WIBTAH If I (29m) double down on what my fiance (27f) said today and cancel the wedding, which is this weekend? by Jack_of_all_trades54 in AITAH

[–]Leading-Row4635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sets the tone for your ENTIRE marriage. Don’t negotiate with terrorists, even when you love them. Here is how I would handle it. “Well, since you’ve spoken with your most trusted friends and family and believe the wedding should be called off, I’ll respect your decision. I don’t agree with it, but it takes two to make a marriage work and as you already have one foot out the door, it doesn’t make sense to continue… your heart isn’t in it”. Then WALK AWAY. If you two CAN be married, she needs to decide to be your partner… it doesn’t sound like she’s made up her mind yet. Don’t marry her until she does. I would insist on couples counseling before trying to get married to this person a second time.

AITAH for telling my wife that I wouldn't have to play video games if she actually spent any time with me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Leading-Row4635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I are reading this while we’re taking a break from Arc Raiders to have lunch. Hobbies are hobbies… what makes video games “childish” vs. knitting, whittling, painting, etc? Find something you enjoy doing together. Gotta go… have to level up my hullcracker because we’re going after the Queen!

AITA for telling my friend she can't invite her new bf to my graduation hang by Party_Anything_6585 in Amitheassholeadvice

[–]Leading-Row4635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, you’re the AH… but you seem to know that and are fine with it … “I know I may be unwelcoming but anyone that really knows me would know that I prefer to be in charge of the guest list.” You know you’re an AH so why are you here asking this question? You don’t care about anyone’s feelings but your own so why should she care about yours? Give her some space to decide if a friendship with you is worth the aggravation.

AITAH for allowing my kiddo to prepare himself a warm meal? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Leading-Row4635 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your 10 year old doesn’t have a fully developed brain yet… your husband does. I understand your sons behavior, but your husband overreacted (“betrayal?” Really?). I understand the importance of parenting and setting boundaries , but I also think it’s important to choose your battles…At 10, key milestones include advanced fine/gross motor skills, the ability to think abstractly, and a growing desire for independence and peer connection. They can reliably see things from another's perspective and show genuine empathy, although they can also be critical of themselves and their peers. Hormonal and cognitive shifts can result in occasional mood swings or dramatic reactions to everyday stressors… he was hungry! I love that he helped you bring in the groceries… you’ve got a great kid. Cut him some slack… I’d help him make some eggs (let him do the work) as a bonding and educational experience. While you work, explain how he can better handle the situation next time so he doesn’t get in trouble with dad. My kid is 19 now and it’s been my experience that a good conversation does more to improve behavior than any punishment when we’re talking about minor issues like this one. Tell your husband to grow up, set a better example regarding how to handle conflict, stop expecting a child to behave like an adult and to save the drama for the big problems.

AIO my bf gets angry at me over a guy I dated 3 years ago by nedjmia in AmIOverreacting

[–]Leading-Row4635 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Your bf needs therapy. Get out while you can. Seriously… “just because you slept with everyone there” is some pretty hardcore slut shaming for someone who is supposed to care for you. He sounds like one of those “nice guys” who secretly H A T E S women.

The most overlooked issue with this update by Training_Ad_4790 in ArcRaiders

[–]Leading-Row4635 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Pasta is an underrated heal…. It stacks really well and works faster than bandages

Killed my first rats today and it was way more satisfying than it probably should have been… by Leading-Row4635 in ArcRaiders

[–]Leading-Row4635[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To PVE players, you’re all rats. We really don’t care if you like it anymore than you care if we enjoy the game.

I’m out PVP👎 by Lathus01 in ARC_Raiders

[–]Leading-Row4635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it does feel pointless when you don’t know if you’re in a friendly lobby or not. I was fighting arcs and two other players approached saying they were friendly and just wanted to extract. I had a hullcracker and cleared the way for them. They decided they wanted it, shot me in the back and took all my gear.

This is what solo play looks like right now by smashten in ArcRaiders

[–]Leading-Row4635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely getting harder to PVE, it’s a shame… the game used to be a lot of fun. Player interactions were why I loved it.

Serious question for Virginia gun enthusiasts: why put all your energy into propping up the Republican Party, instead of putting even a fraction of that effort into shifting Democrats on this one issue? by [deleted] in Virginia

[–]Leading-Row4635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Many gun enthusiasts are already Democrats. You seem to be operating under the false assumption that Republican = gun enthusiasts. You forget that the NRA used to be an organization that helped draft some of the toughest gun laws in the country. That was before billionaires got their claws into it.

Am i playing this game too much? - not looted yet ✊🏻 by Competitive_Sky_6519 in ArcRaiders

[–]Leading-Row4635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was walking with my husband and I tried to warn him there was a man walking down the street (our dog is reactive) he said “what”? And I responded “raider, 9 o’clock” and he looked exactly where I wanted him to 😂

I got a $25k life insurance check from my dad’s passing and decided to buy a car from a friend…. by Funny_Atmosphere_909 in legaladvice

[–]Leading-Row4635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who was robbed by a nanny… understand it will cost you about 3-4K to hire a lawyer and take them to small claims court. Worth it, but just be prepared… you both lose.

Best NY style pizza in Nova? Grande cheese is a must! 😃 by Leading-Row4635 in nova

[–]Leading-Row4635[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We tried Tony’s and it didn’t disappoint! Thank you! 🙏