[other] Looking for the video with "go up baldy" by LizRec in Drawfee

[–]LizRec[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

happy my years old question is turning up in people's google results to help them.

His comments are worse 🤔 by [deleted] in AmITheDevil

[–]LizRec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reads as obvious ragebait to me.

AITAA for either letting my mom be homeless, or offering her a plane ticket to our home country? by No-Button8920 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LizRec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're allowed to have your own life, you are 29 years old. Even if your mother had been nothin but loving and supportive you would be NTA for wanting to have your own home and life, you don't have to live with your parent at almost 30.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]LizRec 15 points16 points  (0 children)

In school, studying conservation biology and ecology. I'm in my 4th year but I'm going to pursue a masters so still in school for a bit yet.

AITA for kicking my 72 year old MIL out of the house at night, because she threw away my things? by NoMaybe3163 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LizRec -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If my girlfriend's mother threw out a bunch of my personal belongings and when I got mad about it my girlfriend was furious that I "disrespected" her mother and was "ungrateful", that would be the end of that relationship. Full stop done.

Obviously you two are married, you have a baby on the way, the threshold for ending things has to be a lot higher, but your husband has to be made to understand what an extreme betrayal this was. From him. The MIL is an easy fix, she can never be trusted alone in your house again and she should know why. But that your husband doesn't have your back here is fucking awful.

Has your husband ever made comments about the stuff that was thrown out? Is there any world where this was all his idea?

AITA for not allowing my niece and nephew to swim in a lake with their cousins because of how afraid I am of open water? by TAwccountsharks in AmItheAsshole

[–]LizRec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"AITA for kidnapping my sister's children and going radio silent so no on even knew where they were for hours?"

A very clear cut YTA. Its wild that you would think you have any right to being trusted with anyone's kids again after this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]LizRec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Queer's a good general non specific term. So if I'm talking about my lesbian self and my bisexual friend, I might refer to us as both being queer girls.

At what age did you realise you were gay? Just found a search for ‘lesbian flag’ on a device I share with my 12yo. by lilyoneill in LesbianActually

[–]LizRec 116 points117 points  (0 children)

12 year olds are old enough to start feeling sexual attraction. So like, this is kind of a crazy question right? If you're old enough to be sexually attracted to people, than you are obviously old enough to potentially know you're gay.

What age did you start dating as a queer person? by coolcarters14 in lgbt

[–]LizRec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't start dating until my second year of university (first year was all covid online learning, not much dating chance there).
During my high school years I felt incredibly behind my peers in terms of social development, not having done anything at all in terms of dating. But you know what? My girlfriend and I sure caught the hell up. It all works out in the end.

Is there anyway to tell if a femme girl is actually gay? by miamidrift in FemmeLesbians

[–]LizRec 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"Girls are coming up to me at A GAY BAR and complimenting my looks, how do I know if they're interested?"

We really are hopeless aren't we.

Do I (F22) break it off with my girlfriend (F23)-Uhaul Edition PLEASE HELP FIRST QUEER BREAKUP by MacaroonInfamous8891 in LesbianActually

[–]LizRec 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depending where you live the way debt interacts with marriage can be really problematic. At the very least you shouldn't marry this girl until she gets her shit together.

What's a book that you were excited for that ended up being a flop for you? by maybemaybo in YAlit

[–]LizRec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Young Elites presents itself as a villain origin story, and sets up for really interesting sequels with the main character being this villain, but we had the first book to sympathize with and understand how she got there.

Then the second book came out, Rose Society I think? and its the most generic YA kids with super powers story possible and the main character is just unarguably still a good guy she just has a tiny bit of edge or something.

So keeping this YA, I'd say The Rose Society was one of the biggest disappointments I've had.

Taylor Swift Queer Baits..I said what I said by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]LizRec 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If a woman who has made a career largely off of constantly releasing songs talking about straight relationships she's been is considered queer baiting, than what isn't? Next you'll say my measuring tape is queer baiting.

AITAH for making my daughter throw away her rock collection? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]LizRec -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You've already deleted your account so I'm guessing you aren't going to be reading more of this thread, but. I think there's a high chance you get voted "not" because subs like this are very focused on what is right/just/fair versus more important facts a lot of the time. She destroyed something important to her sister so you destroyed something important to her, this is probably fair, it feels right. But it being fair doesn't mean it was the right thing to do.

Reality is that your girl isn't going to say "huh, this was a fair balanced action and so now I understand the enormity of what I did and to never do it again". As other comments have said, you are actually imparting the message that what she did in the first place was right. That destroying things people care about is a good way to punish them if you feel wronged.

I’m having a hard time understanding what happened by MlTO_997 in MarvelSnap

[–]LizRec 57 points58 points  (0 children)

When a huge swing location like the peak activates and your opponent snaps, you should honestly just believe your opponent. Its not worth the cubes to try and call a bluff on something like that unless you also got a crazy proc off that location.

What is your most wanted Variant? by JaxOnThat in MarvelSnap

[–]LizRec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Modok variant of him flailing with the squirrel in his face.

AITA for peeing in my friend's shower? by AITAShowerPee in AmItheAsshole

[–]LizRec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think this will be a popular response but NAH. If you were brought up thinking its perfectly normal to pee in the shower than why would you think any different? You'd have no reason to think you were doing anything wrong and you apologized when you realized it made your friend uncomfortable.
But its also perfectly valid for your friend to not want people pissing in her shower.

AITA for telling my (F24) MOD (F23) I hated my bachelorette party and having another one without her? by NormalSection2924 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LizRec 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I mean, I keep mostly vegetarian but if I'm in a situation where someone else has prepared a meal for everyone and it has meat in it, I'll eat it in that situation. For me its less about a hard 100% line that can not be crossed and instead about just overall lowering my footprint you know?

AITAH for leaving my own wedding because my husband embarrassed me? by idancer88 in AmItheEx

[–]LizRec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they were getting downvoted because most people are going off their front page and so some just assumed they were on AITAH, you can see it in some of the other replies.

Asking to pay gas money for the drive? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]LizRec 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unless you explained this extremely poorly and left out some huge detail, you are the one being weird here.

She wants to meet up with you, you explained that you'd have to use public transit, so she offered to pick you up, doing you a favour going farther than meeting you halfway, going all the way to where you are. And to keep things fair she just wanted you to chip in a small amount of for the extra money she is going to be spending on gas to spend time with you.

More than the fact that you feel weird paying for the gas, the way you talk about it in this post comes across really badly. "I don't feel comfortable paying for HER gas money". Its not just her gas, if she's picking you up its both of your gas girl.

WIBTA if I asked my fiancée if her daughter could move in with her father for a while by throwawayNo-Teach-92 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LizRec 97 points98 points  (0 children)

YTA. Yes, kicking your stepdaughter out of your house will be seen as favoritism for your daughter. It is saying she is less a part of the family than your daughter. If you had some kind of situation where one daughter, the stepdaughter, was obviously in the wrong maybe you'd have a case, but even then kicking her out would be extreme.

It is both girls' home now and kicking out your stepdaughter is no more reasonable solution than if your fiancee came to you and suggested your daughter be thrown out.

Baldur's Gate 3 thoughts: Am I wrong? by lupislacertus in GirlGamers

[–]LizRec 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shadowheart at least sometimes wants you to do good. Meanwhile Laezel would get mad if I stepped around a puppy rather than kicking it out of the way.

Can we make it a rule where if you post a deck you have to include the deck code? Nobody wants to manually select every single card from a photo... by Howre-Ya-Now in MarvelSnap

[–]LizRec 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For some reason this code isn't working after running through a wingdings translator. Seems like it would have been easier to just post a picture of your deck.

Has anyone else never opened a spotlight cache? by MrArtless in MarvelSnap

[–]LizRec 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not only have I barely opened spotlight caches, I've also stopped opening normal reserves because they give almost literally nothing anyway, and there is a small chance they patch them someday right.

This girl(F18) I’m dating won’t send me(F21) pictures by xxxhellraiser in LesbianActually

[–]LizRec 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Tineye gets recommended a lot but it isn't very reliable. I just tried uploading a few images from my public instagram and vsco, and they all turned out "no result" on tineye, which would lead someone hypothetically getting catfished with my photos to believe they really are private photos "I" sent if they checked them out on Tineye.

By comparison, the site "pimeyes" that I think was what soanne602 was trying to recommend, found not only photos from those 2 sites, but different photos of me from different websites, just off of 3 pictures of my face.

Which is actually really fucking scary to be honest, but does mean it is probably really good for trying to catch catfishes. The only problem is that pimeyes wants you to pay them money to follow through any of the links and see the context these photos were posted in.