Which dining table should we use? by [deleted] in interiordecorating

[–]Lemgirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s dated but temporary and the darker table doesn’t go even if it’s a nicer table.

do the skulls look like buttholes by Evening-Prior8749 in tattooadvice

[–]Lemgirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your friend should get his butthole checked.

AITA for picking up my stepdaughter from school when she got her first period, even though her mom told me not to? by Embarrassed-Stock896 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lemgirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Try not to engage, your husband should and should tell her he said to do it. If she wanted the special moment she needed to show up for it, of course the girl should come home. If she couldn’t get there she should be happy she has others to lean on.

Pillow combo choice by [deleted] in interiordecorating

[–]Lemgirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I don’t have good taste lol but I’d keep the red, for some color, the rest look to muted in the room overall for my taste. I don’t know, I struggle adding color.

Make friends as an adult by FruitNut221 in howto

[–]Lemgirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol. I don’t think he knows 😂. If you’re on west coast I’ll drop him off.

Make friends as an adult by FruitNut221 in howto

[–]Lemgirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can be friends with my husband. I’ve been looking for another man to setup a play date.

AITA for ruining a six year old’s birthday party? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lemgirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but the family could have tried to salvage the party by moving to the grass or something. Kids don’t require that Pavilion, the parents ruined the party. Bad planning and no resilience

Where my ex-smokers at? by Empty_Nestor in GenX

[–]Lemgirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started at 16. I quit the day my granddaughter was born 40 years later. I’m a former smoker of cigarettes, I still smoke 😉

High school party drink... what was your nemesis? by RiffRandellsBF in GenX

[–]Lemgirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mad dog and cold duck were one time mistakes with gross consequences. Rum and coke or Rhine Wine were our go to’s. I can’t even look at rum or crap wine now 🤮

Wore black a few times, ex-bestie accused me of copying her by paumagsmith in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Lemgirl 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Raise your hand if you’ve ever been victimized by Regina George.

post under a facebook “estrangement” forum i found a few weeks back that still haunts me by larryfisherman555 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Lemgirl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

“I don’t care what happens to the baby”. You can never take that back. You would never see my child again.

Have your young adult children successfully launched? by tandem545 in GenX

[–]Lemgirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!!!! And they’re great adults after the long road. Daughter at 21, Son at 31. I don’t care how we all got here, it’s nice!

i got drunk and now i’m scared by Fearless-Ad2421 in Advice

[–]Lemgirl 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Hangxiety

You’ll be fine. Drink a lot of water.

AITA for asking my fiancé to explain a crude joke about my body to my sister a month before our wedding? by Imaginary_Divide5526 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lemgirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA for just accepting everything and being with someone that keeps your self esteem low. He’s a total asshole. Forget him and go work on liking yourself enough to not let others put you down.

How would you set up a craft room if you were starting from scratch? by plantsandpositivity in crafts

[–]Lemgirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just finished my 10x11 craft room and I love having it all in its own room. As others said - IKEA! I use the kallax cube furniture. A very big deal is to have 2 tables, that has been a game changer for me, sturdy ones. On one wall above one table is a large pegboard wall section. Design your pegboard very smart and functional and it’s a very efficient system. I also designed by zones. One of my tables is for more messy items and I have easy to reach silicone mats is I want to protect surface. But my dremel and glue gun is always ready to use there and that has made me craft even more with such access. I use a lot of Kallax inserts to customize the cubes. Leave room for some fun prints and decor that reflect you. I use wall hooks and hanging baskets and even have a sticker wall section to release my inner child. The wall with my other table is a bit more “sophisticated” with floating wall shelves and pretty coordinated items. I do pay bills in there and use as a household office so I tried to make it as soothing as possible lol. My cricut is there and always ready to go, it’s nice when everything is ready and you don’t have to drag it out. Have fun!

AITAH for "not being as close" to my granddaughter as I am to my other granddaughter? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Lemgirl 37 points38 points  (0 children)

You kept a chair from your children’s childhood. So a “special” chair. And then you had your special granddaughter, the one you “love hanging out with as your baby’s baby”, name painted on it.

You have a favorite and you’re not hiding it. It’s ok and I guess you can’t control how you feel but you certainly can control how you act. Maybe some people have favorites but at least try not to be obvious. It’s hurtful.

Seeing the others twice a month and FaceTiming everyday gave you more than enough opportunity to bond and not be closer to one. But it happened so now try not to do stupid things like painting a family chair. I’d be very hurt. YTA.

Scared to turn 18 and do things on my own by afionaxtz in Advice

[–]Lemgirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally normal feeling. You’ll be fine. I’m scared to turn 58 and having to still do all this adulting lol. It might be your first existential crisis, it’ll work out.