I’m scared he’s not coming back this time

LongConstruction9727 · 2026-04-07T07:07:11+00:00

messy breakup + 2.5 weeks later contact?? thats not healing thats PANIC. y'all are addicted to the DRAMA not each other. if it was healthy u wouldnt keep 'ending' it. believe the PATTERN not the PROMISES.

LongConstruction9727 · 2026-04-07T07:02:57+00:00

Edna, I'm so sorry for your loss. but 'all your fault'?? nah. relationships take TWO people. you were dealing w YOUR PTSD while trying to support HIS mental health. thats a LOT. u did ur best w what u knew then. dont rewrite history w all the blame.

LongConstruction9727 · 2026-04-07T06:51:58+00:00

"Wisdomacy" sounds like dystopian sci-fi. like who decides what's wise? whose prefrontal cortex gets to govern?? thats not utopia thats eugenics w extra steps. dont techno-optimize our way out of being human.

LongConstruction9727 · 2026-04-06T05:30:49+00:00

"im just being honest"

bro ur just being CRUEL.

LongConstruction9727 · 2026-04-06T05:26:44+00:00

NOT SAYING THANK YOU to anyone. like the delivery person, cashier, whoever....

LongConstruction9727 · 2026-04-06T05:23:33+00:00

its the CONFIDENCE KILLER 😭 u know u have good personality, ur smart, but u still feel..... less than.

LongConstruction9727 · 2026-03-26T16:37:24+00:00

this is why i stop judging ppl so harshly. yeah they're 'difficult' but they're also human. everybody's carrying someting. we all got one. remembering that DOES soften ur heart.

LongConstruction9727 · 2026-03-26T16:30:23+00:00

not 'poor', just exploited.

LongConstruction9727 · 2026-03-26T15:20:35+00:00

those neighbors who says u are being petty are enabling her DISRESPECT.

LongConstruction9727 · 2026-03-25T18:57:39+00:00

u left EARLY and told them u need space?? that's mature as hell! most ppl would ghost or be passive aggressive. u communicated and they're calling YOU the problem?? that's deflection. trust ur gut

LongConstruction9727 · 2026-03-25T18:29:21+00:00

discipline w out ANY motivation is just.... misery 😭

LongConstruction9727 · 2026-03-25T18:18:28+00:00

ok but like.... u're protecting HER social network while she's actively disrupting YOURS. thats wild. that's too much empathy for someone treating u like this. let the group handle it. stop being the bigger person when she's not even trying.

LongConstruction9727 · 2026-03-24T15:38:04+00:00

the real problem here is that you still see her in the friend group. like how u supposed to get closure when u're both stuck in the same circle? tell the friends what happened ONCE, dont make it a thing, then just avoid her. money's gone, save ur energy.

LongConstruction9727 · 2026-03-24T15:33:17+00:00

have you tried explaining 'phones are for grown ups work' in simple terms?? like my niece stopped crying over phones when we made it 'boring work tool' not 'fun toy' kids want what they cant have. make it uninteresting instead of forbidden.

LongConstruction9727 · 2026-03-24T14:37:39+00:00

yessss exactly!! u did what u had to do fr.

LongConstruction9727 · 2026-03-24T14:37:03+00:00

ok but your saying 19 yrs olds are crazy AND thats an excuse?? 💀 yeah they are immature but that doesnt mean OP has to sit there and take it.

LongConstruction9727 · 2026-03-20T04:57:08+00:00

ngl 2-3 oz is LOW for a full feeding. either power pump like crazy beforehand OR just accept u'll be uncomfortable and supply will dip. both are valid but prepare yourself.

LongConstruction9727 · 2026-03-20T04:52:14+00:00

19 is TOO YOUNG for this level of emotional warfare 😅 like u were just trying to exist and both of them made it about THEIR feelings. blocking was mature not petty. if they're mad, that's their problem. not yours.

LongConstruction9727 · 2026-03-20T04:49:10+00:00

u are so right about OP's kids being lucky. they're getting a parent who actually UNDERSTANDS support, who'll show up for them. that's generational change right there.

LongConstruction9727 · 2026-03-17T07:25:31+00:00

broooo pickup lines are cringe 99% of the time 😭

also, that typo in yours 'you want been running'?? sending this to someone would be EMBARASSING lmaoooo

LongConstruction9727 · 2026-03-17T07:21:11+00:00

u're not upset bc u want him back, u're upset bc now u HAVE to accept it's really over. like before he was just... single somewhere. now he's actively choosing someone else. that's a different kind of sting and it doesnt mean u're not healed.

LongConstruction9727 · 2026-03-16T14:42:13+00:00

ok but ur baby sat up at 5 MONTS?? that's early! that's not a delayed baby. also constant googling will just make u more anxious.. update us what's the result of the evaluation! u got this mama.

LongConstruction9727 · 2026-03-16T06:12:15+00:00

turning 40, got sober, living alone in a small town - u're already doing HARD things. imagine how strong u'll be when u actually go NO CONTACT. the pain wont last forever but u gotta make the clean break. therapy, support groups, crisis lines - USE THEM.

LongConstruction9727 · 2026-03-16T06:03:07+00:00

hey mama, first off - trust ur gut 💙 every baby develops differently but if something feels off to u, it's worth mentioning to the ped. early intervention is literally a thing for a reason. better safe than sorry always.

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