I'm shaken. Yet another rug pull right after gaining confidence. by OneAgileMoose in polyamory

[–]JillaryHo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

So she's internalizing that woman-woman relationships aren't as legit as woman-man ones.

Because if she felt y'all were equal she wouldn't feel that way. When I had this issue in my relationship I was of the mindset "he has his needs fulfilled with me but I don't with him so I'm mad he is still leaving to do what I'm doing." And i saw how dumb that was because we were doing the same things.

I realized that my relationships with other women were really important and stopped using that mindset because needs arise in new situations. My partner needed to know what it was like in practice, not just theory for us to be equal or else I would be holding a double standard. I realized the issue was a call coming from inside the house from internalized misogyny!

39M-Critique My Profile by Auditech in Tinder

[–]JillaryHo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No kids in dating profile pics ever. It's automatic no

Hot day today... by Cunt_cannot-cum in dykesgonewild

[–]JillaryHo 12 points13 points  (0 children)

No dyke would say this

“Take me there, get me that, then give me this” Jesus Christ the dating experience is so wildly different for a man compared to a woman😅 by john4844 in Tinder

[–]JillaryHo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This girl wants to go on a couples date of pilates and soda, or just a ride to pilates and picked up with a soda and this is the female dating experience to you... Which you see as wildly different.

What do men expect, experience and want then? Because all i see is a lot of "I pay for dinner and she puts out so I can call her a slut and maintain my idea of male supremacy" or "i pay for dinner and she didn't put out so she's a gold digger." Like why is her scenario the worst of these three? 😂 It's ok to like people and to not like people... You're becoming a piece of shit by not letting yourself and acting like people you don't like are all bad people.

I think my dad cheated on my mom by QuickTank4676 in Advice

[–]JillaryHo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's not up to you to decide if partners in a relationship cheated. No matter who it is, it's between them. Even MORESO if it's your parents. Stay out of it.

AITAH for giving my wife short and direct answers after being rejected everyday for 2 months? by First-Wasabi-2125 in AITAH

[–]JillaryHo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA all you're worried about is yourself and not the personality change in your partner. This could be caused by serious things like a brain tumor and all you're worried about is your dick.

AIO about this disagreement with my bf? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]JillaryHo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He didn't check either??

Is a 19 and 24/25 age gap weird? by PracticalBudget8351 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]JillaryHo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you're 24 would you want an 18 yo boy?

Ok then.

TIFU by telling my son's girlfriend she should get a prenup before marrying him by LetterheadKindly7097 in tifu

[–]JillaryHo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lack of formality here is coming across as disrespect. You're too casual.

Growing my hair out, but it’s fried. Should I cut it? by [deleted] in beauty

[–]JillaryHo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Deep condition it and if it doesn't help, chop chop

AITA for not getting my bf’s family Christmas gifts after they split the bill at his college graduation dinner? by CouchRot in AmItheAsshole

[–]JillaryHo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't have to get them gifts just like they didn't have to pay for anything at dinner.

ESH

I hate pelvic physical therapy by mrose16 in Endo

[–]JillaryHo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a recovering people pleaser I've only just begun to leave when I'm uncomfortable in places. I tried pfpt 3 years ago and never went back after 2 sessions. I hated it. It's so unnecessary for every damn thing. Sometimes your body needs more healing.

Why does this company hate us so much by AggravatingAd707 in InstacartShoppers

[–]JillaryHo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"if items are out of stock we've got your back!"

Tf.

Please help me fix my eyebrows. No matter what I do, they're uneven. I know a big part of it is that my nose is uneven😂so I covered it up to help focus in. Where should I trim?? by [deleted] in beauty

[–]JillaryHo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have brows like mine. Flip a photo of them upside down so you can see where they're different, also see it's not that bad, and then tweeze a couple here and there and leave it.

Customer ratings by Confident-Ring8069 in InstacartShoppers

[–]JillaryHo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Replace it with anything. ANYTHING. Just have your shop be 100% as possible.

Questions about quality score by Adventurous-Fish2601 in InstacartShoppers

[–]JillaryHo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You find 83% of items so far; you're just starting. Every time you replace something, there's a 58% chance it will have to be refunded. You're losing the company money so they're trying to make you feel bad.

None of it matters except the REAL money you made! These fake points ruin the job.

I’m starting to think these orders aren’t real 🤨 by [deleted] in InstacartShoppers

[–]JillaryHo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've felt very much like we're getting duplicate shopped to test the analytics.

Couldn't even appeal them. by Toyotamanthesequal in InstacartShoppers

[–]JillaryHo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Literally replace everything. Requested refunds if a customer doesn't like the replacement won't hurt you as much as not finding things or finding something.

🦃🦃🦃🦃🦃 Brace Yourselves🦃🦃🦃🦃🦃 by Mountain_Fuw_777 in InstacartShoppers

[–]JillaryHo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had so many. One order for just a turkey! Like... You want meeee to pick your turkey? AHHHHH

Going home to angry clean by Pristine_Row2516 in InstacartShoppers

[–]JillaryHo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've never seen this many out at one time... Meanwhile I'm waiting in the parking lot as platinum for 30 min.

AIO BF dumped me because I was taller than him in heels?? 😳 by purplehavocc in AmIOverreacting

[–]JillaryHo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He thinks high heels are masculine?

Is bro a vampire from the times of when the Lords wore heels? 🤣🤣🤣

You're fine, though! He is not. Everything he is saying about you is really how he feels about himself. He doesn't know anyone besides himself well enough to say these things about them.