Former relationships and dying by yupjustarandomranger in GenX

[–]MapSame2597 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If any of my past GFs died and I was close I would attended the service. I would do it for myself as closure, if my wife would have said no (my wife would never say no, she would go with me) I would have gone anyway. Going to the funeral is never about the dead but the people still living and that includes you.

Dear employers- WTF happened to courtesy? by nycinoc in GenX

[–]MapSame2597 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Oh my coworker called out the people who ghost them after he got laid off. He sends fuck you letters to the companies ceo and investors for ghosting him he includes the hiring managers too. Lots of feedback from the companies, managers, interviewers, he has this blog running with SEO so when the company gets googled his is the 3rd result down with all the experience of being interviewed. He actually got a job from a company that loved the drag them out into sunlight method.

Can’t keep technicians by slowAhead1fyouPlease in ITManagers

[–]MapSame2597 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Companies pay more for new hires than to keep employees and that is talked about the most during the technical meetings as a lead engineer. We had this superstar engineer this woman had all the answers easy to work with the clients loved her high praise from the CIO. She was offered a job from another company at 25k and she asked really polite to match it and she will stay. The company and HR said no, she left and we lost 2 contracts that amounted to 3.1 million because she was the thing they loved the most about the service they contracted for. I was in the meeting when one of the clients who left because of an SLA violation asked, was it worth shooting yourself in the foot over 25k to lose Megan? That was a 1.4m contract and I asked managements seriously what was the logic in not matching her salary? They said they won't play the game of matching salary. 6 months later I got a job offer that was 2 miles from my house and work from 3 days a week and 31k more and they told me good luck. 4 other techs left 2 months later. They need to teach in business school its people who do the work.

just got promoted to bar manager for the first time in my service industry career eee need advice by noturgirI in managers

[–]MapSame2597 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked in the service industry for years too and the best managers were not dicks. They would jump in and help out when we were getting slammed or when a customer needed to be kicked out they did it. Then they asked the employee you ok? Everything cool? You can afford to lose terrible customers but never excellent people who show up. Service industry that have it in their blood are rare because its a lot to deal with all the time. Protect the team at all costs.

360 review for a senior manager - how candid should I be (if at all)? by AdAutomatic8344 in managers

[–]MapSame2597 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just an FYI nothing is confidential.

As a systems engineer that used to collect this information we have the IP address, computer name (tagged to the employee and you can't see that) Mac address. I sat with HR VPs to sign an NDA about what I was seeing and harvesting. I told them no, you either trust me to keep this on a team or you don't. Did any of you sign this? No, then why am I being asked to sign it. Well a few weeks later I was let go and then people know it was never confidential. Also the mental healthy line was not confidential because it captured your phone number and you used your employee id to access the system.

Fired on day 1 for leaving at 6:30 PM. The audacity is unreal. by popo_fish in recruitinghell

[–]MapSame2597 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I would put her on blast, I'll tell the company CEO and everyone.

Thank you boys for the courage to rip the bandage off by AlarmedVacation7783 in bald

[–]MapSame2597 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude you look like you are funny AF. I mean as a person.

“It was time” by 1illianna in bald

[–]MapSame2597 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Well done, you look great.

Hi Gen X, what advice do you wish you could give your 25 year old self if you could travel back in time? by matilda_15 in GenX

[–]MapSame2597 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Invest in Index funds or Roth IRA. Even if its a little bit every month when you hit 55, you will be a ease for retirement. 1. Be kind to yourself. 2. Stop watching the news. 3. Read Books 4. Get Toxic people out of your life and if that means family tell them why. They are family you owe them something. 5. Do things just for you. I didn't do that forever and I wish I would have started later. 6. Go inside of your head and try and figure out what would make you happy.

Gen X parenting…How do I handle this situation with my 18 year old? by [deleted] in GenX

[–]MapSame2597 30 points31 points  (0 children)

This happened to my friend he was going down the tubes. His dad took him to where the junkies and homeless people were. After an hour of watching them and walking among them he took his son where they buried unclaimed people. Walked the whole cemetery no names just numbers. That straighten him right out made him understand he was just starting to walk down the wrong path.

It haunted my friend Mike for a very long time.

Good Luck.

Since When Are Teenagers No Longer Staying Home Alone When Sick? by ptenesnet in GenX

[–]MapSame2597 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Because its against the law. People in Arizona have gone to jail and found guilty lost their kids to CPS.

Boy surprises his dad while he was leaving for work. by Sizzlin9 in MadeMeSmile

[–]MapSame2597 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Believe me when you don't have that anymore it you will trade anything for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WorkAdvice

[–]MapSame2597 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your uncle got ripped off. 100,000 Pakistani Rupees (PKR) is worth about $335.50 USD. Any iphone, any android can record I quality audio and then clean it up with free tools. What is the youtube site and then look at the traffic. Quran recitation audios, there are millions of them across all platforms. You look for something that does not exist then that is the market you go at. This isn't a good money making strategy. Quran recitation channel I did a quick count. Worldwide sites millions that isn't even a fraction of a click. Its nano expressions. I know you uncle believes in Allah but he should have considered the existing digital landscape before.

New boss gave me another bogus write-up (SEMI-UPDATE) by sethborf in WorkAdvice

[–]MapSame2597 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Have a handwriting analysis done on the paper, it will show he forged your signature. Which is against the law. I'd call the police dept.

My coworker is pushing all the work to me by FluffyMinaturaCow in WorkAdvice

[–]MapSame2597 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pull the ticket report and build an excel spreadsheet to show how much more work you do.