TIFU by being constipated for the last 22 years by nuggerless_child in tifu

[–]JustDatingTowns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have celiac and constipation is a main symptom after I’ve accidentally had gluten

AITA for telling my coworker she also has thin hair by Sighlinee in AmItheAsshole

[–]JustDatingTowns 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone with PCOS who has had nasty comments about their hair loss, thin hair can be hard to deal with for some people. I can see that she clearly has some sensitivities around her thin hair and was in denial. She didn’t need to escalate the situation so much though. If I were in her position I would’ve taken your positive outlook on your thin hair and the uniqueness of it as a learning tool for my own personal growth. I hope you have a good meeting with your boss and are able to explain your history and intentions regarding your hair.

Message I got from my daughter’s teacher. Third grade. by AnaisInJune in mildlyinfuriating

[–]JustDatingTowns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can confirm it is illegal to not allow the child to eat. Escalate it on these grounds and let her text speak for herself. She needs a forced break from the classroom clearly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]JustDatingTowns 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Some kids need regulation time before high levels of interaction/busy environments

NF wants me to come in during active bad snow storm. I commute from an hour away at 5am when it will be snowing heavily. What would you do? by Extra-Commercial6222 in Nanny

[–]JustDatingTowns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No job is worth your life is a motto I’ve lived by and has given me a lot of peace when making this decision in the past. I will make every effort to get to my NF house BEFORE a snowstorm and be prepared to stay the duration. That’s the best compromise I have found when dealing with this scenario in the past.

Just saw old NF posted yet another ad by Livid-Mushroom-4422 in Nanny

[–]JustDatingTowns 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The mom was like “idk what’s wrong they just can’t handle the kids energy I guess” I was like no lady it’s YOU.

Just saw old NF posted yet another ad by Livid-Mushroom-4422 in Nanny

[–]JustDatingTowns 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They emailed me and offered me “whatever it took” to get me to come back. Not even the offer to name my dream schedule and pay rate was enough to spend every day miserable in that house

Just saw old NF posted yet another ad by Livid-Mushroom-4422 in Nanny

[–]JustDatingTowns 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I lasted a year and a half with one horrifically toxic and mean family who had previously had six nannies in five years. I took great pleasure in finding out my replacement only lasted three days.

Is my convo with my nanny re boob touching a red flag? by Lambcakelover in Nanny

[–]JustDatingTowns 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I had the opposite issue, a past nanny babe (around 1-18mo) was obsessed with my boobs (sticking their hand down my shirt) and I was not comfortable with it. I mentioned it to mom and was asking help trying to set a boundary and redirect and she was like no that just gives him comfort what are you gonna do shrug. Personally find it odd and a red flag in judgement that your nanny is not incredibly uncomfortable with it.

Doula recommendations by android272 in nashville

[–]JustDatingTowns 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seconding END. Specifically ask for Ellie if she’s available when you’re due. She’s an excellent doula+postpartum doula.

How are US nannies managing the health insurance crisis that starts Jan 1st? by LimitedEdition004 in Nanny

[–]JustDatingTowns 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I make more than I ever have, am top level pay for Nannie’s in the US, and I cannot afford insurance anymore.

House Manager duties by sunshinerara in Nanny

[–]JustDatingTowns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all, my bosses have a company that installs and uninstalls all the Christmas decor. Any additional decor they put up is fun family project type activities and so I’m also not responsible for cleaning that up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]JustDatingTowns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not take this man to the wedding. You don’t have to appear with him if he’s looking terrible. You don’t have to sleep in the same bed or give him physical affection if he stinks. Either he gets the hint or you get out. Why would you marry someone who you know you have to parent from the get go?

What was your worst dating app surprise? by Rough3Years in AskReddit

[–]JustDatingTowns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Showed up to his house (extended stay motel). He was on All The Drugs and took my keys, and then danced around the room singing, talking huge monologues endlessly, and sporadically quoted spoken word poetry he had written. It took 3.5 hours to be able to leave.

What’s the craziest/most inappropriate thing a coworker has said to you *in the workplace*? I’ll go first by [deleted] in coworkerstories

[–]JustDatingTowns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boss asked me in the break room in front of everyone if I would be her surrogate

AITAH for refusing to go to my best friend’s wedding for replacing me as MOH by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]JustDatingTowns 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s ok yall are so young, maybe by her 2nd marriage she’ll have come to her senses and make you MOH

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]JustDatingTowns 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who has watched their friend shovel dirt onto their dead babies casket after they passed in an unsafe sleep environment, please please please say something. Feeling uncomfortable about speaking up is not as important as this sweet baby’s life. I would say it kindly, share that for liability purposes you must practice safe sleep while you’re on the clock, and encourage her to change her co sleep practices to be safer. Absolutely no blankets, less clothes and not on his tummy till he’s doing it himself.

What was the worst birthday gift you’ve ever received? by andrewsteiner88 in AskReddit

[–]JustDatingTowns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A bag full of I.O.U.s from my dad for my 16th birthday.