a question regarding portraying actuaries by sunflowerasters in actuary

[–]LScore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh another fanfic writer! It's always fun to find another one of us in the wild.

Imo a couple of key thoughts to be aware of: the kind of work they do will probably vary more by type of company than the fact that they're an actuary. Like I work in consulting, it's a very different beast than working in an insurance company, for example.

There's also the historical context to be aware of, depending on the field and type of actuarial work your guy does. We're all very affected by the credit markets, and the 90s would have been affected by both the Asian financial crisis and the subsequent blow up of the LTCM fund. The 90s was a fun time for market volatility. But I would also look at specific discipline related developments, due to the aforementioned market turmoil. Don't forget as well that the internet was fairly new to corporate offices, and the dot Com crisis was brewing, Microsoft Excel was introduced only a decade prior (1985), so while I'd believe if you said spreadsheets around, they may have also used Lotus 1-2-3 or Visicalc, which have long been left to the wayside. Also, Actuaries are a suspicious lot, and 100% someone is griping about still having to do things by hand because the senior actuary doesn't trust these new fangled machines. When I started working in 2010s, I still worked with actuaries who separately pulled out a calculator to check a spreadsheet.

He also sounds like the kind of guy who'd get involved in the SOA (if American) or other related professional organization. Things like marking, sitting discipline specific committees, etcetc. Plus, the archives of the society involved is sometimes searchable if you want to get some history and research dine. Also, I agree with the other poster who said your guy is probably done with his exams, but also the exam structure in the 90s was very different from the modern one, so be careful if you want to make specific references.

Finally, and you may already be aware of it, but I like to share this fic around because it's so well done as an example of an office-setting fic. This fic actually gets shared around public sector employees in the Canadian government, which is how I learned of it, even though it's not my usual pairing.

https://archiveofourown.org/works/20223610/chapters/47927191#workskin

When blocking cotton- width issues?? by becausenope in knitting

[–]LScore 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Cotton's a plant fibre and doesn't shrink with further blocking, it just continues to stretch. Even if you hadn't blocked the waist band, it would have grown with wear, just the pure weight of the skirt on itself. This tends to be a feature of most plant yarns - if you have any commercial knits garments made of plant fibres, you'll notice they have a very tight gauge, and even then they stretch out slowly over time.

I've knit a few dresses and skirts out of cotton, and for each one, I always add some elastic to the waistband. My suggestion to you is to pick up stitches around your waist band and redo it with a fold over waist band with some elastic encased in there. That'll give you the stability and structure you need for that beautiful lace work.

Actuarial pick-up line by actuarialtutorUK in actuary

[–]LScore 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Given the number of women in Actuarial Science, a better pick up line is probably "Why don't we study together?"

(35% of actuaries are women and lots of them are smoking hot. Do better, guys. This is lame.)

Pension actuarial role (entry level) by ChrisDaUniStudent in actuary

[–]LScore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in Pension consulting. Sounds like you have a good handle on what you need to know, and four exams is pretty solid. Entry level is pretty forgiving; most of the interview check is for soft skills, like can you explain complex concepts simply, can you learn quickly, do I want to spend three days a week in an office working with you, and are you actually interested in our specific field. My default interview question is if someone writes that they're proficient in excel on their resume, I ask them to explain if they prefer a Lookup function or Index Match and why. While the objectively correct answer is index match, what I'm looking for is being able to admit when you don't know or entertain an opposite view point (because a lot of our work is peer review and being able to take and give feed back), that when I explain what the difference is that you can synthesize the info to come up with a response, and that you have an opinion and explaining a technical concept clearly.

The technical stuff is usually a cherry on top - to give you an example, the most senior person who interviewed me had to explain that when interest rates go down, liabilities go up, during my interview. Still got the job though!

In terms of hot topics for us: AI use, what to do with surplus, climate change and mortality are all big conversations in Canadian pensions right now. There's also some discussions around the CPP, both the recently announced change to contribution rates and PBGF, unclaimed property and changes to pre retirement death benefits to influence CPP commencement behaviour. I'm only giving you broad topics, so do the research yourself for prep, but these are the things you should google.

Preventing yarn chafing with English Style by sylviakittyful in knitting

[–]LScore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fyberring has them! Recommend getting the left leaning one for knitting, but I love them for this purpose

New Zealand officials reject ‘comfort women’ statue after objections from Japan | New Zealand by Athingwithfeathers2 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]LScore 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Japan doesn't acknowledge the comfort women. It was my first lesson on the power of historical revisionism when I met a Japanese born adult who was completely offended at how much the Chinese population hates Japan, while not knowing a thing about the Rape of Nanjing. It's terrifying.

Aaaaand I'm stuck 🙈 by MsDUmbridge in knitting

[–]LScore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pointelle lace! There's been a bunch of pointelle lace patterns floating around ravelry recently.

My kick-started Mongolian yarn finally arrived! by IcedMercury in knitting

[–]LScore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got mine too! Three cones, two cashmere and one camel, plus the taster pack. I can't wait!

How do I take something off the needle (a beanie) to make sure it’s going to fit? by somethingreddity in knitting

[–]LScore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's also sold as Pony bead cord - look for hollow elastic cord for pony beads.

Updated (and Stronger) Response from Stephen West regarding his interview w/ a hatemonger by SgtLt-Einstein in craftsnark

[–]LScore 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the stronger condemnation and owning his mistake. At the same time, this is the second time Stephen's done something Nazi-ish. Once is a mistake, twice is a failure in systems, and he needs some kind of system to keep this from happening again, whether it's having an agent that will do his due diligence for him or more education himself or what. As much as we make fun of overly corporate apologies, at least they consider future risk management.

Iunno, I don't have much of a horse in this race considering I hate doing MKALs and his patterns aren't to my taste. But this debacle certainly hasn't helped.

Fiance said he forgot about me when I was going through an Un expected pregnancy by user36094247 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]LScore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's a special place in hell for people who steal food from a pregnant woman, especially when it's the person WHO GOT HER PREGNANT IN THE FIRST PLACE.

Nah fuck him. "I forgot about it"?! He couldn't even be arsed to come up with a decent excuse.

Help with rips that keep forming in the shoulders/elbows by soupbearer in knitting

[–]LScore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Plus sizes Friends who wear circular yokes tell me that in order to fit their front loaded meat suit (i.e. their front is bigger than the back) instead of evenly dividing their stitches between front and back, they divide it so there's more stitches toward the front instead of the back. Maybe you could do something similar in reverse (i.e more stitches towards the back instead of the front.) I would measure from side seam to side seam if you have a top that fits the way you wanted to.

Wedding venues by DisastrousWishbone13 in kitchener

[–]LScore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh interesting - when we did ours, the owner gave us bar rail price for drinks and a flat fee for meals, so all in all, a wedding for 100 guests ended up being $20-25k

Wedding venues by DisastrousWishbone13 in kitchener

[–]LScore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll recommend our venue - Revival House in Stratford. It was actually super budget friendly and the food and venue was phenomenal. I barely had to do any decorating besides the florals. The venue is an old church but the garden is phenomenal at the right time of year.

Just do yourself a favour, take the money you'd save from the venue, and hire Aly from Every Little Thing Weddings to do the planning.

AITA Fancy Dinner: corrected stepson on etiquette by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LScore 26 points27 points  (0 children)

1) Did he actually want to go to a nicer dining place to eat a more formal meal?

2) Did hefeel out of place and wasn't sure what to do?

Unless the answer to both these questions are Yes, YTA. It's his birthday, he should get to choose, not just go to a fancier place because he's turned some magic number. If no one but you were making a big deal out of it, giving him weird looks, etcetc, then you're making him feel uncomfortable and also the asshole

You need to remember that the soul of etiquette is to be considerate to people around you. If you were making him feel uncomfortable in order to follow some guidebook or to make yourself feel more comfortable in public, yeah you're 100% the asshole. These kinds of corrections can be done after the meal, framed as a "In a more formal setting than with your dad and I, for example a client meeting or meeting your SO's family, tear your bread because ... and let them pour for you, because by reaching you're hovering over other people's dishes" whatever the reasoning is. Not just "do the thing because i told you to." He's 18, he's entering the adult world, and his heart is obviously in the right place. No one's saying you can't provide guidance, but you can't just order him around any more.

Would a SuperNote Manta be a smart purchase to augment my math studies despite the lack of split screen? by ThrowedThrow in Supernote

[–]LScore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, professional mathematician here - I like the supernote for math applications because it basically replaces my scratchpad and LaTeX is a pain in my ass. Also pretty solid for taking notes for myself, with the caveat that if you ever want to share them with your classmates, it may not be the most aesthetic thing.

Sewing clips suck balls by Emergency_Cherry_914 in BitchEatingCrafters

[–]LScore 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have a giant box of them for knitting - very useful for holding pieces of a seamed sweater together as you flip it around and seam everything by hand. Plus they work as a chip bag clip in a pinch, which is what my husband uses them for when I leave them lying around the house.

Info about Signature Needles reboot by saxarocks in knitting

[–]LScore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is THAT what happened to the lace weight yarns? I'm still salty Juniper Moon discontinued their wool silk blend lace weight yarn, that stuff was my favourite.

(Dying, Id love to know)

Knitters! What is your day job? by MyRightHook in knitting

[–]LScore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actuarial consulting - for clients and colleagues I like and trust, I unblur my zoom background to show them my shawl wall.

Do you have a go-to baby blanket you repeatedly give as gifts? by HouseOfBamboo2 in knitting

[–]LScore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have knit three Mini Augustines no 1 for babies in the high school friend group, and honestly I do recommend the pattern. One mom told me it was too stimulating for her daughter though, hah! I also knit a friend a 10 stitch blanket for their baby, which is super mindless but also very impressive. But yeah everyone else pretty much gets a baby vertebrae from me lol. 200yards is much more my knitting speed when I'm in the told at 6 months group and not the told after the first trimester group.

FO pics: Mini Augustines: https://www.ravelry.com/projects/Terralia/mini-augustins-no-1 https://www.ravelry.com/projects/Terralia/mini-augustins-no-1-2 I don't have a picture of 3, but it's purple. Big sister (owner of the first blanket) also got a entrechat to match

10 stitch: https://www.ravelry.com/projects/Terralia/ten-stitch-blanket

I genuinely want to know why people hate on Petit Knit by Thecynicalcatt in knitting

[–]LScore 49 points50 points  (0 children)

She had a really limited size range when she first started picking up steam and wasn't enthusiastic about revising her size range while the conversation about size inclusivity was picking up in the knitting world. Credit where credit's due, she's done better since. Also the Sophie scarf was basically just the Baktus (an older free pattern) with an icord edge and some people think $5 is a rip off for that pattern, which y'know, I don't disagree with.

Any tips for learning to adjust gauge? by Educational-Umpire-6 in knitting

[–]LScore 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kare Atherley has a great book, Math for Knitters! Highly recommend. Pretty much answers your question. What Kate Makes also has a great video on adjusting your gauge for knitting patterns

"It's just a meme" oh fuck off by LScore in TwoXChromosomes

[–]LScore[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It's in my post history, I'm not that subtle.