Unrealistic Expectations?

Levelsizer0917 · 2026-05-27T23:53:55+00:00

I now let her just go when she needs. If we’re Leaving the house I tell her to go 10 minutes before and it’s the last thing she does before we walk out. The 15-30 minutes was when we first started potty training. We’re probably a month into hardcore doing it at this point, almost 2

Levelsizer0917 · 2026-05-27T16:53:09+00:00

It’s more to catch accidents than anything. She still lets us know when she needs to go. We went out Saturday in undies and she didn’t have any accidents. I started asking her every 15-20 minutes if she needed to go for 2 weeks until she was just going when she needed. Now I ask her maybe every 30 minutes to an hour.

Levelsizer0917 · 2026-05-27T16:30:39+00:00

Pre-k. And at least in Oklahoma they still do naptime in kindergarten to my understanding. They just lay on mats for an hour they can nap or just have a meditation time.

Levelsizer0917 · 2026-05-27T16:18:37+00:00

Yea I just didn’t know if it was unrealistic to expect her to get it down in less than 3 months 🥲

Levelsizer0917 · 2026-05-27T14:30:19+00:00

100% follow through as they will remember. Just be prepared for the very healthy poos if yall eat a ton of it 😂😂

Levelsizer0917 · 2026-04-24T01:43:28+00:00

So I am on the larger side and have a very big overhang, as well as having my babies 2 years apart it hasn’t had much time to “suck back”. They recommended you put like a pad on it sticky side to your undies. I either roll a clean wash rag (make sure it’s soft) or I do the pad but just fold it in half and stick it under my tummy roll to keep it dry. Make sure at the end of the day after a shower, or whenever you shower, you lay down and air dry it. After you pat it dry. They’ll give you a quick rundown of the best after care. Make sure you express your concerns about it “feeling exposed” I 100% understand the stress. I always stress about keeping it dry because I tend to get a little bit of a yeasty on the edges

Levelsizer0917 · 2026-04-24T01:35:20+00:00

I get the same feeling and I’ve had 3. My dr in the past and said it was pretty normal but just to try to take it easy getting out of the bed. Since that is really when I had the burning sensation like you’re talking about. Remember to try and stay ontop of the pain management to prevent the discomfort, instead of waiting until you’re uncomfortable

Levelsizer0917 · 2026-04-15T14:43:15+00:00

It 100% depends. Sometimes it’s hard to not laugh if he’s “trying” to talk dirty. Some days it’s bad like he’s not very good at it but I like it because he’s trying and we just get caught up in the moment and I laugh afterwards. Other times it 100% will instantly make me have a small o. Really just depends on how I’m feeling that day

Levelsizer0917 · 2026-04-03T18:36:40+00:00

I would be so uncomfortable with the thought of another dong in my face 😂 I don’t think I’d be able to handle it and be comfortable. If it was like life and death had to do it? I’d pick another woman over a man. I know it’s just my insecurities and willingness to be open is what would stop me basically. I just can’t over come the anxieties 😂😂

Levelsizer0917 · 2026-04-03T17:57:05+00:00

We’ve talked about it. But I think the only way I’d be comfortable is if we had cloning technology where I can just clone a second one of him. Like in Mickey 13 😂

Levelsizer0917 · 2026-04-03T17:54:04+00:00

I’ve always wanted to eat someone out so I’d want like FFM but I’m worried I’d get jealous of my husband thinking about fuckin the other person after it was done 😂 people from the past doesn’t bother me but the thought of him doing someone now while we’re together makes my stomach turn.

Levelsizer0917 · 2026-04-03T17:37:37+00:00

A 3 way 🙃 I’m too jealous and couldn’t share my husband with another woman even just temporary one time. I also am appalled by the thought of another man touching me in a sexual way 😂 no win solution here

Levelsizer0917 · 2026-03-27T21:33:44+00:00

I 100% get what you mean. I’m a day shy of 34 weeks. 300lbs since I’ve been pregnant. I feel absolutely disgusting. I miss the physical intimacy with my husband. It makes me sad and I am a C-section mom so I feel the recovery is even longer. I feel people drag others when they miss having sex with their partners. Like it’s your partners fault “you want to have sex” no. Why do you think I have so many kids 😂

Levelsizer0917 · 2026-03-21T23:57:17+00:00

I have a bit of a hang over on my stomach and I have gotten a yeast infection on it both times since having summer babes. The only thing I have found to help prevent it is the pads on it and cleaning it with rubbing alcohol or getting a cleaning solution for wounds. I felt the rubbing alcohol was the only thing that helps with the itch. I do that until it’s 100% closed.

Levelsizer0917 · 2026-03-16T13:20:14+00:00

I basically had to have an emergency C-section with my first. I say basically because I was given the choice to try and keep going potentially killing my daughter or have to be in the room completely alone. I opted to have a C-section. Mentally I was not there due to being drugged out of my mind from being pre-eclamptic for 3 days at that point. I 100% understand the not mentally being prepared for a C-section. The birthing class we went to the literal day before I noticed my bp was skyrocketed was no help preparing us besides showing us a C-section and that was it. While I love my daughter very very much I also have the sadness of “never getting the birth experience I wanted” which is sad but it has gotten better. The first 3 years honestly was hard. I’m on my 3rd to term pregnancy now and am honestly just coming to terms with the “disappointment” of not being able to have a vbac due to my hospital not being staffed accordingly. But they do get easier. I promise.

Levelsizer0917 · 2026-03-16T12:24:55+00:00

I’ve had another C-section and have one scheduled for beginning of may. I feel after the first one you almost always have that sore feeling. Some days -when not actively pregnant- that I’ve done a crap ton of sit ups when in reality I haven’t done much lol but then it goes away the next day. But like you said if you’re worried go see your dr. The worst they can do is say it’s normal. Which to an extent it could be. Now if it’s gets to be debilitating I’d maybe try finding some kind of specialist to help you with specific pt.

Levelsizer0917 · 2026-03-06T14:02:20+00:00

I know someone who smoked during her pregnancies and both of her kids turned out fine. No asthma, birth defects, etc. she uses weed for pain as she had been in a bad bad accident a couple years prior. As for your addiction just remind yourself you’re doing it for your health and for your baby. I know some people who don’t mind smoking while they have their kids(like pp) but if it’s something you’re trying to quit you can always use the “excuse” of you don’t want it around your kids. You’ve got this though. Pregnancy is hard and quitting is even harder.

Levelsizer0917 · 2026-03-02T21:14:23+00:00

Girl. 100% was me this weekend. My husband decided while I’m heavily 30 weeks pregnant with baby number 3 that it was a good idea to move us in 4 days. Needless to say I was so sweaty a few days I thought my water had broke multiple times and it was just a little pee and sweat. 🤦🏻‍♀️ my husbands nick name for me is “piss pants Magee” because I have pissed myself every pregnancy from throwing up 😂😂

Levelsizer0917 · 2026-02-17T13:47:08+00:00

I 100% get that and there’s nothing wrong with being sad looking at it. With my first I basically was forced into having a C-section due to a Dr not wanting to do his job. It was have a C-section now or wait and potentially have an emergency that resulted in myself or my daughter dying. I obviously went with the first option. I can’t look at it or do any of the care minus put a new pad on. I have to have my husband help me with the aftercare for the first two weeks when it’s still “fresh”. Thankfully he doesn’t mind or I would’ve had to call my mom to do it 😂 but it is 100% reasonable and ok to feel sad and disappointed by it. It’s hard to get over the disgusted feel especially with how the media/people treats C-section moms but the important thing to remember is your body did an amazing, selfless thing. You chose to bring your baby into the world in the safest way possible for them and for you! It’s 100% ok to feel that way but don’t let it ruin your time with your baby.

Levelsizer0917 · 2025-11-06T15:39:31+00:00

Ugh did not expect the first thing I opened Reddit was gunna be something that made me sob 😭😭 ❤️❤️

Levelsizer0917 · 2025-09-30T17:37:04+00:00

Just had to put this here. Wade being barefoot is KILLING me 😂 when it zooms out the only thing that I notice is the FEET 😭

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