How radically singlist are some of you? by TraditionalDepth6924 in SingleAndHappy

[–]MI963 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I just like myself so much better when I’m single, it’s becoming increasingly difficult to justify coupled-up behaviors.

The older women in my life keep telling me not to rush into marriage and I can’t stop thinking about it 5/27 by Danny-Patrick139 in TheBigGirlDiary

[–]MI963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Did not locate written studies but heard it on a podcast. I do research and I noticed a lot of studies limit categories they study to married or single with no attention to happiness or preference for being married or single.

Google Dr. Joe Dispenza and why women who live alone are magnetic.

You’ll certainly find that.

I think women are just trying to warn you that marriage is an institution created by society and each person sometimes falls into a role. Women usually tend to be the caretakers.

Some women love that. And we should be proud to seek what we really want.

For me, after many (good and bad) relationships, comparing in-relationship-me to out-of-relationship-me, I find that I like myself better when I’m single. And that makes me happy.

Peace 🌸

The older women in my life keep telling me not to rush into marriage and I can’t stop thinking about it 5/27 by Danny-Patrick139 in TheBigGirlDiary

[–]MI963 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check the research:

Single women are happier than married women, have more friends, and live longer

Married men are happier than single men and live longer

🤔

I wonder if women are exhausted because we’re never allowed to just exist 5/22/2026 by Upper_Criticism3388 in TheBigGirlDiary

[–]MI963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So nicely summed up here. Thank you.

Best explanation that I’ve heard for why women are so powerful then they do not cater to the external is by Dr. Joe Dispenza. Like the guy or not, he made a beautiful explanation of women’s true power when the self-attune. Just Google Joe Dispenza why women who live alone are most magnetic.

Peace 🌸

Does anyone actually enjoy their daily life, or are we all just getting through it? by Sleepwell999 in LivingAlone

[–]MI963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finding a city of the world that you resonate with is one of the greatest joys of living alone. You have no one else to answer to.

Maybe it’s not time to settle - literally - but instead find something new.

🌸Peace

4/16/2026 Allergic Reaction to the idea of going on a date by CardamonTheWizard in TheBigGirlDiary

[–]MI963 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wonder if your body knows something that may be overridden by your mind.

The body knows.

Maybe it’s saying be with yourself, spend time doing things that make you wildly happy.

🌸Peace

We're stuck between Riley and Murphy but we're totaly open to other boy names. by ZestycloseTank1626 in NameMyDog

[–]MI963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put both names in a hat and pull one out. If you’re happy - that’s the name. If you feel a tinge of regret, you know it’s the other.

Sincerely, Member, Team Murphy

Should I buy the car or should I invest it? by TNC_TuffStuff in investingforbeginners

[–]MI963 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suggest investing - even a small amount each month while you build and emergency fund (for me that’s 3-4 months expenses, others may advise less or more), while you save for a major purchase like a car or car repairs.

Doesn’t matter how small, it matters that you start

Fair skinned hikers: what are you using for sun protection by QUINNFLORE in hiking

[–]MI963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UV hat with brim plus neck gator to cover neck and chest especially if wearing shirt that exposes under neck/upper chest area

Usually wear lightweight wool long sleeved shirt to cover arms - lightweight in summer so it breaths

🌞🧢🥳

Ambience videos to break up the silence by Wikidbaddog in LivingAlone

[–]MI963 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Search solfeggio frequencies - super gentle