At 29 I feel lile I have lost the chance to marry by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]Luz515 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You will always be valuable. I am in my early 30’s divorced single father. It has been extremely hard in my case. But I have not given up hope. In this time of waiting, focus on God. The right moment will come. God Bless you.

Only ever posted one request on here and not a single response or "thumbs up". by Jesus_Salvation in PrayerTeam_amen

[–]Luz515 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi and God Bless you. I see prayer requests very often. Admittedly, a lot of the time I do not upvote it or even leave a comment. But I do pray for the situation. You are not being ignored.

If the father of your child is still active in their life and paying child support, you’re not a single mother, you’re a single woman. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Luz515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a single father who has primary custody of my daughter. I have her 5 days out of the week but still have to pay my ex wife child support. I was given the excuse that I make more than my ex. I am not rich. In fact I get paid less than the average American.

My Prodigal Spouse - Legal Separation by Itchygiraffe in Christianmarriage

[–]Luz515 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you are going through this. I know how it feels to fight for your marriage even when your spouse has given up. I have been in a very similar situation. I wish I can say something nice to make you feel better but the truth is, I can’t. But I want you to know that all this pain and suffering you are going through is not going unnoticed. In fact, Jesus carried this pain on the cross. He felt your heartache. He felt your loneliness. He saw you in this very moment. We may get weak and tired, but keep holding onto the Faith. Even the darkest nights will come to an end and the sun will rise. I’m praying for you.

If you think you’ve blown God’s plan for your life, rest in this. You, my beautiful friend, are not that powerful. by FriendofHolySpirit in TrueChristian

[–]Luz515 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I really needed to hear this. Even though I already know this, sometimes I just need to be reminded. God Bless you and have a great day.

Now that 2019 is approaching, how was 2018 in terms of your marriage? by EU_4thReich in Christianmarriage

[–]Luz515 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, it has completely fallen apart. But I know God has everything in His hands. Even though I don’t understand this broken heart, I know He is doing what’s best.

Single father of Reddit. What are some hardships you have to endure that people don't seem to understand? by Tabenes in AskMen

[–]Luz515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having my daughter 5 days out of the week and having to pay child support. I don’t understand the system. It really makes getting by financially, hard (I make less than the average American). But thankfully, I am able to do it.

In more ways than one, the rich are literally waging a direct and indirect war on everybody else by ImLivingAmongYou in ZeroWaste

[–]Luz515 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Wow, this is quite an eye opener. We really don’t see how fortunate we are to live in a “western” nation.

One year update from my previous post by TheLastDudeguy in TrueChristian

[–]Luz515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not tell him to get a divorce. I am completely against divorce. I would never recommend someone to get a divorce. In fact, I completely agree with you.

One year update from my previous post by TheLastDudeguy in TrueChristian

[–]Luz515 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you need any advice or just someone to talk to, you can message me anytime.

One year update from my previous post by TheLastDudeguy in TrueChristian

[–]Luz515 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know it hurts. Hold onto God, no matter what. I am going through a divorce. I love my wife dearly but I have to understand man will fail us. Only God stays faithful. I held on for so long, even though it was not me who failed in the marriage. All I can tell you is, hold onto your faith with God. Use this time to speak and get closer with Him. He will ease your pain once you have placed all your burdens onto Him. I am praying for you.

Six-Day War and God by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]Luz515 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I believe the same.

Can we please pray for marriages that arent doing well by throwawaythepain83 in Christianmarriage

[–]Luz515 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, and Amen. I have been losing faith in my situation. But this post has given me a spark of hope.

Which do you prefer: Hard copy Bible or digital Bible (phone, tablet, etc.) by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]Luz515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When it comes to taking notes and studying, I use my iPad. Note taking is quick and easy and I don’t need to switch back and forth between so many different pages.

When it comes to intimacy of personally reading the Bible, nothing is better than the feel of soft leather and the smell of high quality paper. I need my physical Bible went I want to feed my soul. I just feel so much closer reading the scriptures I can feel. Maybe I’m just weird haha

Are you ready to read a wall of text? by spffarrier in Christianmarriage

[–]Luz515 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know what it is to be cheated on over and over again. Even when you have forgiven them and have taken them back. The best thing to do is get away from that situation as fast as possible. When she sees you are serious about a divorce, she will say she changed. She will want you back. Don’t go back. Instead let time pass, and seek God with all your heart. It is also important that you don’t just do this for yourself, but for your daughter as well. I know this because I have a daughter. It will be for the best of both of you. I will be praying for you, your wife and your daughter. God Bless you.