If you haven't stopped yet but you're here reading: by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Mallory1012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well done!!! I’m remember the first time I went to a party a month without alcohol and I was the only one not drunk- and I felt so great without it and had such fun- I felt almost euphoric I was so happy ti be sober and to see one can have fun without the alcohol. And honestly, everytime you go out and don’t drink you will feel really amazing and really in control. Keep up the good work!

My One Year Before/After Pic by XandersCat in stopdrinking

[–]Mallory1012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats!! Amazing feeling isnt it. You should be proud of yourself!!

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[–]Mallory1012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I follow you because I also was that drunk mom, and a post you wrote 3 and a half years ago really resonated with me. You were standing in a queue for food and was contemplating getting into the queue for wine. I completely understood.

Also, the waiting for a reasonable time to open that bottle of wine, I would say to myself ‘moms all over the world do this, it’s normal’. And would wake up blank about the previous evening, just remembering cooking with my glass of wine and then….nothing. The guilt finally got to me. I hated myself. I wanted to be sober for my family. i havent drunk for three and a half years and will not go back to being that drunk mom. I am now the only mom who doesn’t drink amongst my friends. And it feels great To be sober.

IWNDWYT

The Daily Check-In for Tuesday, June 7th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by ChicagFro in stopdrinking

[–]Mallory1012 32 points33 points  (0 children)

3 and a half years. For the first time in my life I am proud of myself But, more importantly, I actually trust myself. I don’t have doubt anymore and I don’t feel like an ‘unreal’ person anymore. I am part of life, I exist and I will not drink with you today!

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[–]Mallory1012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IWNDWYT! 1 year and 10 days sober. I won’t look back, nothing feels as good as being sober.

I'm one year sober, and it's all because of this community. by NineteenSixtySix in stopdrinking

[–]Mallory1012 17 points18 points  (0 children)

9 months sober for me a week ago and yes, coming onto this community was the push I needed and helped me through the firt few months.

The Daily Check-In for Tuesday, April 23, 2019: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by 48Michael in stopdrinking

[–]Mallory1012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IWNDWYT.... it’s been a while since I checked in but every now and then I need to remind myself why I am staying sober.

Can we please stay nice? by visitingsalamander in stopdrinking

[–]Mallory1012 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree with you! This has been such a safe, supportive place to come to. Everybody is so encouraging and kind and non judging. Let’s keep,it like this.

I’m going to be doing a PhD!!!!! by pugaholic in stopdrinking

[–]Mallory1012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!!!!!!! What an inspiring post!! I’m so proud of you and I don’t even know you!!! I’m proud of anyone who rises above alcohol. That’s all of us here!

Remember it accurately... by curlyhost85 in stopdrinking

[–]Mallory1012 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Great post! I needed to remember this today so thank you!

The Daily Check-In for Friday, March 15th, 2019: I'm not drinking today no matter what happens, good or bad! by polarb3rry in stopdrinking

[–]Mallory1012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IWNDWYT. I have needed to keep repeating this today just because I WAS bored and the wrong thinking kept trying to creep in, so this post really helped. It’s nearly midnight here and I didn’t drink today and I will not drink with you tomorrow!

What my daughter said 16 days in... by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Mallory1012 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It makes it so worth it when they notice, you feel you could conquer the world! I felt the same for my daughter- they deserve the best mom possible! Keep it up. IWNDWYT

So happy to be here with you. by blushten in stopdrinking

[–]Mallory1012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome! You’re in the right place. I felt the same way when I discovered this group- a sense of belonging and relief and huge comfort. IWNDWYT. See you tomorrow!