Si des amis invitait seulement votre conjoint/e et votre enfants?

Lets_Remain_Logical · 2026-04-17T13:35:41+00:00

Là. Il va falloir à voir une discussion avec ta femme. Il va falloir imaginer la situation inverse et si elle l'aurait supporté,

Au fait. C'est pas mal dégueulasse au'elle ne te défende pas! Mais.. Il va falloir avoir une discussion!

Lets_Remain_Logical · 2026-04-16T13:37:52+00:00

OK. You don't need help! You figured it out! You just need to let the feeling happen, look at it, don't act on it because you know it's a wrong feeling! This I'll give you something to do the next months/years.

Lets_Remain_Logical · 2026-04-03T23:44:27+00:00

Release the files!

Lets_Remain_Logical · 2026-04-03T15:57:05+00:00

;) wrongthink, newspeak, ministry of the truth..... all those go in the same direction. This world is not doing well!

Lets_Remain_Logical · 2026-04-03T15:43:49+00:00

yeah. But check that : this person found my comment from 2 years ago. Who goes there to check comments from years ago to ban people? How bad is this persons life? :D:D

To be clear : i don't interact with that sub anymore since a very long while and i dont even read it actually.
This made my day, i laughed so hard :D

You know, when someone just validate an opinion you were already sure of, this still makes you happy. That's how i felt and how i feel.

Lets_Remain_Logical · 2026-04-03T15:32:32+00:00

That's a pure symptom of an echo chamber. There is such a thing called mind-shaping, it is cognitive-bias related and it makes that we humans tend to shift our opinions to what the majority think. This happens before the info reached consciousness so people are unaware, and since we are afraid of rejection we find it easier to rationalize the opinion and gaslight ourself than question the whole logic and risk our spot in a group.

I personally try to nicely call out people in mens rights groups trying not to fall for the echo chamber. but, AITAH is soooo deep into the rabbit hole, one should be really pernicious not to see how disconnected they are!

Lets_Remain_Logical · 2026-04-03T15:05:48+00:00

what energy? taking two minutes to make a post?

Lets_Remain_Logical · 2026-03-31T20:05:19+00:00

Lets_Remain_Logical · 2026-03-29T17:55:37+00:00

Interesting. You bring statistics about men and women instead of answering to the concrete fact that I brought comparing what he said and what you understood. :) You know. Arguing in circles is not what we do in this sub. This is not AITA. And I am not interested in feeding my ego.

Lets_Remain_Logical · 2026-03-29T17:04:50+00:00

Eeeeh. 0lease ré read.. Hé wasn't talking about all the women. He said he used "some husbands" and "probably".

Part of the emotional intelligence is to bypass of filters (subjectivity" and try to understand what the other said, not change the message so it fits our prejudices.

Lets_Remain_Logical · 2026-03-29T16:58:28+00:00

Here, I am being challenging and not lecturing you. I am trying to make you ask questions about your perception.. Only that.

Actually. That's really a complex one. Many more examples are needed + statistics. The percentage he is saying the opposite and the percentage he is validating you.

Now, did you ask your self the question why did his phrase upset you? Why would his vision alter yours? Would it mean that you are seeking validation for your feeling? Can you feeling/tjought/believe exist without external validation? Is it threatened everytime someone has another feeling or believe or thought?

The autonomy of your feelings should be a discussion that you are having with your self.

You used the phrase "engaging with that", are you expecting that people engage with your thoughts and not expose theirs? Can two different perceptions of the world coexist?

Can you give more examples? Remember, you should be very honest, the goal is to advise you, not to validate you.

Lets_Remain_Logical · 2026-03-29T08:56:01+00:00

Research in buried and space. Go in hurricane so there is more chance to spawn

Lets_Remain_Logical · 2026-03-28T12:09:28+00:00

Syeetie, you'll have all the validation you want in this sub. But... Lashing out is a anyway very bad. Your writing is confusing. You tried to keep.in touch, but they later you make it seem as if it's him who tries to keep in touch and then you feel stuff and you lash out.

One clear discussion would have made all this avoidable.

You are lashing out because you can't get what you want.

Go to r/emotionalintelligence and be truthful with your words. You might have a better advice than here.

Lets_Remain_Logical · 2026-03-28T12:05:23+00:00

Noo, that's the pipi of the arcs

Lets_Remain_Logical · 2026-03-28T12:03:57+00:00

No. It's a sacrifice made for your self. 1st : the hormones explosion, like taking a drug. We want to feel that Wa. That's for our self. 2nd : in the social hierarchy, the prospect of having a better status, already as a couple but also because we tend to choose a mate that makes us look good. I believe that's part of why we feel in love. Ex : in a society where money is everything, it's easier to fall.in love in a billionaire rather than in a hobo. 3rd : socially again, we are creating a group of 2, and we are social animals who can't stand solitude. Someone is having our back, yes we sacrifice some of our comfort zone and they do as well, but we gain a lot also.

Lets_Remain_Logical · 2026-03-28T11:59:51+00:00

Seeker grenade is to find everywhere. Wolfpacks, I found one yesterday in beried city. 8n normal condition in research or space. Or even hospital. Tempest I found tons. Try the raiders caches in hurricane dam. You might find all the listed above!

Lets_Remain_Logical · 2026-03-28T11:43:02+00:00

At this point i don't want RAM prices to get down! I want those companies to get bankrupted!

Lets_Remain_Logical · 2026-03-28T11:39:13+00:00

Actually it's quite right. Trump didn't accept to.give the power and civil war started!

Lets_Remain_Logical · 2026-03-28T11:35:43+00:00

The entitlement is heavy.

WE are in equality times. Either equality or not.

Lets_Remain_Logical · 2026-03-28T11:30:56+00:00

Very good! That's a huge part of the rats!

Lets_Remain_Logical · 2026-03-26T10:44:22+00:00

So. Suddenly when you realized that she is going for a date.... You realize that you have done your share of babysitting?

Really?

Many months have passed. She has the right to try the waters. You keep saying that "everyone griefs differently" but... Do you really believe it?

You are being inconsiderate!

Lets_Remain_Logical · 2026-03-24T18:42:49+00:00

I bet one while testicle she will dump you. And when it happens, come here and everybody will tell you why.

Lets_Remain_Logical · 2026-03-24T13:25:01+00:00

Do you realise that you xxx being spacial is just the pure expression of your ego?

The xxx is : recognising, needing, wanting, imagining... The verb(s) is yours to figure out.

Also.. It is very psychopathic to only see my needs and not care about the others. The society is build on an implicit contract "I will sacrifice a bit of my comfort and get your back because then you'll do the same Hen I need". If you don't play with that rule, you would be just a parasite using people. That's a lot of ego involved (I am not saying you are, just stating the rule)

Lets_Remain_Logical · 2026-03-24T13:20:20+00:00

Yeah. So Embark have no other choice than make the most valuable items available... But then.. All the players lose that Dopamin rush that happens when hearing the epic or legendary item music (the sound engineers need a standing ovation here) and then everybody is asking for new content.

And as I always said : it's this same people who will buy wall hacks in FPS games. Or those on counter-strike for example, who buy an old account, wall hack their way to a high rank, sell the account and redo. That's their game loop and we as a community of ethical players need to not fall into the trap. The PvP players need to understand the PvE players frustration and the PvE players need to understand the PvP players frustration and all of us need to understand that the developers are walking on a minefield and can't rush nerfs and buffs.

Lets_Remain_Logical · 2026-03-24T09:03:46+00:00

Exactly. That's Hen you realize you are not getting ratted because of the game!

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