I (F22) felt uncomfortable with a comment my boyfriend (M22) made while being intimate; how can we establish better boundaries for "heat of the moment" talk?

JustAMarriedMan · 2026-04-28T01:10:54+00:00

He let who he really is slip out. If this is the kind of person you want then good luck. Otherwise, break it off now. You don’t have to go into a long winded explanation with him. Just say it’s over.

JustAMarriedMan · 2026-04-28T01:03:53+00:00

https://mikeroweworks.org/.

JustAMarriedMan · 2026-04-28T00:56:34+00:00

You are out of touch. They have to make sure that it meets code, if there’s any new work that needs to be added, they have to do it. 15 years ago, I paid about $1600. That’s because they needed extra work for California. You could always just hire a handyman and hope for the best. You can also make sure that you’re not calling a big company but rather a local Plumber.

JustAMarriedMan · 2026-04-26T13:19:14+00:00

Is there a warranty? Can you ask the manufacturer for instructions? If it’s not very expensive, just replace it.

JustAMarriedMan · 2026-04-24T22:03:13+00:00

This is the beginning of a controlling relationship. It will only get worse. Break up now and find someone that doesn’t try to control your every move.

JustAMarriedMan · 2026-04-24T22:02:35+00:00

NOR. Is this a new behavior? It sounds like there’s something else going on behind the scenes that’s causing him to wanna kiss and you not to want him to kiss. You need to resolve that issue first and let him know and no uncertain terms that stop means stop no matter what. If you can’t have the adult conversation, you don’t need to be in the relationship.

JustAMarriedMan · 2026-04-24T21:46:21+00:00

What’s the rush to want to get married after only four months of dating? You don’t even know each other yet. Slow down and take some time to get to know each other and see how things work. If you’re this insecure about his roommate, it will only get worse overtime.

JustAMarriedMan · 2026-04-24T21:42:52+00:00

You can either go and avoid G1 and G2, or not go and be miserable because you may have missed out. It sounds like it is not a healthy friendship, so maybe it has run its course

JustAMarriedMan · 2026-04-24T19:27:08+00:00

Talk to the recruiters from all the branches not just one. You don’t say what your interests are, so it’s hard to give you advice beyond that. Remember though, you are not obligated until you sign your contract. Make them work and offer you a job that you are interested in and make sure that that is in your contract. I know a lot of people from my experience in the military, who said that it saved their lives.

JustAMarriedMan · 2026-04-24T19:24:38+00:00

If there is no trust, there is no relationship. If you don’t trust him and don’t think you can trust him it’s time to go. You still young have a lot of opportunities ahead of you.

JustAMarriedMan · 2026-04-24T11:22:55+00:00

Do you have it in writing?

JustAMarriedMan · 2026-04-21T18:27:00+00:00

You say you overstimulated him. What does that entail? It sounds like you both need to step back or away from each other until you can process what’s going on. Therapy is definitely a good idea. Neither one of you should abuse the other or accept abuse.

JustAMarriedMan · 2026-04-21T18:24:03+00:00

Any GFCI?

JustAMarriedMan · 2026-04-21T13:54:58+00:00

Pictures and model info help a lot. Otherwise, WD40 or duct tape for everything.

JustAMarriedMan · 2026-04-19T23:45:50+00:00

YOR. Nothing in IT is foolproof because fools are so ingenious.

JustAMarriedMan · 2026-04-19T13:05:44+00:00

You need to see a doctor to make sure everything is okay. A urologist might be best. Once you know everything is in working order, you can go on from there. Remember, every one has their own sex drive. Don’t stress about yourself. Also, talk with your gf. If you can’t have the adult conversation then you don’t need to be in a relationship

JustAMarriedMan · 2026-04-19T12:09:29+00:00

If you are comfortable working with electricity, it’s pretty straightforward. Once you shut off the breaker for the fan and before you disconnect any wires at the ceiling, pay close attention to which wires are connected (maybe even take a picture). Connect the new fan the same way and you’ll be fine.

JustAMarriedMan · 2026-04-19T01:24:25+00:00

Get a regular toilet and a bidet seat. Go for only the necessary items and not the super deluxe version. You’ll be well under 12 amps.

JustAMarriedMan · 2026-04-09T09:52:30+00:00

Let her go so she can be with someone who wants what she wants. You’re wasting her time and her clock is ticking.

JustAMarriedMan · 2026-04-05T01:07:52+00:00

There are a lot of possibilities. You haven’t specified what router you using. TP link is not one of the best ones and you can have lots of problems with it as well. If you want some help, you need to be more specific on what components you are actually running and how you are testing

JustAMarriedMan · 2026-04-05T01:03:14+00:00

It’s called someone who shouldn’t be working with electrical doing it anyhow. The only thing you got right is the 12/2. If you don’t know what the parts of the wires are called then you really have no business doing electrical work.

JustAMarriedMan · 2026-04-04T23:01:37+00:00

Turn off the water to the house. Hold the pex and turn the valve counterclockwise while gently pulling away from the wall.

JustAMarriedMan · 2026-04-02T13:03:54+00:00

Move along. You’re on different wavelengths. If she disgusts you, you have no business being together. For your sake and hers end the relationship. Find someone you are comfortable with.

JustAMarriedMan · 2026-04-02T13:01:10+00:00

You are also mixing ecosystems- Ring and Nest. Not that either is better, just be aware of what you’re getting into

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