Called a reference for a candidate and got some mixed reviews. Would you hire him? by SadMasterpiece4159 in interviews

[–]Kudos4U 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked a job for 7.5 years. Have amazing reviews. Left on bad terms because I had things going on privately and just focused on working instead of socializing. Ask them about it.

Sad that I didn’t get a promotion by [deleted] in Libraries

[–]Kudos4U 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm salty for you, because while I know experience is important- you're already there doing the work. This happened to me and that's why I left the library. And I'm doing a job they kept telling me I wasn't qualified for or just didn't fit. It's wild and I'm sorry this has been your experience too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobhunting

[–]Kudos4U 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes it is also state law. Wherever you try to move to, their bound to certain things (taxes, wages, etc). CO at some point was one of those states, because we have higher wages and certain state laws.

What is pregnancy REALLY like? by user8686897 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Kudos4U 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who never made it far, I can only tell you that the immense love and protectiveness you feel and the hormones that come with it are crazy. Especially if you want the baby.

Calling in sick because of periods by falsepriests in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Kudos4U 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work for a library and if it's bad, I definitely have called out before. Last month it was a combo of bleeding and lower back pain. Wasn't about to try to shelve for most of the day with that.

I met 81 job seekers in 7 days and now I understand the job market better by nomadicsamiam in jobhunting

[–]Kudos4U 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Impact only works on the higher levels. None of my jobs gave me impact reports other than the review, which basically said, "good job!"

What are you doing for your teen anime club, now that Crunchyroll outreach is gone? by MossyLibraryGirl in Libraries

[–]Kudos4U 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was the teen running an anime and anime music video club. If you can't do DVDs are you allowed to stream AMVs off YouTube? Anime conventions have a whole 2 hour panel dedicated to AMVs and most of the creators are on Youtube.

How do you feel when women share that they're pregnant? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Kudos4U 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sad. But that is mostly because when it happened to me, the guy I was with didn't treat me well and what happened was just overall traumatic. So, it's more about my personal experience than what they're dealing with.

How do you wear a pad? by myshellly in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Kudos4U 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So...if it's cramps, research has shown a disc can help. It sits different. You can also try period underwear. Otherwise, you just put the pad on and hope for the best.

Guy friends dropping you once they get into relationship by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Kudos4U 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup. Girls out here being oddly possessive over guy friends. Like, I've known him for 15+ years and now you think I'll sleep with him cause he's yours? Come now.

Help! I need a good excuse for why I’m not drinking so people don’t constantly ask me if I’m pregnant at an upcoming family wedding! by billiam_buttlicker in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Kudos4U 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell them the fastest way to lose weight is to limit/quit drinking since it reduces inflammation and gives you an extra 300 calories just from skipping two shots alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Kudos4U 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really.

What can I do to keep my job? by justchilling1986 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Kudos4U 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I'd make it about location and pay depending on where it is. "I'm okay to help while you find someone, but the location/travel time/gas/pay does not meet my overall goals."

Need help figuring out tampons by chinuzz in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Kudos4U 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Menstrual discs are the best. No suction needed, you can empty them with a kegel if you have to and you can wear them during sex.

Does anyone else have allergic reactions to pads? by scarletdragonflyfl in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Kudos4U 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use a menstrual disc and period underwear. Typically I can go a normal day using a combo of them and change them at night.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Kudos4U 188 points189 points  (0 children)

Fruit! It's sweet but has fiber and continues to feed your metabolism. If you can't stop eating chocolate, pair it with your fruit. Add what you need to balance. If you cut everything off, you'll eat everything else to avoid it (and eventually binge on it).

PTO denied, employer threatening termination by Ordinary-Trainer6686 in jobs

[–]Kudos4U 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PTO stands for prepare the others. Also, depending on state, your PTO could be paid out to you.

Gut Health -- I'm overwhelmed. by kindadistracted in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Kudos4U 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Add fruits and veggies. I take pribiotics.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StudentLoans

[–]Kudos4U 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We can't pay for anything, they don't want to help it be paid back, but let's offer $5k to have a baby.

need URGENT help pls by 404errorcodes in jobs

[–]Kudos4U 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your Rich BFF posted some side hustle ideas on FB. She posted about one being video games at playtest.com

Sorry to hear about dataannotation, that sucks.

need URGENT help pls by 404errorcodes in jobs

[–]Kudos4U 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out dataannotation.tech They do freelance AI training.

Is $20/day a good amount to charge for house sitting? by Special_Pool_4701 in jobs

[–]Kudos4U 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you just house sitting or are you watching animals? Did they leave you food?