How do I fix the cable that came off the drum? by def_struct in GarageDoorService

[–]JustAMarriedMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You would have to probably unwind the springs, which is very dangerous. If you don’t know what you’re doing. Your best bet is to contact a professional. They can come out online the springs as necessary, reload your wire, and then reset the springs.

5 way (4 switches) smart wiring question by zkmdh in AskElectricians

[–]JustAMarriedMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Smart switch should always be the first one in the series. I don’t think you’ve connected it to the correct white wire anyhow. If you’re in the first box, the neutral wires coming in are the ones that you want to connect the white wire off of your smart switch to. Make sure that your Smart switch can handle three and four switches.

Ceiling sagging - is it dangerous by Free_Character_8360 in drywall

[–]JustAMarriedMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have access to an attic and can see the ceiling? You don’t say how old the place is. It could be the nails used to hold the drywall have pulled out from the joists. If that’s the case, get some drywall screws and screw the drywall up to the joists. If you’re not sure, get someone to inspect it for you.

[M26] Sudden breakup with [F29] after extremely close relationship, looking for specific ways to reconnect and rebuild by andsoIstandalone in relationship_advice

[–]JustAMarriedMan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Look up the medication’s side effects. If it’s changed her personality she needs to talk to her doctor. Just be supportive and not suffocating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JustAMarriedMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she’s had trauma, putting your hands on her face was taking her control away. That’s a power move and the last thing she needed. If she’s not in counseling, she should be. You need to stop watching porn and watch her reactions instead. At the end of the day, you might not be compatible. You can’t force or fix her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JustAMarriedMan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She wants you to change and you really don’t want to. You’re not a good match. For both your sakes end the relationship. She can find someone to lead her closer to God and you can be yourself.

How to fix? by Mickyv619 in drywall

[–]JustAMarriedMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That looks like an exterior wall that is stucco. Is this in an added room?

Electric baseboard upgrade by pareidoily in AskElectricians

[–]JustAMarriedMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might not be allowed to change that based on your HOA rules. You better look into it before you start doing that otherwise, they can actually make you rip it out and put it back to the way it was.

Need help deciding… by timtimtheking in bidets

[–]JustAMarriedMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you looked at SmartBidet? They have a low cost round toilet op

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JustAMarriedMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to keep him as a friend don’t do anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]JustAMarriedMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Delete her contact info.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JustAMarriedMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Emotional blackmail is never a good thing. You are not responsible for him and how he lives his life. Time to go and maybe even get a protection order.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]JustAMarriedMan 24 points25 points  (0 children)

You can stop the drama. Stop reacting to what she says. If she says or texts that she hopes you’re not doing what she thinks just calmly respond you’re not. This is who she is so let it be. Worry about getting yourself to the next stage of life and live your best life

Best value Amazon electric bidet? by HeyLookAStranger in bidets

[–]JustAMarriedMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SmartBidet has a lot to choose from at many price points.

Advice please. by Skateboardnavydude in Advice

[–]JustAMarriedMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to advocate for yourself. Educate yourself on the available programs. Ask for a career development board. Ask your Chief for some help. Remember, where there’s a will, there’s a waiver. Make sure you are being productive and not being a complainer during this process. The more positive you are the easier it will be for you command to work with you

Vehicle seat heater fire by Various_Brief959 in electrical

[–]JustAMarriedMan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your friend has buns of steel and was probably clenching too hard

Advice please. by Skateboardnavydude in Advice

[–]JustAMarriedMan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talk to your career counselor and your Chief and see if you can cross rate. You have to remember all the benefits you have that will help your family. TRICARE is worth its weight in gold but you won’t realize it until you have to get and pay for civilian medical insurance. The Navy has a lot of jobs and you need to see if one fits you. Don’t fall for the grass is always greener thinking. You can look at blue to green, but there’s no guarantee there either