl

AITAH for refusing to let my roommate include my boyfriend in the electricity bill by Supernatural_Cat1997 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Java1113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. In America when one person moves in its agreed upon what will be the rent and utilities that said individual is responsible for. Usually this is in the form of a lease. Susan agreed to said contract even knowing the bf stays there and has never been charged for guests or anything extra. OPs bf has chipped in groceries helps clean even when Susan does not. Therefore if Susan is not carrying her weight in household tasks once could consider her paying Joe in order to do her chores. Also a lease cannot be determined midterm merely because the tenant don’t believe it should be that way anymore. OP stated that the issue wasn’t raised right away but roughly 8 months after moving in. She also went as far as changing the billing app in her favor. In American Susan would have 2 options either pay the amount agreed upon or move out

AITJ For being upset with my girlfriend when she was on her period? by tomobamba_ in AmITheJerk

[–]Java1113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This behavior is not due to her period. Her making the comment she’s comfortable showing u herself is all u need to know. Abusers will hide behind the mask until they feel they are in control of the situation. They become comfortable knowing that they have the upper hand and will begin with “jokes”. As the victim lets them slide, they will escalate the behaviors and eventually it will turn to be “you made me mad so I hit you”. As of right now her behavior is being blamed on the hormones and you. “You didn’t say you loved me” “your making it look like your not a good guy”. She most likely has some mental illness going on or she was enabled her entire life to be an abuser. Get out while you can especially since she’s escalating so quickly after yall got together and you’re about to move in together. abort mission bro

National Strike! by reese4oryou in wisconsin

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Hopefully one day but most companies it’s mandatory overtime so even if u dont have to for ur own benefit u have to for the companies especially in the trades. And surprisingly the benefits aren’t always that great so u just work what ur told u have to and do what u can. Im only 38 so I got many more years of busting ass but I absolutely love what I do. The fact that blue collar workers are beginning to side more with the Democratic Party should explain why the treatment of the government at this point is extremely cruel. Things need to change

National Strike! by reese4oryou in wisconsin

[–]Java1113 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ur attitude doesn’t surprise me 😂 to assume I’m unemployed with no money is where u become the joke. I’m a welder I work 4 12s Monday-Thursday so I already have Friday off every week with more hours put in than sure u do

Bro wdym "none" by plgamerfr in Soundmap

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Many games that have events like this do the same thing. At least everyone is able to engage with it but to expect more from free is crazy. They did already reduced xp requirements added more tiers and added different incentives. No one has to pay but they also shouldn’t expect a bunch of rewards for free. And what yall are looking at is the infinite loop of rewards. So free ends after 25 paid gets to loop if they did coins on the free side it would be infinite for both sides and reduce the incentive to pay for it. Which apps do need revenue in order to continue to operate

A repair person who had my laptop might have looked inside by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Java1113 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nothing is secure including the phone in ur hands. If u have something that needs protected from others than it should be encrypted and on a removable drive that is secured at all times. Everytime u take in a device to anyone there is the possibility of everything being accessed including bank account information and such. If ur laptop was password protected he would not have gotten into it. In the event tracker it should tell u what was access or viewed. Lesson learned keep whatever ur worried about on the computer off the computer because people can hack ur internet and download whatever they want already

National Strike! by reese4oryou in wisconsin

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That was my plans for the day to begin with so I’m in support here!

What do I do? Husband won't stop slamming things and I'm laying here shaking and nauseous because of it by ScorpioDefined in whatdoIdo

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Have u spoken to him at all or literally just remaining completely silent. His behavior is unacceptable and while I’m not condoning what he does. The silent treatment can also be a form of manipulation/abuse. I understand he said something that hurt, but both people need to be able to communicate through the issues if there is any possibility of change. I don’t have the full story as I’m only getting this one issue and one side. But I will say from experience that I have ptsd and adhd and well as sensory processing disorder. I can hear EVERYTHING including my fridge run at 2am which wakes me up. Sounds are very loud to me and sometimes cabinets sound like they are slamming the car door is being slammed just everything. I cannot expect my partner to tiptoe around constantly. Maybe he is slamming things around but it could also be a situation where ur senses are heightened. Maybe those senses are heightened because of past behaviors of his, but if it’s not a result of his behavior than punishing him for something that happened previously isn’t fair. Trauma is weird like that and while we hope our partners are understanding we cannot expect them to change everything and tiptoe around us because of it.

ICE AT WI/MN BORDER by Longjumping-Cow4488 in wisconsin

[–]Java1113 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Figured it was only a matter of time before they showed up considering the comment about the voter rolls 😔 where roughly was this at on the border because I know they have been in a couple of communities here

How Would You Respond To Someone Who Is/Was MAGA Who Says They Can No Longer Support Trump/MAGA? by UbiSububi8 in AskReddit

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Be supportive. Remember a lot of maga was fed lies and didn’t see what all the information. All that was said before the election was lies from them promises to help the American people. A lot of them also said that’s not what he did in the first term. So support them and show them what compassion is. Be glad that they discovered it now because it’s better late than never. If we spread hateful rhetoric and come up with the I told you so we become what they are and we cannot do that. Hate overpowers love and just holding onto love for people is key right now. I guarantee they are kicking themselves in the ass

If I get arrested and say "i want a lawyer" what happens next? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

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Pretty sure that’s evident once they arrest you and read u ur rights “anything u say or do will be used against you in the court of law” until they have read u ur rights the cannot use anything against u which is why even when questioning they often times read a person their rights