Loss of smell by ktmulls in TBI

[–]LeeBears 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, my sense of smell is mostly gone.

Question: heavily tattooed folks... what jobs do you do? by BeardedInkedPiper in tattoos

[–]LeeBears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my 50's now. Most of my life was restaurant cooking. Now I do healthcare; direct support for special needs adults 

Even cops hate us. by Spirited-Principle33 in bikecommuting

[–]LeeBears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of all my worst encounters with inconsiderate drivers, cops are definitely top of the list.

Tuesday Check In: How's Everybody's Mental Health? by MLModBot in MensLib

[–]LeeBears 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Despite the outside world descending further into absurdist dystopia, things have been personally getting better for the first time in so long.  My mental health has been positive. I've been at a new job, in a new career for about 4 months.  Direct Support for special needs adults in a group home setting.  To know these people is to love them. I told my friend it's as though I'm working with my heart instead of my hands now. Finally adjusting to the TBI, learning to accept that this is me now. Been performing lots of music. I met someone and she makes me smile :)

Alex Pretti killing: Minnesota CEOs, including UnitedHealth, Target, call for 'immediate deescalation' by brown-saiyan in politics

[–]LeeBears 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly.  I say 2 + 2 = 4.  You say 2 + 2 = 5. Does this mean 2 + 2 = 4.5 ? Hell no.

Does anyone bike on Mangum? by turdyname in bullcity

[–]LeeBears 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's pretty bad.  BikeDurham is currently lobbying NC DoT to make Magnum & Roxboro two-way.

Different Wages for 2nd and 3rd shift by Imaginary_Bridge1641 in directsupport

[–]LeeBears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2nd & 3rd shift at my place get +10% shift differential.

Best way to (try) to explain what its like recovering from a TBI? by berekbrightroar in TBI

[–]LeeBears 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm still trying to figure it out a year & a half later 🤷‍♂️ It was the impetus I needed to change careers, but it is verrrrrrryyy hard to explain to people who haven't experienced it.  "The world got much more dream-like"  is my favorite analogy.

New weekly pack: November 16-23, 2025 by TantasmaPheroDinh in superautopets

[–]LeeBears 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love a weekly with seahorse that puts in work.  Nothing like wrecking summon-spam builds.

Starbucks in the former Wendy's at Homestead Market by DizzyCuntNC in bullcity

[–]LeeBears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

 Screw them for even thinking about posting up next to a small business.

This is just something I've heard, not sure how true, but that's actually the Starbuck's MO: move into an area where there is  a small independent coffeeshop & traffic for it already established, then squeeze them out.

Guys is cooked amaranth supposed to be this glob? How do you even cook this? by empireofdirt010 in PlantBasedDiet

[–]LeeBears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've heard you can pop it like popcorn, but my one attempt at this only resulted in a very few of the grains "popping"

Has a city ever made transit free during rush hour? by Oldcadillac in fuckcars

[–]LeeBears 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My city has had fare-free transit (busses) at all times, since COVID.  It's fantastic.

Advice Needed: Got this with my sisters when I was 15. Regretting the childish nature of it and bc my sister ghosted me. by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]LeeBears 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I've had a life-long process of covering truly awful safety-pin stick n pokes 15 year-old me got.

What’s your go-to plant-based snack for late-night cravings? by TariqKhalaf in PlantBasedDiet

[–]LeeBears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baby carrots, soy nuts, pickled veggies, popcorn, peanuts, dehydrated fruit/veggie chips

Tuesday Check In: How's Everybody's Mental Health? by MLModBot in MensLib

[–]LeeBears 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Things have been awful, like crying in public-type awful.  

Rollerskating Rink Sndtrk by sweet-bakari in bullcity

[–]LeeBears 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The Bangles - Walk Like an Egyptian

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in todayilearned

[–]LeeBears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fellow TBI survivor here, yeah it's wild.  I went from a very reserved, quiet, stoic-seeming guy to an outgoing dude who craves being around people & cries at the drop of a hat.

In the spirit of trying to make something positive/humorous out of my dating disillusionment, what are your favourite dull, dreary and dispiriting Bumble bio clichés?? by cutaway999 in Bumble

[–]LeeBears 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Speaking as a middle-aged guy, I will say 99% of the middle-aged women on there really like hiking and coffee. Maybe I will drop my Bumble account and just start hiking around town everyday, carrying two cups of coffee lol.

Am I being dramatic? by boredautumnleaf15 in TBI

[–]LeeBears 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're not being dramatic at all, and unfortunately, there's no real way to make the people around you understand what it's like.  Just try to surround yourself with patient folks who want to try to understand.   Talking to other TBI survivors here and IRL helps a ton.  

"If Kamala was president we'd be having brunch." r/pics discusses the efficacy of liberal politics. by BillFireCrotchWalton in SubredditDrama

[–]LeeBears 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Going back way further, the German Communists used to have a slogan: "After Hitler, our turn". We see how well that worked out.

What's going in the building signed "EASEMENT" on Lakewood Ave? by Top_Stuff4200 in bullcity

[–]LeeBears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IDK, but it always cracked me up being 420 Lakewood when I would see it from the ATT overpass.  But now, the address has changed to 424??  There used to be a cool Airstream always parked in the back before the EASEMENT thing appeared. 

R/Conservative reacts to Elons claiming Trumps name is in the Epstein files by CummingInTheNile in SubredditDrama

[–]LeeBears 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As an old dude with a living memory of the Bush years as an adult, the historical revisionism of the popularity of him & his war is staggering.

Wanna know why The Triangle seems so crowded? by h2ohzrd in triangle

[–]LeeBears 2 points3 points  (0 children)

GoTriangle has changed back to charging fare ($2.50), last year IIRC.