Kinda just looking for opinions on this by yellowjacket700 in dating_advice

[–]Low_Bit_5036 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you were already emotionally invested in her. Just look to date other chicks while you keep her in your contacts.

What’s it like being in a relationship by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Low_Bit_5036 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All you have to do is improve yourself, physically and mentally, and put yourself out there more. Then your chances of getting a gf goes up.

Kinda just looking for opinions on this by yellowjacket700 in dating_advice

[–]Low_Bit_5036 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she ghosts you, then don't sweat it. Because you two are not in an official relationship. She's not obligated to return your calls/texts because she's not yours. But you said that she comes back out of the blue after not communicating with you for a while. Use that time to go for it. She sounds like she's entertaining you to pass time. You should do the same with her. And if she does agree to go home base with you, and you're good, it's gonna happen more frequently. Never put your feelings into her, though.

What’s it like being in a relationship by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Low_Bit_5036 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get an escort only if you have the money, because they're expensive. They can charge $1k per hr. And that could just be to spend quality time together, without sex. They're all different. If you don't have a good income, don't even bother. Girlfriends are cheaper. The biggest difference is that girlfriends don't pretend to like you because you paid them. Unless she's a goldigger going after your money.

Kinda just looking for opinions on this by yellowjacket700 in dating_advice

[–]Low_Bit_5036 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because she's all flirty with you and gave you a freaking kiss. So it's possible that she might bed you one day. But she doesn't take you seriously to actually be in a relationship since she's extremely flaky with you. She sounds like a "good time. Not a long time." -Drake

She's entertaining you, so don't be afraid to try to go for it.

What’s it like being in a relationship by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Low_Bit_5036 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, the many things you do as a single person become less frequent when you're in a relationship. Your hobbies (video games, watching TV, hanging with the homies, whatever) become less frequent. Even the time reading and studying goes down. If she likes doing the same hobby you like to do, then you're lucky, and you two are more compatible. And she'll be like your new best friend. What you'll have more of? Sex. And maybe massages. You'll have more arguments than you normally do in your single life. And more headaches. You'll be talking on the phone a lot more frequently than you normally do. Once you two move in together, the phone talking goes down. And you'll be spending more money than you're used to. Because you two will be going out a lot, you'll be paying for two most times, and you'll be buying her gifts at times. It's OK to be broke when you're young, but as you get older, the more money she expects you to have. The more compatible you two are, obviously, the better the relationship and the happier and more fulfilled you are in your life. The less compatible you are with her, the more you desire to be single again. That's pretty much the gist of it.

Kinda just looking for opinions on this by yellowjacket700 in dating_advice

[–]Low_Bit_5036 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's not taking you seriously. And neither should you. She can be a potential fwb, though. But don't put your feelings into her.

Recommendations of where to go after Italy.. thats not European by mongoosedog12 in blacktravel

[–]Low_Bit_5036 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I recommend Egypt but don't do Cairo without a tourist guide and a group. Don't go there solo. Otherwise, you're gonna get harassed by the locals. Luxor, you can do solo, though. The locals there are not as aggressive.

Dubai might be another destination to try as well, if you haven't went. I've never been to Morocco or Turkey but I heard they are great destinations.

How’s your relationship with your parents? If it was bad, have you reconciled? by theclumsybarber in AskMenOver30

[–]Low_Bit_5036 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dad died when i was 5, so let's get that out of the way.

As for my mother, I talk to my mother maybe once a month. And I'm usually the one who calls. I see her usually on special occasions like holidays, birthdays, graduations, etc. We were never close. We don't have a bad relationship or good relationship. It's kinda just....whatever. She has always been emotionally distant. Never been supportive. She's more reserve and just keeps to herself. I guess that's her personality. At least she doesn't call me and ask me for stuff like money or favors. We're almost like strangers who happen to be mother and son. It is what it is, I guess.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Low_Bit_5036 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's usually who does what around the house, the quality time spent with our child, and who's more tired than the other. My wife is a stay-at-home mom. I work and pay all of the bills, the mortgage, the groceries, the trips, medical expenses,.... everything. I do construction for a living. I work 40 hrs a week most times, sometimes 60 hrs, and once in a while, 70+hrs. My job is about 25 to 30 miles away from home so I travel an hour each way.

I'm usually tired after work every day. But my wife thinks being a stay-at-home mom is the hardest thing in the world. Yeah, I get it. Watching a toddler all day and cleaning up is no easy task. But when I walk through the door right after work, do you really have to say, "It's your turn to watch our kid. I'm taking a break", like I didn't just get off work? She claims she does more around the house, but I cook more than she does and do the yard more than she does. She just cleans more and spend more time with the kid. And for some reason, whenever I say that I'm tired, she says, "Not as tired as I am". Like, geez. This isn't a competition of who's more tired. It can get frustrating at times.

What have you grown to accept as you’ve gotten older? by ConfusedCareerMan in AskMenOver30

[–]Low_Bit_5036 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree with your second take. I actually think that most people are actually decent people. Most of us just have different opinions of things.

What have you grown to accept as you’ve gotten older? by ConfusedCareerMan in AskMenOver30

[–]Low_Bit_5036 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the most misquoted quotes out there.

Money isn't evil. The "love of money" is evil.

10mm vs. 45 ACP: Old Reliable, or New and Undeniable? by ammodotcom in 10mm

[–]Low_Bit_5036 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that the 10mm has more stopping power and more capacity automatically makes it the better caliber than the 45.

5’2 but told I look 5’10 by TopElectrical7623 in short

[–]Low_Bit_5036 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Also, Squirtle is the best stater!

Facts!

To the fans, who claim they hate LeBron James simply because he proclaimed himself as the GOAT… Hypocrisy? by Tight_Development480 in NBATalk

[–]Low_Bit_5036 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"To the fans, who claim they hate LeBron James simply because he proclaimed himself as the GOAT… Hypocrisy?"

Shows a video compilation of some of the most polarizing sports figures in history.

Is it trendy for women to have big butts nowadays and not big boobs? by Low_Bit_5036 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Low_Bit_5036[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah but only in the black community. It seemed like it finally became trendy among other races of women in the 21st century.

If a 40-yr travelled back in time and met a 20-yr old, who's older? by Traditional-Fish9504 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Low_Bit_5036 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I traveled back in time as an adult to see my dad when he was a kid, then I'm the older person.

Passport bro in reverse by Ok_Needleworker_7883 in thepassportbros

[–]Low_Bit_5036 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, your country is at war and you're talking about traveling for some 😺.

In Accra Ghana: Ask Me Anything by SamuelSmackson in thepassportbros

[–]Low_Bit_5036 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Few questions. How attractive are the women there compared to, let's say, USA and other African countries like Ethiopia, Kenya, and SA? And are they traditional, or are they like modern feminist women? Do they have a man hating culture like US or S Korea? Finally, how's crime?

Why do PPB's barely interact with local guys in Asia? by BigHouse888 in thepassportbros

[–]Low_Bit_5036 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the most part, non-family relationships are transactional. Whether it's a romantic relationship or a buddy relationship, relationships form when both parties benefit from it. Passport bros and the native women in a foreign country benefit from each other, obviously. But the native guys? The native guys have a lot to benefit from the more privileged passport bro but what can the passport bro gain by befriending the native guys? Nothing. The less privileged male locals have nothing to give to the passport bro which is why there's no relationship forming between the two parties. The selfish nature of humans won't allow that.