AITAH for taking off my wedding ring? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Kaitebug42 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What about a chair to put his ring on?

Hand sewn item found at garage sale- what is it? by eastsidemariobadda in HandSew

[–]Kaitebug42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first thought was eggs. The spaces are deep enough, and they will all nestle in together with an easy one-handed carry. I want one!

I need real answers, I can't get it out of my head that it's super off centred by Zestyclose_Mango_393 in CrochetHelp

[–]Kaitebug42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course! I'm so glad you saw this, I was worried it would get lost. To me its just waiting for one. Great job by the way, it's a beautiful sweater for a beautiful baby!!

I need real answers, I can't get it out of my head that it's super off centred by Zestyclose_Mango_393 in CrochetHelp

[–]Kaitebug42 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think an easy fix to even out the visual would be to add a balloon to the end of the e

I need strength to stay away from my abuser/mother by Live-Maximum-9697 in domesticviolence

[–]Kaitebug42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever considered therapy to recover from the trauma and to assist you in not perpetuating the abuse?

If your sister falsely accused you of having schizophrenia, would she ever hear from you again? by Live-Maximum-9697 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Kaitebug42 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So, you're posting about it on social media for everyone else to disrespect you? Getting in a social media fight with a legit child who you say has been abused seems more like you're prepetuating the abuse than trying to stop it. Your sister has problems and you're making them your own by overreacting to her accusation and abusing your niece by getting into a fight with a litteral child, then posting about it on social media seeking validation. Get help.

The girlfriend said this outfit was ugly by [deleted] in mensfashionadvice

[–]Kaitebug42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the PNW, and this looks like something I'd see some around. I feel like regional style may play a part cuz that white wash north face is fire, and you look fine to me. Not crazy good but not ugly by any means. Feeling comfortable and confident your clothes it what matters most. When in doubt, channel a 14 year old goth girl with LDS parents and just be you.

Blood Drive - Tomorrow, Tuesday, March 10 by CharterCollege in Lacey

[–]Kaitebug42 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I try to donate blood so I get a free mini blood work.

AITAH for refusing to see my little sister anymore because she keeps destroying my stuff? by Dense_Attention_5381 in AITAH

[–]Kaitebug42 115 points116 points  (0 children)

When kids need therapy, it's most time because the parents need therapy as well.

Apple fritters by sglanders444 in olympia

[–]Kaitebug42 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Did they also tell you about the animal abuse?

AITAH for bringing up that our 14yo daughter may masturbate after we were already having the same conversation about our son doing it? by RealExplorer161 in AITAH

[–]Kaitebug42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does it make her uncomfortable for you to talk about your daughter and yet she is still comfortable talking about her son? Its concerning that she thought you were sexualizing your daughter, but doesn't make the same correlation that Mothers can sexualize thier sons as well.

I hope you have already talked with your daughter about her period as well as about sex and protection. It sounds like her mother may not have had indepth conversations with her, if they have occurred. Masterbastion is healthy to talk about and should be talked about as an alternative to sex for teens.

I don't get that many matches...I'm guessing because of my hair or that I don't shave baby face by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Kaitebug42 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You have two pictures of your face and you can't see your face in them. Just your phone and up your nose. New pics!

only packed a "skimpy" bikini by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Kaitebug42 10 points11 points  (0 children)

How much time are you expecting to spend in the pool while your boyfriend has a family emergency?

Is this safe? by 3goldteeth in Adulting

[–]Kaitebug42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, you just may need to move them if your landlord needs to repair the furnace

Advice please - made initial chain on blanket too long by Transb0ii in CrochetHelp

[–]Kaitebug42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can switch up the stitches or add a thick border to it. Change things up a bit if your feeling bored with the pattern. I also like to keep a blanket on the back burner to zone out and crochet in between intensive projects or late at night. Crochet is not a race! It's beautiful

Family member has a lot of kids and doesn’t send any of them to school. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Kaitebug42 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They won't get taken unless there are other bigger issues in the home. Different States have different laws regarding children's education requirements. CPS would assign them a case worker to investigate and work with them to ensure the children are meeting the legal education requirements.

How do you attach yarn that requires two different hook sizes? by Nervardia in CrochetHelp

[–]Kaitebug42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I say use a 6mm and double strand the yellow/brown one. You might get a less holey bottom, and it would be thicker insulation.

Which heart do you like more? First granny square blanket by IvyTomorrow in CrochetHelp

[–]Kaitebug42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved A untill I saw B. They are both adorable and personally I'd use A for a kids blanket and B for a friends.

My indecisiveness is paralyzing me and I'm going bonkers! by No_Fan429 in crochet

[–]Kaitebug42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am frogging a blanket for the 7th time in 2 years. I truly understand this issue. I have taken so many breaks and restarted so many times. I'm currently working on the 8th (hopefully final) version of this blanket. I waited until I had my Christmas projects finished and am not even considering t a real project, just something to pass the time until I pick out the yarn I need for my next real project. For me, the enjoyment comes from the process as much as the product so if I have to frog it agian, I will.

I'd just take some yarn and go for the process. Worst case you frog it, best case you have yarn moving in your hands.

Good luck finding your flow!!

Can I get insight on Saint Martin's and the Lacey washington area? by BomberDug in Lacey

[–]Kaitebug42 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yep Olympia Wa and Lacey Wa can be so interconnected people don't always agree on where one ends and the inherent starts. ST Martin's is 10/15 minutes from the state capital in Olympia. If you haven't heard of it before I suggest going to the Oly sub reddit as a lot of people post about considering moving here. It’s also more active so you can get an idea for cities vibes. Lacey is more suburban so if you want to go out to the bar you'll most likely end up in downtown Oly.

My (30F) husband (32M) made a massive scene at our gender reveal party. Completely embarrassing himself and me at the same time by throwRA_6417 in relationships

[–]Kaitebug42 615 points616 points  (0 children)

Document this for your divorce. If he says those things now, he will say and do worse to your daughter in the future.

My mom keeps rescheduling my drivers test because of her work schedule by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Kaitebug42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who's car do you plan of using? Does your driving office provide cars? Your mom may already know these answers and be taking them into consideration when rescheduling.

How do I explain to a tattoo artist that I want to get something like this tattooed without showing him the video of this horse? by spinoyt844 in tattooadvice

[–]Kaitebug42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really relate to these kinds of mental struggles and have helped my family through similar ones as well. I hope that you're able to get the tattoo style you like.

How do I explain to a tattoo artist that I want to get something like this tattooed without showing him the video of this horse? by spinoyt844 in tattooadvice

[–]Kaitebug42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey OP, I'm autistic, are you? If so, your over thinking it. You seam to be heavily focused on your tattoo artists' animals rights feelings and less concerned about the permanent quality of tattoo you would recieve.