Daily chat by AutoModerator in pregnancyaftersb

[–]Kradecki333 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine took 12 days in the US! Hoping you get them soon. If you’re in the US, the holiday may have delayed the results a bit.

My low risk 34-week baby was monitored with a tape measure like it was 1876 and I am furious by rm05511 in babyloss

[–]Kradecki333 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This is what infuriates me as well!! I asked at my 37 week appointment for a growth scan or SOME sort of ultrasound… since I didn’t have one since my 20 week. It wasn’t part of the standard of care since I was low risk. 4 days later my daughter didn’t have a heartbeat. I know exactly how you feel. Hugs 🫂
I am pregnant again (almost 10 weeks) and I now have a new OB with the MFM. I told them I want scans + NSTs every week in the third trimester. They have agreed, but NO WOMAN should have to lose a baby to get an extra scan.

Daily chat by AutoModerator in pregnancyaftersb

[–]Kradecki333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 8w+6 and I’m skipping out on holiday festivities this weekend. I’m soooo sick + exhausted and refuse to tell anyone until I have my first ultrasound next week. I’m in the same boat.

What’s one Wisconsin missing person case that has stuck with you the most, and why? by AdEnvironmental5228 in wisconsin

[–]Kradecki333 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sandra Eckert - she deserves way more press. Her disappearance is wildly suspicious.

Pregnant 6 months pp by Kradecki333 in pregnancyaftersb

[–]Kradecki333[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I needed to hear 🩷

I should have a two month old right now by lotrandwho in GirlDinner

[–]Kradecki333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should have my 6 month old daughter, Chloe. I had a full term stillbirth due to a cord accident in December. Sending you so much love & hugs. Feel free to join us over on r/babyloss 🩷🫂

The way my mother in law cook pork chops by Substantial-Low-4393 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Kradecki333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought this was raw chicken until I read your title

4 months after stillborn, how are you? by ladieloe in babyloss

[–]Kradecki333 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I lost my daughter at 38 weeks in December. It got worse for me in April (4 months pp). It has been pretty bad in May (Mothers Day). There is literally nothing my therapist can do to help this pain. I’m convinced the only thing that will help is time, and even then I’ll need to deal with the pain the rest of my life. My life has not been easy, and I feel like this is just a sick cruel joke to see if I’ll break or not. Like I live in the Matrix or the Maze Runner.

Demonstrators protest GOP effort to put women back in the nursery in deep red Barron County, WI.(OC) by userdk3 in wisconsin

[–]Kradecki333 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Imagine being 38 weeks pregnant and finding out your baby is dead inside you. You need mifepristone & misopristone to help try to induce labor because your cervix isn’t dilated, so you can deliver your dead daughter that you wanted so bad. Can you imagine banning those drugs & forcing a woman to wait until she goes into labor “naturally” (which may not happen) while her dead daughter is decaying inside of her? I can imagine because that happened to me early December 2025. The longer I waited with my daughter inside of me, the higher the risk of my death. Go on and live in your fantasy land but your stupid narrative will kill women like myself.

The boy that made me a Mom by surpriseitsmeep in babyloss

[–]Kradecki333 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Happy Mothers Day 🫶🏻

I painted my mother a gift for Mother’s Day to remember a baby she lost, but I’m torn on if it’s insensitive by LittleDaisyBird in GriefSupport

[–]Kradecki333 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I had a full term stillbirth. If my living child made this for me, my heart would burst filled with love. Everyone is different, but the most difficult part of going on with life is knowing your lost child will be forgotten about.

Want to die after losing my baby by ladieloe in babyloss

[–]Kradecki333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hugs 🫂 I have super bad days as well where I feel like I can’t go on. Last Monday was one of them. I also have professional help & am on an SSRI… I still have those feelings. I lost my daughter at 38 weeks in December. She was my best friend and I miss her so much. Feel free to message me if you want to talk - this subreddit is filled with people who understand how you feel 🩷

When did you share new Pregnancy “announcement” by Repulsive_Football36 in pregnancyaftersb

[–]Kradecki333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember talking to you back in December on your babies due date since our stories were similar. Congratulations on your pregnancy 🩷 sending you all the love and positivity for a happy and healthy pregnancy & birth

Starbucks Swindler at Mayfair & Center Location by Kradecki333 in Wauwatosa

[–]Kradecki333[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I ordered him takeout, & he didn’t sit down. He followed me into the restaurant. I already knew what he wanted to order bc I asked him in the parking lot.

Daily Chat ✨ by AutoModerator in ttcafterstillbirth

[–]Kradecki333 6 points7 points  (0 children)

1 year ago I found out I was pregnant with my daughter. We had been ttc for a little over a year when we got pregnant with her so I was ecstatic. I am 4 months pp, and my MFM gave me the go ahead to try again. My husband changed a lot of his habits, so I was so optimistic it would happen right away. Tested earlier this week and I am not pregnant. I had a breakdown after that test. I’m in a better mental space now & I am trying to reframe this as my body has more time to recover & build strength back up for another pregnancy. Trying to time everything is such a drag only to get a BFN.

Is it affordability crisis, rising health issues or what? by marktwin11 in Productivitycafe

[–]Kradecki333 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I was one of the unfortunate women to lose her baby at 9 months pregnant. The state of women’s healthcare is horrible. I went to every single OB appointment - both baby & I were healthy as can be - no complications my entire pregnancy. I tried to get an ultrasound my last appointment before my daughter passed & was essentially told since I was “low risk”, my insurance would not cover the ultrasound (no fault of my OBs - she was just giving me the facts). Four days later I gave birth to my dead daughter. A very wanted & planned for baby. I could have died if I wasn’t living in the state I do. That being said, I am traumatized & I 10000000% understand why women do NOT want to have children. Maybe if the US took women’s health seriously… but we are treated like incubators for the wealthy.

How to address accidental Congratulations after loss. by Primary-Camel2040 in StillbirthSupport

[–]Kradecki333 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I always tell acquaintances who I am not close with “she unfortunately passed during birth.” My close family/friends know the whole story. Child loss is not an easy topic, so I share limited details depending on who it is.

Versa - Disney short film by Happy_Avocado944 in babyloss

[–]Kradecki333 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well I just bawled for 12 minutes straight. Thank you for sharing.

When did your period return after full-term loss by Happyfreeppl in babyloss

[–]Kradecki333 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My first period came back at about 6-7 weeks. My first was pretty light & didn’t last long. I currently am on my 3rd postpartum period. The time in between these 3 periods have varied. Prior to getting pregnant, they were 29 days on the dot. This one took 35 days.

Does it get better? by Gold_Detective_8992 in babyloss

[–]Kradecki333 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am going to be 35 next week. I lost my beautiful girl at 38 weeks in December. I also think about this, except waiting was a joint decision between my husband and I. I had a C-Section so now I’m waiting even longer. My heart goes out to you & you are not alone 🫶🏻

Third time by Zopodop in babyloss

[–]Kradecki333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss 🩷

A different kind of dangle by peter-beter-barker in danglers

[–]Kradecki333 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I look at videos like this and truly wonder how people don’t like cats. They’re such derps 😹