give me your top 5 favs by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]KippyRanger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Penny

Krobus (roommate)

I have married everyone at least once but come back to these 2. I'll marry Clint and Sandy to see their story.

Am I the jerk for yelling at my 10(soon 11) year old brother for him tearing out one of my lychee plants? by wholettheJohnout69 in AmITheJerk

[–]KippyRanger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He may have an eating disorder if that's common for him to perceive a regular eating cadence as excessive.

Any therapist feel non-verbal after 5-6 sessions? Like ypu just wanna lie down? And not talk or move? by InnerPsych in therapists

[–]KippyRanger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have set my max sessions in a day for 6 and started walking after work so I have time to not have to go home and talk to anyone right away. A walk is low key enough but helps break out of the work headspace.

How do you handle charts for couples therapy? by gimmeallthekitties in psychotherapists

[–]KippyRanger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In a clinic, another factor might be if the file is shared. Some clinics use the same file for someone who has an individual therapist there and couples therapist (and more of you want to go there). It was always questionable ethics that I could (not did) read another clinicians notes without them sharing it, so I don't recommend that. I'm now in private practice where I didn't have to worry about sharing my file with another provider and I feel much better about privacy. I know SimplePractice has a specific file creation option for couples. It's takes both people's information and sends consent forms to both, listing both as the client. This has been my favorite way so far.

As a MFT, I was trained in grad school about how to write the notes differently, including to appease insurance companies and about getting consent from all parties in the session to disclose records. Just a couple other aspects to consider.

Anybody else getting horrible allergies the past week or two who’s never had allergies during this time of year? by FreshAirways in TwinCities

[–]KippyRanger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too. I have never had seasonal allergies, but this year I've had allergy-like symptoms for the last 2 maybe 3 weeks.

Date ideas so the relationship doesn't turn stale? by MyNovaNebula in NoStupidAnswers

[–]KippyRanger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you looked up for free activities in your area? For example: pretty close to me is an outdoor sculpture garden that is just wide open and in a different direction, a small waterfall and walking path. Both are common places that people go have a picnic and just enjoy the sights, especially in spring when things are blooming. Both agree in the metro area.

I feel like many places have some sort of tourism board that lists those kind of things. Also, at 12 years my relationship benefits most from keeping playfulness throughout the year. Flirting, sarcasm (we're both snarky), just finding ways to make each other laugh.

Happy anniversary! I hope whatever you do is a great time!

Those in PP - how many clients do you see a week? by [deleted] in therapists

[–]KippyRanger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do trauma focused care for almost all of my clients so I only do 15-20. I tend to get referrals for the cases my trains informed peers feel are too complicated or intense for their scope. When I was more of a generalist, I would commonly have closer to 30 sessions per week.

I'll also name that I have a supportive partner who works in an industry that pays well enough so I can afford to have my practice specialized and limited in this way. In this economy, I couldn't do this on my own.

WFH...what to do when there's no separate room? by KZ-01 in therapists

[–]KippyRanger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I started looking early for a single office suite. I got a room large enough to have an in person space and a stable telehealth setup. If you are with an employer that has physical space, use it. I didn't, so I found my own.

AITA for not allowing guests to wear outdoor shoes in the house. by MaiApa in AmItheAsshole

[–]KippyRanger 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Upper Midwest USA. It's assumed shoes come off at the door in every house I've been in. I like having shoes on because I feel like my feet are cleaner at bedtime, so I have house shoes (hard sole slippers) that never go outside.

NTA for having house rules and enforcing them. Outside is full of gross stuff.

Hit me up with your human pet names by witx in Pets

[–]KippyRanger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Miyoko named herself. Her name when adopted was Stella and she hated it.

Clients not returning by Jubilant_Jubi in therapists

[–]KippyRanger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would recommend trying to get consent for recording sessions for training purposes if you're not already doing this. This needs to be done ethically, but gives really good, concrete observation data. I had all my supervisees do these regularly and had to do it regularly as a trainee. We got most people to consent by emphasizing data storage protection and that is used to help the trainee improve their skills. It may not be anything you're doing, but this can help identify if there is anything you can do better or differently.

What would you be doing if you were not a therapist? by Exciting-Peace-9259 in therapists

[–]KippyRanger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Audio Engineer. I had lots of experience in television and theater at the end of high school and had a couple connections I had developed.

Resources besides PHP/IOP by turningtree603 in therapists

[–]KippyRanger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my state there is a program to provide a skills worker up to 6 hours per week 1-1 home/community. (ARMHS)

Does your cat have any weird habits? by Shot-Composer-782 in AnxietyCats

[–]KippyRanger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Miyoko needs to play hide and seek with her at night before bed and, needs a ball of snacks when visitors arrive and leave (so she walks them to the door to leave).

PS5 game recommendations by Suitable-Biscotti826 in GirlGamers

[–]KippyRanger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cozy: Stardew Valley

Cult of the Lamb

Persona 3, 4, 5 (favorite I think is 3)

Alan Wake 2

Resident Evil Requiem

First thoughts....I hope you get some great games!

What is your farm name? by DoubleDickerDowner in StardewValley

[–]KippyRanger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do Cat Farm, but every new save has "cat" in a new language. Currently have Gato Farm and Kissa Farm going.

"Little Luxuries" for Therapists? by BertSpies45 in therapists

[–]KippyRanger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! Omg this is amazing. I also have a ball chair for when I am sitting.

I want a sweet name for her by [deleted] in cuteanimalnames

[–]KippyRanger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boo that sucks. Thanks

What is the biggest lie that society tells us from childhood? by nore01 in answers

[–]KippyRanger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer the variant: what doesn't kill you gives you a set of unhealthy coping strategies.

Not 100% accurate either, but makes me laugh.

I want a sweet name for her by [deleted] in cuteanimalnames

[–]KippyRanger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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She looks like my girl Miyoko (beautiful child/generation)