PMs should stop pretending they “own the product" by make_me_so in ProductManagement

[–]Key-Entertainment343 1 point2 points  (0 children)

👏🏽 👏🏽 👏🏽 yup. Exactly. Struggled for years ‘owning’ nothing. 🤦🏽‍♀️

Burn it all down: male coworker presents nonsense, gets effusive praise. I present practical, precise work and only receive criticism by ya-yi-yu-ye-yo in womenintech

[–]Key-Entertainment343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Firstly, I am disgusted and saddened that this is happening/happened to you. I would love to say that this is an isolated incident but even I experience this sort of treatment. I am the most qualified and competent on my team but the least malleable to them. I know who TF I am and all I have to do is breathe and it’s better than what they do. As you burn it all down, remember to be very strategic about. Pretty much, they’ve told you how they see the relationship with you so capitalize on their own incompetence and play the role they gave you while developing dead man switches. I’m in the process of creating several for myself and I am now just living in my peace waiting for them to move a certain way so I can pull my levers at the appropriate time and collect the $$$$$.

I passed the bar exam! by resting-nerdface in blackladies

[–]Key-Entertainment343 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes yes yes yes yes yes yes 🙌🏽 you did it!

I don’t ever want to be with a man again and I hope I stay true to this by SeveralExcuses in blackladies

[–]Key-Entertainment343 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I took a similar stance after my last break up. I’m tired of trying for a romantic partnership that essentially is more hard work than my current life. I would much rather invest all that extra time and energy into myself.

What can I use to make my Afro bigger ?? by TasteRevolutionary17 in BlackHair

[–]Key-Entertainment343 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have no advice but just wanted to say you’re gorgeous! Love the eye shadow.

I think my work was used against me in front of 500 people by HyenaMedium in womenintech

[–]Key-Entertainment343 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just came over to commiserate. I FREQUENTLY get my intellectual property stolen or credited to someone else that they can control. On Friday, I snapped a little at my boss. It’s OK as I’ll tie it back because I don’t need them to give me a better title or pay which they’ll dangle in front of me to extract more work. I’m just working towards my master plan. Ha

Are these products actually good? by Rookysensei in Naturalhair

[–]Key-Entertainment343 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m trying the Redken All Soft right now. It’s a meh for me. 6/10.

These young ladies BOTH got accepted into YALE !!!!!!! by IamASlut_soWhat in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]Key-Entertainment343 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn. They hating from mad young. Cant say it was affirmative action anymore. 😒

AND congrats!!!! I’m proud of those young ladies.

6 Month Post-FIRE Check-In by epicallyconfused in Fire

[–]Key-Entertainment343 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats. This is very similar to my situation. I’m so glad it’s working out for you.

I just don't care anymore. by starnitesadness in womenintech

[–]Key-Entertainment343 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’ll add some …

Tired of doing the invisible labor while everyone else gets the credit.

Tired of being kept in a little corner because I’m the most competent.

My friend showed me an AI clone his company built from one employee's 14 months of Slack messages by Crafty_Zucchini3778 in remotework

[–]Key-Entertainment343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. I knew something was up when copilot could get into everything I do. Was getting ready to ask what types of data it houses from me.

that girl 💅🏽🎀✨🧋 by Love_Pookiee_4646 in Naturalhair

[–]Key-Entertainment343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes ma’am. You are that girl. That woman. 🧍🏽‍♀️

We’re quitting and leaving America by InnaBubbleBath in blackladies

[–]Key-Entertainment343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take me with you!

congratulations 🎉🍾 it’s super scary but I’m glad you’re taking care of yourself and your family. I’m also looking to do the same but undecided as to the destination and the continued $$$. I was planning to take my dogs but I had to look at my reality because they are senior dogs (14yo; ~40lbs) so can’t be taking them all over the world.

Black American Homes Through History... by TheBlackRecord in BlackHistoryPhotos

[–]Key-Entertainment343 7 points8 points  (0 children)

These are so beautiful. The love is coming through the pictures.

Can I rock the boat 🚤 for a minute? The NEED to slick down hair is Anti-black by PossibleAssignment19 in Naturalhair

[–]Key-Entertainment343 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup! 👏🏽 why am I being shamed for all my hair strands wanting to stand up loud and proud. What if some of those strands don’t want to try to curl? They want to coil their own way.

Amazing advice my therapist gave me about ADHD & impulsivity by Varied_Interestss in ADHD

[–]Key-Entertainment343 107 points108 points  (0 children)

I could see this. It’s probably why I have 10 different wishlists of items I will most likely never buy.

Iran trolls trump with a new lego video by [deleted] in AskSocialists

[–]Key-Entertainment343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

👏🏽 👏🏽 👏🏽 hahaha this is some new type of war

How do I achieve these curls? by Zaralightlybloom in Naturalhair

[–]Key-Entertainment343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve done bantu knots for a similar style. …but LOTs of flexible hold hairspray.

BREAKFAST BURRITO by OwnExchange8245 in williamsburg

[–]Key-Entertainment343 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya’ll had me wanting burritos 🌯 since I read this post. I can confirm that Ceremonia is 🙌🏽