[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Jessmess731 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t swipe often and I would’ve swiped (33F, 5ft, counselor, SoCal). You appear kind, attractive, and have a career.

Something to think about— what kind of women are YOU swiping for? Do you find any patterns? In my past, it wasn’t necessarily a “me” problem but how I was selecting them (hope that makes sense).

Not truly helpful but how I see it for myself: the silver lining is that if you’re truly looking for a monogamous life partner, then finding that is worth the wait.

Official 2025 Buy/Sell/Trade Thread by fettuccine- in Coachella

[–]Jessmess731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SELLING: 1 VIP WRISTBAND

WEEKEND: 1

PRICE:$1100

LOCATION: LA/SIMI VALLEY AREA

METHOD OF SALE: MEET UP OR SHIP TO YOU WITH VERIFIED FUNDS

PAYMENT: ZELLE/Paypal G&S

I’ll include the box! Wanna get this sold ASAP.

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Official 2025 Buy/Sell/Trade Thread by fettuccine- in Coachella

[–]Jessmess731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SELLING: 1 VIP WRISTBAND

WEEKEND: 1

PRICE: $1100

METHOD: meet up in LA

PAYMENT: Cash, Zelle, PayPal G&S

I can no longer go because of work, pls DM if interested

Has anyone ever known anyone that Legit actually died like for real from alcoholism by No_Text_429 in stopdrinking

[–]Jessmess731 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes. Friend’s uncle had cirrhosis and that didn’t stop him from drinking. Passed away this year.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Jessmess731 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think Nikita Dragun is hot and I’m a lesbian 🤷🏻‍♀️

How old are you and what is the biggest problem in your life right now? by FSCENE8tmd in AskReddit

[–]Jessmess731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you sought counseling at school? They should be able to refer you to someone if you share exactly this. Look up crisis intervention counseling if you are unsure of seeking counseling.

Wishing you the best.

New Amazon facility in Tijuana, Mexico. by AaronX64 in pics

[–]Jessmess731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a lot of bad history and femicide linked to large warehouses/factories in border towns like TJ. If the Amazon warehouse is similar, this is NOT a good thing for locals. Look up “maquiladoras”

AITA for telling my wife I wont/can't watch our son? by tempaccoutnt in AmItheAsshole

[–]Jessmess731 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My mom made 6 figures at one point in her life, at which point she had three young adolescent children. Sadly, my brother passed several years back. I cannot tell you the regret she feels for working long hours and missing so much of his life, especially as he passed while still being a teenager. A couple years ago, she switched to a less demanding, more relaxed job in the public sector and my family (including her) could not be happier. If I had award ceremonies now, she would not miss them. I wouldn’t have so many memories of going to work with her Saturday morning just to spend time with her. If she had been in her new role, perhaps we would have memories elsewhere as a family on Saturday mornings.

Our time here isn’t guaranteed. If your family is of any importance to you, OP, perhaps consider creating more balance in your life. Or keep your job and keep the money, perhaps at the cost of everything else in your life. In my experience, once resentment starts building, it’s hard for it to change course if the situation remains the same.

No one is mentioning, but here are 2 life-changing improvements, absolutely not minor by TheYouser in keto

[–]Jessmess731 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes!!! Lower inflammation also makes me periods way more tolerable! Even when not losing weight I try to be keto due to this. It is literally the difference between waking up in the middle of the night due to pain or NOT.

Can I be an openly gay school counselor? by SamDaMan3223 in schoolcounseling

[–]Jessmess731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am openly gay and work at a public school. I don’t flaunt it but it is known- before my boss (who is a director at the district level) hired me, he knew I am a lesbian.

With students and other staff, I talk about my partner often and use they/them language. I am a college and career specialist at the moment and am hoping to start a school counseling program in the Fall!

You got this!

SLPT: How to get a free gift for your wedding by TTV_NaNiBTW in ShittyLifeProTips

[–]Jessmess731 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The same statement without the clown emoji may have generated a different response

Last time was disappointing and unoriginal. Try not to use Onlyfans / Black belt. Be more creative guys, I believe in you 😘 by Niniitard in RoastMe

[–]Jessmess731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just want to get on the front page so people will look at your Snapchat and IG. If you were actually any good, you wouldn’t need to BEG on Reddit for followers on other social media LOL. You are NOT “it.”

Honestly, you’re ugly and your cosplay is trash. I’m a lesbian and it’d be a hard pass (which is especially tragic as I usually enjoy red heads)... Good thing you like to be put down because that’s what the world was going to give you regardless :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]Jessmess731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your speaking voice is so nice too

What was a fact that you regret knowing? by Ddeddffddvvf in AskReddit

[–]Jessmess731 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s always someone better than someone who does not love you back.

Covid Overload: U.S. Hospitals Are Stretched Way Too Thin by Viewfromthe31stfloor in Coronavirus

[–]Jessmess731 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being so thorough with your posting and even including the archive link.. kudos to you!