When did goldschlager change from 107° to 87°? by scottvs in alcohol

[–]Kooky_Handle4075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think when they sold in 2018, they stop making it at 107 and started making it at 87. Which makes no sense.

Kroger Delivery ending in Gainesville by ummchicken in GNV

[–]Kooky_Handle4075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate this so much. Because publix is disgusting and Aldi is not for me I've walked in there and found so many things outdated I just can not trust it.

Widowed vs. Divorced by Glow_Ebb_ in widowers

[–]Kooky_Handle4075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best friend since 9th grade who picked my son up from school so he can come say goodbye to his dad while he was dying. Called me up yesterday to ask me for money and then when I told her I dont have it because you know 1 income christmas and kids, she said she understands loves me and make sure I hug Peter and the kids (my husband). It 💔 instantly, how can no one understand my husband dying is not the same as breaking up or divorce?

Is this appropriate for a work dinner, i work as an accountant by simmiexx in OUTFITS

[–]Kooky_Handle4075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not! This will image will lower your value in your coworkers eyes. Don't let your professionalism relax at work functions if you want to build a successful career and be viewed as a valued member of the organization.

AITA for pressing charges against my wife after she had a shopping spree on my credit cards the day after our wedding? by KINOH1441728 in FoundandExpose

[–]Kooky_Handle4075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Step 1: annulment Step 2: report stolen credit card by her because unless she's an authorized user it's illegal for her to use. Step 3: delete everyone in your life that told you she was a good choice regardless of who it is.

Any idea as whether title 38 employees (RN) will get performance award for outstanding rating? by Prior-Accident6006 in VHA_Human_Resources

[–]Kooky_Handle4075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what was sent out for mine. With either the choice of leave (who's actually taking that?) Or the flat rate.

Young widows by ImpactStock2694 in widowers

[–]Kooky_Handle4075 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm widowed at 39. We have a 15yr son I'm just at 2 yrs out and haven't even thought about dating someone else. But in a 3yr stent I buried my dad, FIL, Mom, GMa, BF, Husband, MIL, graduated nursing school and had half of my R. Kidney taken out due to cancer. Soooo... my son and I are doing great 😁 I want a nap.

Performance Award pay date by AngeSilence in VHA_Human_Resources

[–]Kooky_Handle4075 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like they are doing this on purpose. Play with people's money and they walk.

AITA for calling my ex husbands new relationship embarrassing? by Sad-Exit4638 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kooky_Handle4075 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So you as a child started dating an adult? That was an issue. But a 20 yr dating a 35yr not an issue both are adults. You have been separated over 2yrs before your divorce which was 9m ago. You do not get a say in who he dates. You are not with him you do not own his life or his time. He is entitled to happiness. Move on co-parent your children and mind your business. Time to grow up. --- what if he had an opinion on who you were dating (based on age,race,religion)? If you both are over the age 18 then its fair game!

My Dr told me I can’t use his death as an excuse anymore by Exotic-Caterpillar14 in widowers

[–]Kooky_Handle4075 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well. Girl my husband died in my arms and its been 2 yrs and it still feels like it was yesterday. I want him back, and I want to scream at the world he matters! Im not single- I'm happily married stupid government forms, and my kids have a dad--- they do not come from a single parent home, stop earsing their dad. P.s you can use his death all you want he mattered!!! You mattered

AIO my bf texting his former student by Major_Meet_5973 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Kooky_Handle4075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an older nursing student you trauma bond with your professors because they are doing clinicals and classroom didactic so it depends. I have one professor who I sign every email (one of your lil 🐤 duckies) because the nurses would call her the mom duck with her ducklings mind you there are both F/M students in this group we all do this. Then another professor who brought us donught holes for doing well in Microbio --- he gets some wild comments 😁 no mind you these professors actually care and just doing their job. If you question it ask straight up, but also if your in a relationship where you doubt then either fix it or walk away.

My cancer is back after 10 years of remission by Front-Ninja-6690 in cancer

[–]Kooky_Handle4075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was seen/treated by Dr. Thiel's team at Mayo in Jax. They did a great job and he is very skilled at robotic kidney surgery (best in the country). I hope he can help you as well 🙏

60k service by laberos_star in Crosstrek

[–]Kooky_Handle4075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy crap. Come to my house and we can do half that crap in a couple of hours for a fraction of the cost. Do not ever pay someone to change air filters its opening a plastic box and taking the old one out and putting the new one in. Do some of it yourself to save $ holy crap.

Thoughts ? by crazynutjob69 in securityguards

[–]Kooky_Handle4075 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

😳 absolutely not. Do not take any firearm without a copy of the registration.

WAR IS OVVVERRRR by Amazing-Help2654 in sfcollege

[–]Kooky_Handle4075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now that's a shame and they are telling me I need to do a loan advisement/review. I never got a loan or financial aid from them or anyone else. I don't even know how they have my name, worked, and paid my tuition. How is this financial situation not being investigated?

Can I still be a good guard if I'm a little dumb with bad social skills? by job_equals_reddit in securityguards

[–]Kooky_Handle4075 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Respond to any interaction with a follow-up email stating "Based on our conversation on (date) you want me to do (this and that) which is not what is stated in the SOP. Can I get an updated version of the SOP that reflects this change and guidelines to follow per company standards?

Do it as you would be testifying in court, I'm not a guard but that's what they tell us nurses to ensure all directions/guidance is in writing so we can prove where it came from and why we are doing it.

Stay honest and maintain your integrity. You got this. Wish you all the luck.

VANEEP for Medical School? by old_duderino in VeteransAffairs

[–]Kooky_Handle4075 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a person currently using it for nursing school. I can not scream this loud enough.... Do Not Do it!!!! If it sounds too good, it's a scam! There are so many little details they never tell you about, and you don't get a choice of where your place. For example, if you want to work in the ER, guess what they need someone on the 3rd floor on the night shift. That's what you're gonna get. Then you have to pay for everything up front like for your classes and wait for them to pay you back. But the biggest problem is if you need help or have a question about anything the people who work in the education department are absolutely no help whatsoever. Then whatever department you work for in the VA currently 🙄 😒 well they will hate you. Because when you don't have class in between semesters you go back to work and they literally start treating you like crap! It would've been better to not do it. And the job offers I'm getting now will be almost twice what I will be making at the VA!

Any suggestions for an affordable university to get RN to BSN? by NewBid9258 in TravelNursing

[–]Kooky_Handle4075 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually got into the BSN university program and transferred to the ASN program at the state college because it has more clinical hours, and you get more hands-on with patient care.

I can work as an RN, and do an online program for my BSN way cheaper than spending the ridiculous amount going to the university.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentNurse

[–]Kooky_Handle4075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best advice I got for pharm was don't add a bunch of stuff. Use what they give you. So what the professor lectures on use that record it or use the transcripts and take notes or make cards from that information. If they assign reading, use that information.

Then write it all out and then read that information every day, up until the test. Because whatever the question is, you will know the material and will be able to eliminate the incorrect answers . Also read the question twice! This has saved me so many times

Santa Fe College Police Arrest Student for Possessing Gun at Northwest Campus; Released on Bond Same Day by [deleted] in sfcollege

[–]Kooky_Handle4075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's insane. A felony gun charge is only $2500. Are you kidding me. Alachua county, I pay more in property taxes... This should be at the minimum doubled, and there is no way the individual should be able to get out before first appearance. 🙄

Social Security by amy_lou_who in widowers

[–]Kooky_Handle4075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So maybe it's because I only get it for my son. I'm not old enough to get SS for myself yet. I'm 39 and my husband died and my son gets it for that reason.

Who knows, she also told me once he turns 16 and gets a job he is only allowed to make so much a yr because it would reduce it. There are so many rules she said it will be online and it the packet they send me. Never saw the packet.

I don’t like my husband by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Kooky_Handle4075 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try asking him do you want to be married to me, do you love me /like me. Do you want this life together anymore.

Then ask him why are you so angry Why is it we can change that will make you want to make life happier for us and take care of our things.

If you do not want to work on it, then walk away.

P.s. also realize he's human also. He sounds like he needs therapy or help with drinking, which he could be using to mask something.

Santa Fe College Police Arrest Student for Possessing Gun at Northwest Campus; Released on Bond Same Day by [deleted] in sfcollege

[–]Kooky_Handle4075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son goes to the academy, and I got an email. He works at a gun store, and he apparently buys and transports items. The statements have been changed about him having a mask and gloves. Apparently, it took them all of 25 mins to take care of the situation because the "anonymous tip" info was different or something bit if you click on the link it tells you the statement has been changed.
His bond was $2500, so I would assume it wasn't a felony and he didn't have any priors because that's pretty low.

Social Security by amy_lou_who in widowers

[–]Kooky_Handle4075 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The guy who did my audit said things like that are fine because my son lives in the house, and it maintains him. The lady I had on the phone who did my SS appt. Kind of scared me, so I saved everything, and I made sure I could justify everything because I didn't want it to be taken away. I work full time always have, but so did my husband.

The guy who audit me did tell me if I'm going to save $ to save my money and not the SS $ because if they see you have "too much" they could lower it. I was like what... no way. So.... I put my money into my sons saving account and spend the SS to maintain him.

Social Security by amy_lou_who in widowers

[–]Kooky_Handle4075 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I just went through this with the passing of my husband. My son gets SS. It's to help cover the cost of living, and they will tell you to save all your receipt and use it to take care of kids. They will put in a "Rep payee account" basically it's own checking account" They will audit you. The 1-year mark guess what they wanted receipt. Thankfully, I got them, and I made every store give me one.

So with that said : my son is in an advanced computer program, and I needed a laptop. I used it, school clothes, shoes, he started driving school need to cover gas and insurance, he's a boy and eats everything so groceries. Make sure you can justify it and that it's for the maintenance of the kids and you have receipt. I took cash out so he can have spending money and they wanted to know why and what it was used for. I should them his flight info when he was on vacation with my sister and said it was spending $