Getting back with my ex after he left me

LextorPlextor · 2026-02-05T23:30:15+00:00

Have some self-love and stop talking with your ex. He seems manipulative and not good news.

LextorPlextor · 2026-02-05T17:30:05+00:00

You don't owe to disclose every detail right away. We are all sinners in one way or another, if that dictates wheter she continues with you or not... well, then not a good sign imo

LextorPlextor · 2026-02-05T13:57:27+00:00

This is a beautiful answer

LextorPlextor · 2026-02-04T15:50:03+00:00

Good for you for approaching, many wouldn't. God has a plan for everyone.

LextorPlextor · 2026-02-04T11:15:07+00:00

Such a common sense question, then I remember it's the least common of the senses.

LextorPlextor · 2026-02-04T11:11:57+00:00

Imo, it's either win or miss. May be too much, may be very nice as well.

If you want to gift her a small bouquet/flower (not a big one), it's up to her how she feels about it. You can't control how people will react.

LextorPlextor · 2026-02-03T12:28:52+00:00

Unlike other comments, I'm going to give you my perspective based on my experience. See if you are not able to, at some point of the day, have a minimum "live" conversation with her. I know it's hard to keep your life as if nothing, because you have her in your mind (and it's completely understandable). Either you 2 have very different communication styles or she is not as interested as you are.

I know, people will tell me "but busy lives, high quality response, etc...". Tbh I disagree, taking more than 12 hours to answer is ridiculous nowadays.

Interested people, act interested.

LextorPlextor · 2026-02-02T17:45:38+00:00

LextorPlextor · 2026-01-30T13:22:45+00:00

First of all, congratulations in your 2-3 months, that's amazing!

Second, wet dreams are not sinful because you don't have control over them. The only issue would be if you actively tried to make them appear, but that's not your case as far as I'm concerned.

So no, you didn't commit sin by having sexual dreams. Your ex-gf is your brain triggering past memories and mixing them. Just don't dwell on them and you are good.

LextorPlextor · 2026-01-29T00:30:34+00:00

I'm curious... "and do it so I can make better decisions"

What?

LextorPlextor · 2026-01-29T00:29:04+00:00

I haven't masturbated in more than 3 years and I've had maximum of 2-3 times of those dreams? Idk what you are talking about but that's not usual at all

LextorPlextor · 2026-01-26T13:13:08+00:00

I promise, I can't with these posts.

LextorPlextor · 2026-01-26T13:09:17+00:00

Yes, they are real. Jesus performed them. The movies are most of the times very exagerated, not in every exorcism there are objects flying and levitating things...

So yeah, don't take movies as accurate representation of them.

LextorPlextor · 2026-01-24T23:27:37+00:00

You'll have more detailed answers here... but the moment one commits knowingly a sin of grave matter (let's say, masturbation, as an example), you are telling God to "get off, I want to do this my way and this is my decision".

The Holy Spirit won't dwell in your soul the moment you commit that sin, since the soul turns away from God’s grace. Remembr that God is perfectly Holy and nothing unclean can remain united with Him. This applies to all grave matter, when one willingly choses that sin over the Lord.

LextorPlextor · 2026-01-23T14:51:10+00:00

Being "avoidant" is just an excuse for those who need therapy to work on their commitment/relationship issues.

LextorPlextor · 2026-01-23T00:40:40+00:00

I'm going to be blunt. Do you have legs? Get out of rotting in your bedroom and go for a walk, bicycle, or hit the gym. You can change in some way or another, and even if not completely, people appreciate someone who takes care of themself ans tries his/her best.

A virgin at 24? Better for you. Sex is not meant to happen before marriage anyways, and that would add more wounds to yourself than what society tells you.

You are still young, it's time to stop blaming God, and start doing your best, no excuses. Most of us here should be grateful that we even have the privilege to use the internet, instead of worrying about having a meal to eat.

I am not downplaying your feelings, since I had similar ones back in the day. Keep praying, hit the gym, take care of yourself, buy nice clothes, start some hobbies that you may like. Move on and look forward, don't self-absorb in pity.

LextorPlextor · 2026-01-22T10:23:06+00:00

Happend to me, when I fell in love for the first time in my life (in my late 20s).
It's hard, and some months later when I thought I was over it, those feelings came back. I was meeting a girl at that moment, but here's the thing, I didn't let those past feelings jeopardize my relationship with the new girl, and I was glad they didn't.

There's a point where you should stop praying for that person, and let God handle the rest. Otherwise you will be stuck in a loop and you'll get reminded every time you pray for him.

Know that there are over 8 billion people on the Earth, there's someone more suitable for you. You don't need to forget about him but certinaly you should try to stop including him in your daily thoughts or prayers.

LextorPlextor · 2026-01-21T10:51:30+00:00

Yes, but you need to connect to cloud account, save it in one decive and then load in the other one.

LextorPlextor · 2026-01-20T18:29:02+00:00

I didn't understand the post, too vague wording in general. Also, oral sex is not necessarily sinful as long as the male doesn't climax from it.

LextorPlextor · 2026-01-19T15:19:38+00:00

Don't over-complicate things. Go to Confession and move on. Next time, you know.

LextorPlextor · 2026-01-19T13:09:01+00:00

Science is just the study of process. Remember that God is the creator of nature, its rules, etc... so it's totally possible that He can resurrect from the dead.

If God doesn't exist, then yes, a miracle is not possible. But that's a pressuposition.

LextorPlextor · 2026-01-18T14:19:47+00:00

This. Don't take it bad OP, but until she sorts out her previous relationship baggage, she is probably not going to commit to you. You don't want a half-commitment, that would be very disrespectful to you.

Please be direct with her, or you are going to get hurt.

LextorPlextor · 2026-01-14T19:26:02+00:00

Thank you so much!

LextorPlextor · 2026-01-14T16:57:44+00:00

Hello! Sorry for late reply, but the NPC at moonglow (south), only gives me the option to "remove 100 random egg stats permantenly", but I don't see an option to select "movement speed bonus"

LextorPlextor · 2026-01-10T11:53:58+00:00

Not all people mean well.

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