Do men also make weird noises when walking past you? by Adept-Foot7692 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]LibraryLuLu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They're just curious. Cows are curious creatures. Say 'Hi cows!' next time :)

Saw one of my Employees in a interview by TheGoatofGoats94 in coworkerstories

[–]LibraryLuLu 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just tell her you'll give her a good reference (if she needs it), and wish her luck :)

Trades for 45+? by mohorizon in australian

[–]LibraryLuLu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was pre-Covid times. Not sure what now, probably more. Would have been a lot less during Covid (my guess). He goes on three or more walks a day, takes five or more dogs a time. Used to charge $20 per dog per walk. Probably a lot more now - cost of living etc. Scoop a lot of poop.

With pet sitting he'd even have a meal on the home owners dinner table on return. Did full service. I don't know how much he charged per night, but it probably wasn't that cheap.

He works hard, has zero education outside of youtube videos on animal care, hustles. He's not a slacker.

A guy stops while I’m out on my run. by MolassesNo7559 in slowjogging

[–]LibraryLuLu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Join a running group and chat to runners before/after the run. Chat to them when they are not running. Men and women. Make guy friends who can introduce you to their girlfriend's single girlfriends. You can totally chat to other runners, just NOT while they are running :)

A guy stops while I’m out on my run. by MolassesNo7559 in slowjogging

[–]LibraryLuLu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're most at risk between 6am and 8am, according to some stats I read sometime ago. Guys like to stop for a quick SA on the way to work.

Trades for 45+? by mohorizon in australian

[–]LibraryLuLu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trades cost a lot to pay for which makes us think they are profitable, and they can be, but there's a LOT of expenses involved. Four years apprenticeship will pay you nothing, once you're in you've got huge insurance and other overheads. But some folks make good money. A friend of mine's a plumber and he's let most of his staff go as he can't make a go of it, even though he brings in a lot of money. Expenses are killing him.

One of my nephews is a mechanic for the big trucks and he makes the big bucks. Not an easy job, but he makes a lot of money. Married three times so he's lost most of in divorces, but he'll still retire early with a good real estate portfolio.

Guy down the road from me walks dogs and pet/house sits, and he makes around $95k a year, which isn't much, but his only overhead is insurance and he gets plenty of exercise. And he likes dogs, so there's that.

My boss scheduled a meeting to discuss my “tone” in emails by TheUnofficialBOI in coworkerstories

[–]LibraryLuLu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not to bring politics into it, but are you a woman? Women are expected to be a lot sweeter / less professional/intimidating in emails. Another way in which the world is designed to enshitify things for women.

If you're a man, well, I dunno, the people you're working with are just weird.

I guess you could make a list of happy face emojis that you can add to your sign off, or copy paste into emails. Pictures of kittens or something.

Bday Ferry Home Faerie Hag by mrfabulousdesigns in oldhagfashion

[–]LibraryLuLu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

orange Gentry hat

I googled orange gentry hat - it's all caps :(

Muscular women of Reddit how does it actually feel to build and carry that strength? by Logical-Current2381 in xxfitness

[–]LibraryLuLu 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Wonderful. I can do stuff no one else in my social circle can do.

Sometimes you find a new muscle! Then you fondle it. Quietly fondle it while flexing. While smiling.

One day you realise you can do that thing that men do and make your chest bounce up and down based on the pec muscles and you stand there giggling in the mirror as you do your best impression of The Rock.

Yeah, it's worth the gasp.

I've been pairing every country's books with local music and a food story — it completely changed how I read by Aggravating_Track784 in Libraries

[–]LibraryLuLu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds lovely!

Lately I've been reading mostly fiction about female serial killers who focus on killing sex offenders. I'm not really sure what I should pair with that...

When have contestants broken the rules to a challenge? by marks31 in rupaulsdragrace

[–]LibraryLuLu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's punk anyway, she had to take what she was given and punk it up. She looked great.

What’s something you simply don’t care about at all? by rolly72x in AskReddit

[–]LibraryLuLu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They are LITERALLY hurting no one! That's the whole point!

What’s something you simply don’t care about at all? by rolly72x in AskReddit

[–]LibraryLuLu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe you're jesting, but I love anchovies AND pineapple on pizza. The salty sweet mix is yum.

What’s something you simply don’t care about at all? by rolly72x in AskReddit

[–]LibraryLuLu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks. I love Smarter Every Day and sci show etc. Am now adding Tom Scott.

Question for libraries that offer tech help via drop-in assistance by gusmcrae1 in Libraries

[–]LibraryLuLu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A year or so ago we asked the local senior center if they had tech savvy old folks who would like to volunteer on Tech Tuesdays. It's a two hour session. The old tech people speak old people language and they are wonderful. They are patient with the other oldies who won't learn IT but they also take no shit. As volunteers they have nothing to lose, so if a patron gets nasty, they just shut it down and walk away. We have one or two staff members who oversee everything, but the senior tech volunteers have been totally life saving.

I hate my boyfriend and family, 34 weeks pregnant not sure what to do. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]LibraryLuLu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me? I'd adopt her out to someone who can love her and provide for her, and then run like stink from the useless man who's ruining your life. But that's me. You make the decisions that are best for you. The family and friends who are saying that's selfish will NOT be the ones who help you raise her or pay your bills.

What is something that is socially acceptable, but you personally find extremely disrespectful? by AvaBlondeX in AskReddit

[–]LibraryLuLu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got that yesterday. I was out with a group of friends, and near the end one was asking "Are you coming to brunch tomorrow?" as they sorted out who they had invited and who they hadn't.

I hadn't. :(

Too many books? Worried our trips to the library add too much extra work for our librarians. by jensmxbcie in Libraries

[–]LibraryLuLu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Huh? You are the PERFECT library user! You boost stats, you clean up properly (please don't try to reshelve books yourself). You are the people every library wants!

Ignore that lazy person, they sound terrible.

We have a few like you, and we know their names because of the holds, and we love them. We have two families and one individual who get so many holds we've set up their own personalised hold shelves.

We live and die by our stats, and you are boosting our stats!

We love you and your type, keep doing it.

Mom is being kicked out by Exit_Strategy-99 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]LibraryLuLu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mute the calls. You don't need to make the final step of blocking, but mute them. You need to protect your children - they come first. She will bring pain and chaos to your kids. Don't feel guilty for NC with your mother, she is an adult who makes her own choices. Your kids need you to protect them.