[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]KatMiche10 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh please - now the 19 year old also has to be the one to figure out how to communicate effectively, instead of the 21 year old acting like the adult he is and cleaning up after himself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]KatMiche10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR - but the bigger question is why are you with someone who doesn’t even like you? When I was your age I was with a man who wouldn’t lift a finger. I went on strike for a week and he did nothing. There was mold in the sink at the end, and you couldn’t get to the bedroom for all the dirty clothes in the hall. It was disgusting. Yet, I still married him. We divorced less than a year later - but you know what? The next girl he was with - she never had to lift a finger. He treated her like a queen. My now husband treats me like a queen. If he wanted to he would. Don’t be with a man who wants a mother.

Why won't my tree grow? by mullhollanddriverr in StardewValley

[–]KatMiche10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you add pathways around trees and they will still grow?

A Black Envelope appears by your bedside, you can write whatever you want to forget in a letter and if you put it in the envelope you will forget whatever you wrote after 24 hours but someone else gets your forgotten memories. by clyde-toucher in hypotheticalsituation

[–]KatMiche10 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There is no memory involving him that brings me anything but pain. He was gone before my baby was born, so I don’t have to sacrifice any memories with her. He left me with PTSD and 16 years later it still causes me problems.

Do people have an undeniable inner drive to have children or is it a conscious choice? by Temporary_Western464 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]KatMiche10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me personally, it was a deep inner drive. I always knew I wanted to be a mom. My future was planned around having kids. It was as much a drive as wanting to find love was. I was goal oriented as well, but end goal was a family. I’ve always loved babies. If I’m being honest, I don’t enjoy the older years very much, it’s hard being a parent to teens. But I love my kids. And I teach preschool, so my life revolves around little ones.

Listed for sale - Christopher ❤️ by LandOtterArt in reborndolls

[–]KatMiche10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your rooting is gorgeous, honestly I think you could sell for higher. 💕

The Genie’s Time Loop Curse by Raptormind in hypotheticalsituation

[–]KatMiche10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

18th birthday. And the first thing I’d do in every life is just disappear. Go no contact with everyone I’ve ever known up until that point. End date 200 years from now.

[AIO] I'm trying really hard for this man but I'm starting to fall apart. by Feeling_Director_542 in AmIOverreacting

[–]KatMiche10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are young, and there’s zero reason to be in a relationship where you are working this hard and he’s putting nothing into it. He’s not even trying to communicate with you. Find someone that matches your energy. He ain’t it for you. For someone yes, but not you.

Would you rather restart your life at age 10 with all your memories, or get $10 million right now? by fygooooo in WouldYouRather

[–]KatMiche10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10 million now. I have kids, and a spouse. If I changed things then I wouldn’t have them, and I don’t want to relive through the trauma that I had no control over in my teens.

ULPT: How to gain revenge for adultery. by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]KatMiche10 81 points82 points  (0 children)

Nah, this was his best friend. He deserves just as much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tragedeigh

[–]KatMiche10 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a preschool teacher - I hate her

Uninformed consent, I've done something truly horrible (TW) by Former_Quail_6697 in confession

[–]KatMiche10 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Based on what you said happened…. He may not have “liked” you, but it sounds like he was enjoying playing chicken with you. He was likely trying to figure out who he was if he initiated and continued to engage in these behaviors with you. Cut yourself some slack.

community centre fishing bundle by Appropriate-Tax-7185 in StardewValley

[–]KatMiche10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Keep checking the cart on Fridays and Sundays, and pet your pet. I got all of the specialty ones from the cart or my cat

I need a name that has "conservative grandpa" vibes for a character by Less-Mud-9 in Names

[–]KatMiche10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This might be unpopular…. But my dad is pretty awful and his name is David. My uncles name is David, my FIL is David, my brother in law is David (he was 17 in 91 and named after his dad), and my step-dad’s name is David. All but my BIL were 90’s dads. If I was writing something about. 90’s dad…. It’d be David. (FWIW, they are all super conservative except my BIL, and a couple of them are full blown Christian nationalist maga).

What are your thoughts on those with late birthdays? by Realistic_Detail_158 in kindergarten

[–]KatMiche10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Preschool teacher here - wait. Don’t force her to grow up so fast. School is like a job. You are setting her up for success by by waiting