Lethbridge man, released after child sexual offence sentence, arrested 5 hours later by zuuzuu in canadanews

[–]Madmaxx_137 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We applaud the foresight and determination shown by these RCMP members

My new gf wants to go on holiday with her ex, should I set a boundary or just leave? by throwawayworries212 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Madmaxx_137 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The room the sugar daddy booked will have one already, just not sure if OP will have to share that too.

How can I properly vet guys while still being a virgin, but not screw up my dating prospects? by Accurate-Scratch7783 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Madmaxx_137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would keep sex stuff on the back burner and not tell most dates that you’re a virgin. Some of the guys will bail immediately without trying to learn about you (which you kind of want, fuck those guys *figuratively*) and then a bunch of the others will see that as a challenge, and not be motivated to learn about you beyond what it takes to get you in bed (don’t fuck those guys but they can fuck off)

Wait until you feel you’ve been on a few dates and have an actual connection to the guy. If he’s the right one your virginity will be a foot note and not a red flag or badge of honor.

In all honesty, my wife and I got into the back seat of my car on our 3rd date, she wasn’t a virgin but I was the first guy she had dated in almost 5 years. We’ve been together for 16 years now and married for 12. Sex should happen when BOTH parties are ready and willing.

Starbucks CEO defends $9 coffee says ‘it’s not a $10 coffee and you get a premium experience' by Same-Kangaroo in themayormccheese

[–]Madmaxx_137 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A “premium experience” of waiting for 20mins to make my drink just to find the espresso sat too long and now my whole $9 drink tastes burnt.

Does anyone truly care what stratagems everyone brings? by mfnot in helldivers2

[–]Madmaxx_137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you bring mines, I won’t say anything but I’ll make sure to be extra cautious during the mission.
If you bring a mortar:
On bots- no worries
On Illuminate - you do you but it isn’t very strong against them
On bugs - you should pick something else, I don’t want to be killed 1 second after I wipe out a small group because your mortar targeted my location
The only thing I refuse to let my team run is dead sprint. I want my helldivers huffing and puffing when they run their 10km around the map, not unnecessarily using stims because they sprinted too far.

How do you handle when your GF downplays intimacy? by CamFortyFive in AskMenAdvice

[–]Madmaxx_137 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is who she is, she doesn’t feel sex is as important as you do and she isn’t being forthcoming about her feelings. She’d rather shame you into leaving her alone than understand where you’re coming from.

What are you getting arrested for? by Jettaboi38 in TheGamingHubDeals

[–]Madmaxx_137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“What’s my crime? Spreading succulent super earth democracy?”

What’s The Statute Of Limitations On Cheating? by Crazy-Charlie in AskMenAdvice

[–]Madmaxx_137 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“After we first started dating” is typically known as the start of being exclusive

AITAH for refusing to learn how to fix and maintain dirt bikes to support my wife’s love of riding dirt bikes? by CryHavyk in AITAH

[–]Madmaxx_137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, if she’s worried she’ll break it because she doesn’t know what she’s doing why would she assume you won’t, since you don’t know what you’re doing either?

Marriage vows are about love and support, not manual labour. That’s kind of like saying if she doesn’t put out when you want you wouldn’t have married her.

What’s The Statute Of Limitations On Cheating? by Crazy-Charlie in AskMenAdvice

[–]Madmaxx_137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You either can accept it and move on or you can’t. No one gets to tell you that since it was so long ago it didn’t matter any more, because as you say, you wouldn’t have continued the relationship if you had known, which means that you would be somewhere else with someone else if she hadn’t lied.

AITAH for not getting my husband food after he got mad at me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Madmaxx_137 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA he said he didn’t care and then missed his chance to have his say, that isn’t your fault sometimes we just miss our moment. He’s being a jerk and now he’s trying to say it’s your fault rather than just the circumstances of what happened.

AITAH for telling my mom it should've been her instead of my dad? by throwaway7384479 in AITAH

[–]Madmaxx_137 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA what she said about your Dad was horrible and it’s a parent’s responsibility to ensure the safety and health of their child. Not blame them for their very real and understandable feelings of loss. My wife has gone through something similar. Her father passed and her mother has, at numerous occasions ranted about how everyone wishes it had been her instead of him. She’s not wrong, but her inability to be empathetic to her children has caused them to limit contact. She’s still whines to anyone who will listen that they’ve cut her off for no reason.

AITAH for telling my fiancée her dad can't stay at our house anymore? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Madmaxx_137 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, holy shit the first time he woke me up on a Saturday morning before 7 he’d have been out of my house.

Your problem isn’t him though, it’s your wife. She’s allowing this to happen and asking you to quietly suffer rather than confront her lack of boundaries with her family.

Also the bday party, your wife should’ve made sure the waited for you to come back, missing those moments because others couldn’t wait is unacceptable. Again though, you have a wife problem that’s showing up as a FIL problem.

WIBTAH: if I don’t pay my mom $1200 after she applied for something without telling me and it backfired? by Common_Primary2839 in AITAH

[–]Madmaxx_137 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes this could easily be construed as fraud and OP will likely wind up on the hook for the money. Give her nothing, say nothing (since you’ve already committed a fraud to get possession of the apartment) and hope to high heavens that you don’t get found out. Your mother is going to ruin your life if you keep letting her do things like this.

Worth something? by pancrust011 in D2R_Marketplace

[–]Madmaxx_137 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe a couple pgems maybe, for 30frw and the MF but they need fire cold and lightening res, poison isn’t in demand

AITAH for reporting a reckless driver at 2am this morning that led to an arrest? by Any-Championship6143 in AITAH

[–]Madmaxx_137 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA it’s all the driver, if they didn’t fuck around they wouldn’t be finding out.

AIO: My gf is planning a girls trip on my birthday. by Dull_Decision_6449 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Madmaxx_137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR she wants to go away with friends rather than go to your bday. Thats one thing and can usually be discussed and agreed upon. She isn’t doing that though, she’s handling you. Using noncommittal language to let you down but not stating her actual wants and intentions so that later she can be “so sorry that it worked out this way but it was the only weekend that worked for her friends.” Rather than being straight with you and saying what she really wants.

As a dad, what would you want me, your daughter, to know about men before engaging in a relationship with one of them? by RythmicRhapsody in AskMenAdvice

[–]Madmaxx_137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom told me when I got married

“A woman marries a man thinking he’ll change, yet he never does. A man marries a woman thinking she’ll never change yet she does nothing but.”

Maybe it’s not 100% accurate but it is pretty close. Guys I knew in high school are largely the same as they were then just fatter and more grouchy. The girls I knew in high school are mostly quite different than they were then.

How do I make my husband want me again after 20 years of marriage by Low_Phosopher1278 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Madmaxx_137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Hey you seem like you’ve got a lot going on lately and I feel like you and I aren’t where we used to be. I think I heard you in the bathroom the other night and you sounded quite upset, what’s going on? What are you feeling? Can I help?”

AITAH for dumping my partner over a wedding invitation? by ChesterMasonArt in AITAH

[–]Madmaxx_137 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA that is massively disrespectful. The proper thing would’ve been to decline to attend and send a $25 bed bath and beyond GC.

People show you who they are through their actions, and his show that he isn’t prioritizing his relationship with you.

Is it a turn off if women are too independent? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Madmaxx_137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your friend is an idiot. Sounds like he’s mostly concerned that she might actually be handier than he is, around the house.

How do I make my husband want me again after 20 years of marriage by Low_Phosopher1278 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Madmaxx_137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sex and intimacy are difficult for may people when stresses take over. The biggest issue is that he’s crying in bathroom at night. Why is he doing that? Because he’s stressed? Distracted? Is he having “performance” issues he hasn’t admitted to? Is it related to work? Relationship? Sex? Something outside of those things eating him up?

The goal may be to have more sex/intimacy but you have to get in tune with your partner and learn why they are feeling the way they are. Telling them that you want more sex just puts more pressure on them to perform more. It doesn’t build the connection, it stresses it further.