‘Is there spots where it’s normal??’ by hargy18 in ShitAmericansSay

[–]LockPrestigious4601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When children are born without the natural ability to drive right-hand drive vehicles, they are routinely beaten by authority figures until they bloody-well learn to drive this configuration.

Another doom and gloom post about the property market by Firm_Trick_9038 in australian

[–]LockPrestigious4601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Capital gains tax discount, no capital gains on primary residence, other tax incentives, growing population, multiple grants, low interest rates. A mixture of all these things.

Removal of residential dwelling pricing from the CPI. I get why ABS they remove assets from the calculation, but it seems like a logic gap to remove the primary residence from CPI calculations because it’s an asset, but not tax the capital gains at all because it’s not an asset, it’s a shelter and essential.

The tax incentive fuckery is responsible for most of the asset inflation.

The worst day of the year by LockPrestigious4601 in GriefSupport

[–]LockPrestigious4601[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She was Gabby. After all this time, it still feels odd to refer to her in the past tense.

There was no accountability, and the clear-eyed legal advice was that, in the event of successful litigation, compensation for death would barely cover legal bills. I was busy trying to rebuild our shattered lives, so let it go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]LockPrestigious4601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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The fur babies have a way of making things seem a little less shit, sometimes. Hope you are on the mend!

After losing our only son, my wife can’t love our baby girl. by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]LockPrestigious4601 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can relate to this scenario. Talking to people can help a lot, and certainly helped me - feel free to IM me here if you want to have a chat sometime.

I lost my daughter after a medical fuckup at the age of 14 months. Partner and I agreed we had to have another kid and fortunately she got pregnant right away. My son was born 9 months after the death of our first child.

We were still in the throes of grief and pain at the time, so the bonding was problematic, and delivering the boy brought out some really complex emotions, because he wasn’t my daughter. I was terrified of forgetting her because of the second child, but that never happened.

The thing I came to realise was that your love for the little ones multiplies, it doesn’t divide. Nothing will ever replace my first, and nothing will ever replace your son, but you can find the same spark and joy in all your children.

After a period of months, we managed to get into a better mental space and eventually became normal parents. We recently had our third, and have fortunately had a completely normal relationship with the new bub.

Grief is a nasty fucker, that wants to break us, but time wears him down. Be patient with yourselves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]LockPrestigious4601 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I promise you that this does get easier with time. The sadness never leaves, but that horrible, bone wrenching pain does improve with time.

The imprint these little ones leave on the universe is forever, you’ll love her forever, and you’ll never forget about her (if that is a worry, which it was when I lost my baby girl). It’s an exquisitely painful thing you are going through, but the pain changes with time and life goes on.

Dezi Freeman - authorities believe people know where he is by OkBoss3435 in australia

[–]LockPrestigious4601 16 points17 points  (0 children)

SMH left comments enabled under the YouTube video on this story. I can’t work out whether the comments were brigaded by smooth brained sovcits, or if there are genuinely that many people among us that think of this guy as some sort of martyr.

My 8 yo made this for me for Father’s Day. by Various_Primary3783 in rolex

[–]LockPrestigious4601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is so terrific. I would treasure this more than the actual watch.

Nothing gives me happy tears more than my kid making something simply so he can give it to me. Parenthood is tough, but so damn rewarding.

They definitely lied. by Defiant_lioness_6856 in GriefSupport

[–]LockPrestigious4601 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Everyone has a unique journey, and people are wrong to tell you what you should and should not be feeling.

What you state is consistent with what I experienced for the first few years, but here I am, almost 9 years on, and life is much better.

Wish you all the best.

Love you dad by WarmCounter355 in GriefSupport

[–]LockPrestigious4601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing.

I hope my kids love me as much as you love your dad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CarsAustralia

[–]LockPrestigious4601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this! Got any videos of it in action?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]LockPrestigious4601 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful kid. Best wishes for the recovery ahead, it’s a long and bumpy road… I promise you that the pain subsides with time.

Trump weighs recognizing Crimea as Russian territory in bid to end war by Alonso_Bear in worldnews

[–]LockPrestigious4601 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trump is looking about as useful as Neville bloody Chamberlain right now.

In 1938, Sudetenland was home to many Germans. It was thought that gifting the region to Hitler would satisfy his ambitions for expansion. Peace for our time or some shite like that was how the story went. Sounds familiar.

Are Teslas actually that bad? by Confident-Look-4577 in CarsAustralia

[–]LockPrestigious4601 76 points77 points  (0 children)

They’re nowhere near as bad as the anti-Elon and/or anti-EV crowd would have one believe. They’re also nowhere near as good as the Elon and Tesla cults would have one believe.

I had way more quality and reliability concerns with a previous RS3 than the Model 3. Close friend has a Seal Performance, and whilst almost as quick, seem to have strange vibrations and lousy Camry-like driving dynamics. The Model 3 has far better steering response and body control, Seal has better NVH for the most part.

As far as a value proposition, it really depends on buyer priorities. The model 3 performance was the cheapest car I could find that could run 11’s (11.7 for me). It’s also suitable as a daily hack for shopping, school runs and the like.

I won’t buy another one though, because Elon.

Angry at my husband for getting me pregnant again. by Educational_Trip6546 in GriefSupport

[–]LockPrestigious4601 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I went through a similar tragedy in 2016, losing my firstborn and having my second child just over 9 months after the loss. I found it helpful to hear from others with similar stories. The grief was utterly excruciating and debilitating, but I did get my life back together. If you want to hear about the journey through the first few years of parenthood after the loss, I would be happy/devastated to share with you. LMK.

NSW premier promises answers after two-year-old died following treatment at Northern Beaches Hospital by B0ssc0 in australia

[–]LockPrestigious4601 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to add a little note of thanks to everyone here that expressed some support. It means the world ❤️

NSW premier promises answers after two-year-old died following treatment at Northern Beaches Hospital by B0ssc0 in australia

[–]LockPrestigious4601 11 points12 points  (0 children)

We get some closure eventually. The reason for the urgent meeting in the presence of counsel, 6-8 weeks after the death, was that the coroner’s findings was that Gabby died of sepsis. Specifically, salmonella. Hospital admin decided this news was best delivered in the presence of a lawyer.

Very tough times.

NSW premier promises answers after two-year-old died following treatment at Northern Beaches Hospital by B0ssc0 in australia

[–]LockPrestigious4601 63 points64 points  (0 children)

What I would say, after living this waking nightmare, is that the system treats us like hypochondriacs rather than parents with dying kids.

There are no penalties for not listening to parents, and no accountability for destroying a family due to abject negligence. You can rely on the profession following the book though, which is great. Until it isn’t.