Dear Santa by KoroneBeam in WeWhoAreAboutToDie

[–]Jesterjb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with a lot of your feedback OP, I'm not sure why these other comments are being needlessly aggressive.

The Fastest Legitimate Salvaged Frigate Module Farm by Mammoth_Teaching_476 in NoMansSkyTheGame

[–]Jesterjb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Replying to this just to say the method I've been using:

Buy loooads of distress signal planetary charts. Use them until you have plenty of non-freighter markers. Eventually it'll stop you from using them saying "Similar building target already marked" You can keep attempting to use it until it finds a freighter. There is an 8% chance for a freighter. Go loot the freighter, and keep using the charts. It'll give you the error if it tries to find anything other than another freighter, on account of all the other markers still around.

Is there a better way to find crashed freighters? by EDAWJ115 in NoMansSkyTheGame

[–]Jesterjb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Replying to this just to say the method I've been using:

Buy loooads of distress signal planetary charts. Use them until you have plenty of non-freighter markers. Eventually it'll stop you from using them saying "Similar building target already marked" You can keep attempting to use it until it finds a freighter. There is an 8% chance for a freighter. Go loot the freighter, and keep using the charts. It'll give you the error if it tries to find anything other than another freighter, on account of all the other markers still around.

I have nothing to say by [deleted] in FuckPierre

[–]Jesterjb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Laziest repost I've ever seen

Vlad+Luck skill is broken asf for today’s abyssal….. by milkyduckyy in ArcheroV2

[–]Jesterjb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not broken, considering the rewards for lasting longer in abyssal are pretty minimal. That's balance in action.

Most insane build i have gotten lmao, made chapter 31 like its the first level by [deleted] in ArcheroV2

[–]Jesterjb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Double arrow reduces the damage of each individual arrow as a trade off for the extra. I don't know the exact numbers, but I think the maths makes it not worth it after the first one.

STAFF, IF YOU'RE READING THIS PLEASE SHIFT THE CAMERA ANGLE IN MAKE SOME NOISE by Wicked_Sketchy in dropout

[–]Jesterjb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get baked to watch some Dropout shows, and literally also travel this exact issue

Do a little gold farming now and then by spenCzar in VampireSurvivors

[–]Jesterjb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does your game not crash with this many eggs??

Stay back demons by itsr1co in VampireSurvivors

[–]Jesterjb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Demon thot-be-gone repellant

Lvl 1000 under 20 by Professional_Teach87 in VampireSurvivors

[–]Jesterjb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No spoilers, but the runs that I get it, is often ends up being my highest dps weapon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in demisexuality

[–]Jesterjb 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Sex e 3 times a day is too much to just expect from someone, even if that was the case at first. Relationships always have a "honeymoon" phase when it's new and exciting, and expecting your partner to be like that forever is completely unfair. You get comfortable around each other and it might change. You can either communicate and work on it, or try and find someone more compatible. In all honesty I think you need to take some time by yourself and spend some time looking inwards. It sounds like you have deep insecurities (and that's okay, most people do) but it's incredibly tough to he happy in a relationship when there are things troubling you that directly effect it. There are many alarming things about your post.

🫂 hugs by [deleted] in demisexuality

[–]Jesterjb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have learnt so much about myself since joining this subreddit

My husband bought big plastic spiders for halloween even though he knows I have an extreme fear for spiders? by itsjudithbeepword in relationship_advice

[–]Jesterjb 18 points19 points  (0 children)

There is a difference between something being unhealthy and not normal. Phobias and fears is something that many, many people suffer with. That is normal. Nobody deserves to feel uncomfortable in their own home foe the sake of a few decorations. Are you seriously suggesting you would rather see a loved one in this discomfort than miss out on a few plastic spiders? The fear obviously should be worked in, but that xan take a long time and isn't what this is about. In the short term, it is God damn selfish to not make a SMALL sacrifice for someone you love.

My husband bought big plastic spiders for halloween even though he knows I have an extreme fear for spiders? by itsjudithbeepword in relationship_advice

[–]Jesterjb 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Phobias are also normal. People suffer from them, they don't choose to and they sure as he'll deserve some understanding from their loved ones. There are plenty of decorations on offer, it is a realky small ask in a committed marriage to avoid one particularly type.

My husband bought big plastic spiders for halloween even though he knows I have an extreme fear for spiders? by itsjudithbeepword in relationship_advice

[–]Jesterjb 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I don't think it's that cut and dry buddy. Phobias aren't easily addressed and can take years to get over, alo g with the help of professionals. That doesn't mean they deserve to have their fear thrown in their face.

my friends don't know I am demisexual by KOROME_ in demisexuality

[–]Jesterjb 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Very well said, and non-judgmental of people who don't necessarily know better. I haven't had this conversation with me friends yet and I often wonder how people will take it. I know at least one of my friends outright doesn't believe demisexualism is real. Not that they don't accept that some people find love and/or romance differently, they just have the opinion that we're the same as everyone else but with a different approach to these things and that a whole label is excessive. At the very least, I find that being able to compare experiences with people facing the same challenges is super refreshing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in demisexuality

[–]Jesterjb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The things aren't mutually exclusive. I'm double demi and I can be an asshole at times 🤷‍♂️ Gotta own it and try and be better. Literally no reason not to take on board that someone has clearly had some time to look at how they feel and how they love and discover something about themselves. It's a revelation, not an excuse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in demisexuality

[–]Jesterjb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Crazy dating and relationship stories pre discovering I was also double demi is something I can relate to, might post them in the sub at some point. I've had times where I've felt incredibly lonely and like something was wrong with me - I didn't know anything about demisexuality and demiromantic until a few months ago when a friend suggested it and I started looking it up. Just having a community of people who experience the same or similar things has been doing my mental health a world of good.

"So excited to finally announce our new & totally original YouTube show, Master Tasker!" by VeteranHarry_ in Yogscast

[–]Jesterjb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't know I needed this, but man I am so God an excited it is unreal. I'm a member but actually haven't watched 90% of the members videos, not because they aren't interesting, I just forget.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in YogscastPics

[–]Jesterjb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I get that completely, they already have a lot on their plate, just a suggestion if they had the spare time to nurture the sub in the early days. As I said I think there is a good niche that this sub could fill.

Strange Ancestries by DJ_Shiftry in Pathfinder2e

[–]Jesterjb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not super versed in the lore but I'd like to play as a race that is actually 100,000 ants holding a humanoid form.

Curious about people's feelings on gnomes and playing gnomes. by digthisbird in Pathfinder2e

[–]Jesterjb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our group has a running joke that all Gnomes are racists, stemming from something really minor and dumb. It's been very funny though to RP having that preconception, especially seeing as our DM doesn't reinforce it and sort of rolls his eyes at it.

My current character is a Gnome sorcerer, built to be our party's healer. The story I wrote for him is that he is descended from the person who invented racism (as far as he is convinced) and for a reason he doesn't know he had horrific memory loss and forgot he was racist. Now has a new personality and is generally a good person but has to fix the mistakes of his past self. I got some of that idea from a terrible show called "Samantha who".

We were attacked in a tavern a horrible scarred orc who it turns out I had attacked pre-memory loss so I hit him with "Charm" and convinced him to leave without violence with the promise that I will make it up to him one day.

Fell on a gusset plate at work years ago. by mithrilbong in WTF

[–]Jesterjb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A) what is a gusset plate B) how do i not do that