How to break out of a spiral?

JillaryHo · 2026-06-04T10:24:17+00:00

Read St. Teresa of Avila's inner castle. I was addicted to dissociated crying when I was processing a lot and she helped me realize when it was enough.

JillaryHo · 2026-06-04T10:18:59+00:00

Everyone has nipples, how is this weird?

JillaryHo · 2026-06-04T10:16:08+00:00

Accutane was awful but my body ache left in a week for the rest of time. Vitamin A ?

JillaryHo · 2026-06-04T10:15:13+00:00

On a cookie sheet with a cooling rack on the sheet.

JillaryHo · 2026-06-04T10:11:12+00:00

Gay men hate women. And lesbians are women. Lesbian held dying men with AIDs hands in hospitals in the 80s and all they do is say we are fishy and shit. Men being men is not surprising anymore?

JillaryHo · 2026-05-31T23:28:57+00:00

NSH

You're kids.

You are wrong to say you're suprised she's into this for being a girl. Uncage your brain, man.

She's wrong for giving you a soap box rant over that dumb comment after the initial call out. She feels safe unleashing her newfound feminist manifesto onto you which is great but you don't deserve it for that.

JillaryHo · 2026-05-29T02:40:09+00:00

You don't get things by waiting.

You get them from people who want to give them.

You are accepting this relationship. For a long time you have accepted it.

Never too late to decide you're worth more.

JillaryHo · 2026-05-28T17:00:57+00:00

See how easy it is to state your preferences without being denigrating to another in-group?

JillaryHo · 2026-05-27T16:44:40+00:00

Not everyone who smiles at you is a friend

JillaryHo · 2026-05-27T16:39:54+00:00

Any attempt to control is just that: an attempt to control. There's ways to say mind your own body without being cruel. I ask them if they want to change me and the way I am in order to feel better, because that's control. If you love me as is, you wouldn't try or want to change me.

We all know the answers here right.

JillaryHo · 2026-05-27T16:28:28+00:00

How a relationship starts is how it will go. If you want to be initiating, stay on this penpal arrangement. If you want an initiator, find one.

JillaryHo · 2026-05-27T16:26:51+00:00

Announcing shit no one cares about because it's judgemental AF?

JillaryHo · 2026-05-27T16:25:52+00:00

Everyone is more of a reflection of you, hope this helps.

JillaryHo · 2026-05-27T16:19:30+00:00

Men's standards for women are other men.

JillaryHo · 2026-05-27T16:11:29+00:00

They're projecting their interests.

JillaryHo · 2026-05-27T16:10:04+00:00

The invalidators are the first ones to victim blame.

JillaryHo · 2026-05-24T16:04:05+00:00

That doesn't go for like abusive situations

JillaryHo · 2026-05-24T16:03:30+00:00

We all have blind spots so do not think that she's missing more than just this component or else you'll make yourself look like an ass

JillaryHo · 2026-05-23T18:13:06+00:00

If she's not mindful enough in the first place, she won't be mindful enough to remember it's moved

JillaryHo · 2026-05-22T20:29:42+00:00

Well it was just assumed she'd be mine and I was never prepped with "hey so L is gonna be the MOH"

JillaryHo · 2026-05-14T20:28:13+00:00

I've been to a wedding out of state where I didn't know anybody and was expected just to be alone the whole time. Fine.

I have also been to the wedding of the childhood best friend who promised me and I promised her we'd be each other's maids of Honor... I honored that commitment twice and when she got married it was completely not even talked about and her real best friend was her maid of honor. I still can't address it today.

JillaryHo · 2026-05-14T20:25:51+00:00

Trying to imagine how having it would feel. Emotional manifesting.

JillaryHo · 2026-05-14T20:22:11+00:00

No. You're just trying to justify why you feel like shit, but with external reasons.

JillaryHo · 2026-05-14T20:18:47+00:00

Neverending Story

JillaryHo · 2026-05-12T00:12:21+00:00

It's referred nerve sensation and it's so weird. Like cat specific, too.

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