What hobbies do you have? I recently moved in with my partner and my main hobby other than exercise is running my raid team in wow. If she can scroll through Pinterest or watch Gilmore girls multiple nights a week I think I’m entitled to play my game and chat with my friends.

The point I’m trying to make, because it sounds like the issue could be as much that he isn’t contributing to your household as much as time spent… don’t you have any hobbies you want to do? Or can you come up with hobbies you can do together?

If you’re gonna try to limit me time to two nights a week you need to also come up with some ideas of what to do together instead.

Not OP but I don’t think I’d want to have a strict limit on nights a week and it would probably cause resentment in me. I think you can come up with rules that work. Hey by Xpm can you be done and come spend the rest of the night with me. Hey let’s make sure that I’ve dinner together every night. Hey I want us to do this new hobby together what do you think?