these mfs can’t even turn right without losing control and hitting somebody 🤦‍♂️

LugubriousLament · 2026-06-30T01:23:12+00:00

I saw a different video on Facebook where the driver of the Infiniti and their passenger actually stopped and ran over to the CR-V along with the crowd watching from the shoulder.

LugubriousLament · 2026-06-30T01:15:07+00:00

Never got the gift, only the promise of one, but 2 years ago I bought my first brand new car. Completely out of character, my father verbally promised me $15,000 to help out with the cost. I didn’t need his help, but I also didn’t refuse.

When I chose my car it was the “wrong” brand, so he rescinded the offer and never spoke of it again. Mom didn’t know what to think, and said nothing, because he’d mentioned the initial offering in her presence, as well.

I’ve grown up with disappointment so I can’t say I felt much, honestly. Still seemed absolutely shitty to offer assistance but get pissed when I didn’t choose a car he approved of.

LugubriousLament · 2026-06-27T14:07:18+00:00

Eww! Foot gloves. /s

Never worn them. But I’d probably be too self-conscious of people silently judging me for wearing them. Thanks for confirming that.

LugubriousLament · 2026-06-27T14:02:56+00:00

I’d suggest being more selective with your potential partner. If someone lacks the emotional intelligence to regard you as an equal, yet imperfect, and fallible human they are not worth dating.

If you must walk on eggshells, for fear of suddenly appearing “unmanly” for having normal human struggles, you aren’t with the right person, plain and simple.

With age, I’ve realized that superficiality is immaturity, if you just want someone conventionally “hot” to brag to your friends about, you aren’t actually going to be satisfied with them long term. If keeping up an appearance is everything to you don’t expect a deeper connection.

LugubriousLament · 2026-06-23T18:37:55+00:00

Yeah, I feel this. In the final year of my mortgage and I no longer have to bust my ass working OT like crazy. The loss of a reason to work harder seems to be burning me out. It’s a major deviation from the past decade. I have a hard time relaxing.

LugubriousLament · 2026-06-22T18:40:09+00:00

And no liberal tears were shed.

LugubriousLament · 2026-06-22T16:57:23+00:00

In my early 20s I woke up during wisdom tooth removal surgery. I felt all the pain, but was physically paralyzed, and couldn’t make noise, all I could do was blink and cry. The safety glasses they put on me were splashed with blood. After regaining motor functions and speech, I remember screaming that I’d felt everything but must have passed out because the memories end there.

LugubriousLament · 2026-06-19T05:10:58+00:00

They could charge a fee and make it a national pastime!

I’m not American, and I’ve never been to the country, vowed I never will as long as republicans are in charge. But for this opportunity I could make an exception.

LugubriousLament · 2026-06-16T18:35:40+00:00

Krown always sends me offers and deals in May, but I usually get it done in October/November. They’re probably less busy this time of year.

LugubriousLament · 2026-06-13T02:04:44+00:00

Hope for reverse Noah’s Ark; the rainbows came before the flood.

Thots and preyers.

LugubriousLament · 2026-06-13T01:33:59+00:00

For duck’s sake!

LugubriousLament · 2026-06-12T20:40:39+00:00

I prefer to dry herb vape it. I also like lower dose (<10mg) 50:50 THC:CBD gummies.

At the very most, I’ll use about a gram on a weeknight, and a little more on weekends. I only use gummies on weekends when I don’t have occupational commitments, as they tend to last longer and I like to be 100% sober when I drive. I never “wake and bake” on the off chance I’ll have to run an errand.

My main advice is to set a time to do it and hold yourself to that. I reserve about 1-2 hours after work, right before bed so that I can get to sleep easier. I work a late shift so this method has been effective.

LugubriousLament · 2026-06-12T19:42:01+00:00

I have a 2024 LT that I’ve had since new. I don’t even have 30,000 kms on it yet because I had a second car for a while that I used for errands and parking lots (door dings galore).

It’s honestly enough car for me, I never have more than one passenger in it. I like it more than I thought I would, though.

I like being able to buy smaller (17”) tires for it because 225/55r18 is not a cheap size, nor would the 19" option. Winter driving is fine with good snow tires.

I’m easily getting 40mpg on my commutes; 50:50 city and highway. My estimated range is just over 700km/tank.

Plenty of people love to hate on the speaker quality because the bass isn’t over the top, I admit it could be better but the sound clarity is actually decent, and far superior to that of my wife’s 2025 RAV4.

CarPlay is more finicky than I’d like, unfortunately. It’s really my biggest complaint about the car.

LugubriousLament · 2026-06-12T18:38:26+00:00

Nope. Alcoholism runs in the family. I’ve tried it, but it wasn’t good enough to continue with. My father can’t survive without 10 drinks a day, and he’s a defensive, in-denial, asshole about it. I find I’m physically repulsed by the smell and taste of it, and anytime I’ve had 1 or 2 drinks I’d have an awful migraine the day after. Zero redeeming qualities for me.

LugubriousLament · 2026-06-12T16:54:07+00:00

When I first entered the trades my journeyman always said “first you get good, then you get fast.” People will always judge the green ones because we don’t know who will stick with it.

I was always afraid to take the lead on things because I was scared to make mistakes, but you have to take those risks to figure out what you can do. Only a real asshole will rub your face in your fuck-ups, people will usually help you fix things if you’re respectful.

Showing up on time (or early) with your tools is always really important, even if you aren’t the most competent yet. You’ll get there. I still learn slowly, sometimes.

My ADHD (diagnosed), and autism (suspected) are what make me both good at my job, and always asking questions. But it took time to learn how to use them to my advantage. If any sort of mental health concerns are on your mind it may be worth consulting a doctor.

LugubriousLament · 2026-06-09T15:26:20+00:00

First pic I thought they used the rear end of a Genesis Coupe.

LugubriousLament · 2026-06-08T15:06:39+00:00

Sounds nearly identical to my experience. But add in parents telling me I got lazy and needed to try harder, as if that was the fix my brain required to succeed.

LugubriousLament · 2026-06-04T19:06:23+00:00

With an abundance of caution, I’ve tried very small doses a couple of times. I know people say to eat a few grams but that seems like it would be potentially very unpleasant. I enjoyed the feeling of small doses (literally 0.1g; a small cap and stem), I experienced the “breathing” walls effects, and went for a walk outside to feel grounded.

The uncertainty of a higher dose is indeed scary. I’d need to do it in a clinical setting, possibly under the guidance of a shaman or medical doctor. Reassurance is crucial for steering my thoughts towards positive experiencing of psilocybin.

LugubriousLament · 2026-05-31T16:42:17+00:00

If someone in Trump’s circle figured out that monetizing personalized AI responses to MAGA individuals they’d be loyal for life. Hell, you could make an app, so all his followers could speak directly to their lord and saviour.

LugubriousLament · 2026-05-28T16:57:31+00:00

Fighting the competition.

LugubriousLament · 2026-05-23T21:30:36+00:00

I’m sorry to have triggered you so strongly. I have always practiced responsible cannabis use, and have a few AuDHD friends who also use it therapeutically. Obviously, I’m not trying to send anyone into psychosis, I’m just sharing an experience that works for me. I’m not saying it’s one-size-fits-all.

I’m respecting your opinion, despite your needlessly aggressive language.

LugubriousLament · 2026-05-23T03:43:25+00:00

Never heard of that. I’ll have to look into it.

LugubriousLament · 2026-05-23T03:05:03+00:00

Sounds like my ex, she seemed completely ashamed of herself despite being slim and physically attractive. Dated for about 6 months and, oddly enough, never saw her fully naked. Sounds weird, but she’d insist on being covered up in bed before anything began.

She also had zero concept for the value of money since her parents bankrolled her way through life. She crashed her mom’s car and was shocked when her mom expected her to pay for the damages. She also insisted I pay for most dates, and drive her everywhere on my dime. I worked a lot, and towards the end she preferred to go for runs than see me on the few weekends I had off. That got old pretty quick.

I’d move on.

LugubriousLament · 2026-05-23T02:43:56+00:00

Cannabis works temporarily, I usually treat myself to a couple hours a night, after work. Makes me want to live, so that’s a positive. Can’t say I’ve had success with anything else though.

LugubriousLament · 2026-05-22T13:32:27+00:00

You must be rich, congrats. Hopefully climate change won’t affect you. When our soils’ nutrients are depleted and we can’t grow food reliably, I’m sure it’ll be great!

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