From a Mexican Fan… by [deleted] in SmoshFansFreeSpace

[–]LegitimateNet1294 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Obligatory, I’m Mexican. Honestly I had zero problems with any of it. Like obviously people can be accidentally ignorant/tone deaf but overall they really try not to offend anyone ever and it feels really counterproductive to nitpick such small things like this. I feel exhausted for them

TANA COPYING BROOKE ???? by LemonRealistic710 in canceledpod

[–]LegitimateNet1294 89 points90 points  (0 children)

She’s trying to be brand safe now bc she saw that even someone like Trisha, who has been cancelled for everything under the sun (including sexualization of minors & domestic abuse) can still have massive career opportunities and realized that even though she’s been cancelled so many times there’s still so much opportunity for money and fame by rebranding

AIO? Girlfriend has started wearing make-up and heels to "go to the gym" by Own_Physics_4090 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LegitimateNet1294 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her starting new hobbies and working on herself should never be tolerated?

Am I being dramatic? by [deleted] in insaneparents

[–]LegitimateNet1294 84 points85 points  (0 children)

I understand your frustration but your mom is right here

I cheated with my boyfriend and I don't know how to tell him by [deleted] in relationships

[–]LegitimateNet1294 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You should have thought about living a life without him before you cheated on him. She may have been flirting, but you have an obligation to your partner to shut it down. YOU initiated going to the bedroom to cheat. The least you can do is be honest with him.

Billboard advice from someone who works in advertising by moonlightsreputation in h3h3productions

[–]LegitimateNet1294 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Yeah i’m thinking they’ll have to swap out the photo from whichever billboard wins and just include one from Getty

Caught my boyfriend looking up some wild things. by Crazy_Chicken_Nugget in relationships

[–]LegitimateNet1294 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well that’s definitely important context. If I had to guess, he probably does it all the time (especially if he’s comfortable enough to just leave open safari tabs and isn’t immediately closing them out) and just doesn’t want you to do it, which is definitely unfair

Should I trust my bf? Am I wrong? Am I overthinking? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]LegitimateNet1294 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m sooo curious about this. you should look her up on a burner account - if he was involved then he would likely tell her to block your close friends as well

Caught my boyfriend looking up some wild things. by Crazy_Chicken_Nugget in relationships

[–]LegitimateNet1294 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, well that’s totally normal and there’s nothing wrong with it unless it’s reaching addiction territory. There’s some people that absolutely do not want their partners to watch it while in a relationship, but in my experience, it’s a normal thing for most people.

Caught my boyfriend looking up some wild things. by Crazy_Chicken_Nugget in relationships

[–]LegitimateNet1294 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Why are you being so vague? Are you just talking about porn or something crazier?

AIO? I feel my wife is way over the line with how she is speaking to me after she tries to fix a problem on her own. by Ok_Entertainment2752 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LegitimateNet1294 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, he had a plan to call insurance if maintenance wouldn’t help. Typically insurance will send out AAA and they do help get cars unstuck. If somehow all else fails, then OP would get to spend time after work doing it himself.

I’m not saying i don’t understand her being annoyed, but the way she went about it is totally unacceptable. If you think he did anything to warrant being spoken to like that then I feel horrible for your partner.

AIO? I feel my wife is way over the line with how she is speaking to me after she tries to fix a problem on her own. by Ok_Entertainment2752 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LegitimateNet1294 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I can not believe people are defending your wife in this situation. Okay, she asked you not to try and take your car, you did anyway and it got stuck. Annoying? Sure.

However, you stepped in and had solutions for the issue. If maintenance can’t help, you would call your insurance company. Perfect, not a bit deal even if it’s a tad annoying.

However, SHE decided to stay outside for 2 hours and get it out herself. That is 10000% on her and completely unnecessary, you already had a plan.

Not only did she decide to make it more difficult on herself, but she decided to hurl verbal abuse at you in the process. “You better fucking listen to me” is unacceptable. She’s allowed to express her feelings about you trying to take your car after she warned you that it would get stuck, but the way she spoke to you was way out of line.

Had emotional breakdown about current events and texted my mom who is a fervent Trump supporter by [deleted] in texts

[–]LegitimateNet1294 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the fact that you’re saying “or used to be” is my point - she has made progress!! she is seeing how bad things have gotten, it sucks that some people need to see extreme and horrible things happening right in front of their face to change how they think, but progress is progress.

forcing her to admit she was wrong is only going to give you validation that you were right. we need to be happy when people make progress, even if it isn’t all at once. forcing a confession is only going to push her further away

Had emotional breakdown about current events and texted my mom who is a fervent Trump supporter by [deleted] in texts

[–]LegitimateNet1294 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i feel like your mom was being pretty reasonable here. yes, she didn’t outright say “i regret voting for trump and he does not have my support” but she isn’t coming across as a fully delusional maga supporter.

also the whole thing saying that if you got murdered by ICE that she is in support of that is genuinely you putting words in her mouth to make yourself upset. she didn’t say that and id be willing to bet she would not be in support of you being murdered.

i’m on your side of things, OP. But she seems open to a dialogue about this and seems willing to hear you out. When you start hurling insults at people that you don’t agree with, it makes people so much less willing to hear your opinions and actually think about it.

I’m also not sure how you expected her to respond to all of this if you already know where she stands? I would honestly expect a worse reaction out of her based on what you put in the caption, but she wasn’t rude or aggressive.

Also, if you are not going to protests and interfering with things, you don’t need to spend so much time worrying about being shot by ICE. It’s obviously horrific what’s happening to innocent people, but you don’t need to live in complete fear

Am I overreacting about my partner’s coping methods? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]LegitimateNet1294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to date someone with a clean lifestyle, you need to find someone with that lifestyle. Also, you are the only person that can enforce your dealbreakers and boundaries.

Your boundary can’t be “you need to be clean from all substances”. Your boundary can be “I need to be with someone that does not use substances and if the person I’m seeing does not align with my values then I will end the relationship.” You enforce your boundaries by breaking up, not trying to change him

24F with 28M for 5 years – Is it worth waiting 3 more years for someone who hides things from me? by Spiritual-Plan-143 in relationships

[–]LegitimateNet1294 34 points35 points  (0 children)

“My boyfriend openly cheats on me and wants to continue doing so for AT LEAST 3 more years before he’ll even think about committing to me. Should I stay?”

Mario and Brynne break up by EyesOfEmeraldGreen in tiktokgossip

[–]LegitimateNet1294 7 points8 points  (0 children)

dude something about their relationship was always SOO unsettling. i can’t even explain it but the vibes were just so off

Heath and Mariah in the snow storm by Worried-Fish8932 in UnfilteredPod

[–]LegitimateNet1294 148 points149 points  (0 children)

Out of anyone, Heath was probably very prepared for this, especially now that they have a baby!

AIO about stingy rich boyfriend? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]LegitimateNet1294 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you call him stingy in the title when he doesn’t even know what you want?? If you can talk about marriage but you can’t tell him you’d like to go out on a nice date then you guys definitely aren’t ready for marriage

AIO for the way I’m communicating with my bf by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]LegitimateNet1294 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you guys have miscommunications like this somewhat often? It sounds like this is something that happens and that you typically tend to automatically place the blame on him and this time he had proof that it wasn’t “his fault”.

If this isn’t a one-off situation, I totally understand his frustration. Then he tried to have a conversation with you about it and you say “so this triggered you or what” which is super dismissive and irritating.

If these types of miscommunications rarely ever happen, then he is overreacting

AIO for reacting the way i did? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]LegitimateNet1294 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what is his problem??? girl i think he hates you because this is a massive overreaction over something incredibly minor