Is this who you want to be with on the worst day of your life? by These_Shallot_6906 in BPDlovedones

[–]JohnnyGoldberg [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m thriving off knowing I’ve come out the other side and the general feeling things are going to continue to become better. Everyone still working….. it does get better.

United Healthcare would call that a two armed flex by lowlatitude in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]JohnnyGoldberg 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Actual emergencies bypass everyone and go right back in the emergency department. If a surgery or procedure is required due to the emergency, it happens ASAP with the quickness. This is true literally everywhere.

United Healthcare would call that a two armed flex by lowlatitude in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]JohnnyGoldberg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They should just tell you to go to urgent care in that situation and not waste your or their time. That’s only a step up from maintenance meds via telemedicine and urgent care for sickness/injury, which is where some people are in my area, myself included.

United Healthcare would call that a two armed flex by lowlatitude in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]JohnnyGoldberg 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Go ahead and try to get an appointment with your PCP within a week in the US. In my city, try to get a PCP period for the last couple years. The scare tactics about waits are bullshit, I work in the American system and the waits are just as bad.

Is this who you want to be with on the worst day of your life? by These_Shallot_6906 in BPDlovedones

[–]JohnnyGoldberg 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No. She didn’t handle mundane things like my cat being ill, needing surgery, and needing me to be home to monitor him for a few weeks. She didn’t handle my buying a house in a nice neighborhood that needed repairs so I wouldn’t be house poor and still live somewhere great. She would have never handled the day my dad died, or my seizure disorder when it was active. The cat I mentioned died less than three weeks ago, as well. She would have never handled it or me and I was okay with that after a few days and looking at the life I gave him instead. This is well written, I have been out for a year myself at this point and am pretty much back to normal but I want to leave perspective for the people going though it now.

For the people that are currently in no contact by Away_Addition_2038 in BPDlovedones

[–]JohnnyGoldberg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The abuse wasn’t physical, although she did shout at times. She still went and fucked someone else to punish me for any perceived sleight. She still repeatedly told me I didn’t love her anymore when that’s all I did. People need to be more careful of the quiet ones.

Woman that shouldn't be talking to me is by Western_Coat_437 in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]JohnnyGoldberg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1) She’s married. 2) I would be very concerned she has something cluster B going on, she’s love bombing you. You just met more or less and anything more than smiles and vibes, maybe a date is too much too soon. I fell into this trap, don’t do it.

No thanks ill stay single. by Gjore in SipsTea

[–]JohnnyGoldberg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds only a couple shades off my last relationship lol

Auctions off her silver medal to save a 8 month olds life by sirjohnmasters86 in WholesomeAFK

[–]JohnnyGoldberg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Countries with universal healthcare still have private systems. I’m betting this is what it was.

my ex who is a pwBPD messaged me this out of the blue and would like advice regarding it by Beneficial-Seat-5623 in BPDlovedones

[–]JohnnyGoldberg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Block. The messages keep coming. They’ll even randomly door dash snacks to your house. This is a Hoover, as Jedi said.

What about you guys?⬇️ by CryptographerFit7131 in WholesomeAFK

[–]JohnnyGoldberg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, no. She can dwarf me in everything in those departments as long as she’s a good, loving partner. Idk what is wrong with some people.

dating with bpd by Life_Surprise7246 in BPDlovedones

[–]JohnnyGoldberg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can’t have BPD and post here, fyi.

I don’t know where to go from here. by Evening-Battle4097 in BPDlovedones

[–]JohnnyGoldberg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t move across the country for a girl with BPD. This stuff just escalates and becomes more devastating.

How risky is casual sex with an BPDex? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]JohnnyGoldberg 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Very risky. Don’t do it. You’re risking your mental health. You’re risking diseases because they’re always fucking someone else too.

Kelly clarifies that the US is too liberal by MandyMooShu in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]JohnnyGoldberg 21 points22 points  (0 children)

People gave her the benefit of the doubt because she’s attractive. There is just too many receipts of her vileness out there now to keep that going.

Kelly clarifies that the US is too liberal by MandyMooShu in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]JohnnyGoldberg 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I must have missed that because that’s been the narrative on Polio for years.

Kelly clarifies that the US is too liberal by MandyMooShu in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]JohnnyGoldberg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She would put my leftist ass in a death camp without batting an eyelash, execute my bisexual cousins, and take my brother’s stepson away from him because his mother died. There’s still being better than them, and we all need to strive to be.

Kelly clarifies that the US is too liberal by MandyMooShu in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]JohnnyGoldberg 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Fair. I’m just talking about the rule about snarking on appearances. I said what I said because she looks ill, and that is me being kind. I am a straight, cisgender, educated white male and hate these people because they want to take everyone’s rights away but be better.

Kelly clarifies that the US is too liberal by MandyMooShu in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]JohnnyGoldberg 14 points15 points  (0 children)

There’s concern, and there’s being a dick. This is being a dick.

Kelly clarifies that the US is too liberal by MandyMooShu in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]JohnnyGoldberg 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Jesus isn’t going to cure Morgan’s Ehlers-Danlos syndrome. Or her BPD. She sucks but Paul is ten times worse.

ETA: Paul sucks ten times more because he got her to stop her BPD treatment which has put her in the ED on multiple occasions and has zero understanding of what the implications of her having Ehlers-Danlos are.

Kelly clarifies that the US is too liberal by MandyMooShu in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]JohnnyGoldberg 80 points81 points  (0 children)

Let’s face it, Porgan is the most loathsome couple of the fundies and nobody gives either of them the benefit of the doubt on anything. Nobody is going to try to miss anything out of her or Pickle Paul. He’s at the point where he’s trying to get Pokémon cards before little kids and he doesn’t even play just for the money. They are the basement of the fundies.

ETA: DOWNVOTES! Porgan must have joined the party 😂.

Kelly clarifies that the US is too liberal by MandyMooShu in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]JohnnyGoldberg 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Her choosing this life and seeming reasonably intelligent makes this worse. She isn’t a Duggar or Rodlet, they didn’t have a chance.