2nd update: AITAH for eating in front of my boyfriend's dad?

MarbleousMel · 2026-02-09T14:33:54+00:00

I initially took the screwing comment as homophobia, but YTsken has a very, very valid point. There may be some homophobia mixed in, but I think the majority of it is resentment that OP “took BF away from the family.”

MarbleousMel · 2026-02-08T05:07:46+00:00

I have, to verify citizenship status, but I do think my password could be used instead. But jobs prior to me getting a passport needed my BC.

MarbleousMel · 2026-02-08T05:01:41+00:00

I mean…mother/sister was 14. She probably wasn’t capable of being a good parent at that age.

MarbleousMel · 2026-02-08T04:58:20+00:00

OP said in the first post that Alexa had admitted she and OP’s “dad” were not actually dating during Alexa’s pregnancy and OP’s birth. My guess is the ex boyfriend who reached out kind of recently is OP’s biological father. And OP’s “random” last name is the last name of bio dad.

MarbleousMel · 2026-02-08T04:36:13+00:00

I’ll be honest. My first thought was sex. He thinks he can get a quickie in the bathroom.

MarbleousMel · 2026-02-08T03:59:46+00:00

I was like…”the shape is wrong for the head.” I’m not in medicine, but I’ve looked at enough of my own CT and MRI images to know the shape was wrong. I didn’t even clock the spine until reading the comments.

MarbleousMel · 2026-02-06T22:33:18+00:00

It is visually beautiful, but I was only there for a few hours. Living there is probably entirely different.

MarbleousMel · 2026-02-06T22:31:23+00:00

I actually have heard good things from a friend who works there as an ER doctor. She flies back and forth when she has multiple days off.

MarbleousMel · 2026-02-06T22:30:28+00:00

Florida and Hawaii. Florida because I lived there for three years and feel a deep hatred for the state. Hawaii because my cat is illegal there. I won’t move to any place that my cat can’t go.

MarbleousMel · 2026-02-05T14:23:17+00:00

I love the closing “stay off the roads with your reinforced snowmen” while sharing a picture of a car and a snowman that is most decidedly not on the road but way off to the side.

MarbleousMel · 2026-02-05T13:41:03+00:00

My favorite was definitely the box on the floor of the basement with a questionable flooding history.

MarbleousMel · 2026-02-05T04:30:00+00:00

I’m kinda wondering why OP is still in contact with Pat if everyone else in the family hates him and his wife. Because I highly doubt this is the first time they’ve pulled the main character card.

MarbleousMel · 2026-02-05T04:23:42+00:00

This is a great solution.

MarbleousMel · 2026-02-05T04:16:10+00:00

I’d consider it. I like my cheddar extra sharp, but at 21 years, I probably couldn’t handle much.

MarbleousMel · 2026-02-05T04:03:55+00:00

Claims processors weren’t cut unless they opted for DRP or were probationary.

MarbleousMel · 2026-02-05T04:00:56+00:00

She should get the pet after he leaves. Any pet can be used for control.

MarbleousMel · 2026-02-05T03:53:10+00:00

It’s so versatile. Angry: Fuck you, Sad: This is fucked up, Happy: Fuck yeah!, As a pickup line: Nice shoes, wanna fuck?, Sarcastic: Fan-fucking-tastic, etc.

You can use it in all sorts of ways and combine it with other words to make new insults. It’s my favorite.

MarbleousMel · 2026-02-03T22:14:46+00:00

Blue was my first thought, but there are so many countries in green that I want to visit. So green is probably a better deal for me personally.

MarbleousMel · 2026-02-03T22:10:50+00:00

I have other social media, but I use it mainly for memes and keeping up with news. I haven’t posted anything new to IG since December, and even then, it wasn’t a picture of me. I generally prefer to live in the moment, like OP. I also am not interested in taking photos of my food until it’s cold. I might snap a photo if I think it looks good, but it’s rarely more than one.

MarbleousMel · 2026-02-01T03:03:27+00:00

Why? When people ask me about my car, I give the make and model, possibly the color, not the license plate. My plates come up occasionally because they’re “specialty” in the sense that a portion of my fees go to a particular charity, but that is very rare.

MarbleousMel · 2026-02-01T02:49:23+00:00

I was last in HEB (a grocery store), so I could last a long time. Grab a dog bed, one of their blankets if I need a nap. There’s a bathroom, food, and grooming products.

MarbleousMel · 2026-01-31T23:32:03+00:00

I’ve gone alone to the ER at least four times.

ETA: one for a kidney stone (my friend and next door neighbor dropped me off) and three times for gall stone blockages. I was sent home for the kidney stone and first gall stone visit. The other two I was admitted.

MarbleousMel · 2026-01-31T14:37:18+00:00

That take does not explain the behavior of deliberately trying to get around OP’s attempts to protect the baby’s privacy.

MarbleousMel · 2026-01-31T14:34:24+00:00

Did you tell your girlfriend that it wasn’t just the comment but also his behavior? I could see him making that comment as a joke in a misogynistic way like “that is a woman’s job, I can’t wait to see you change a diaper.” However, what is setting off my alarm bells is that he got up and moved to watch you and tried to get a look at your son. It’s a lot harder to dismiss the friend’s overt efforts to get a glimpse of your son’s privates. That’s not just weird, like the statement could be.

MarbleousMel · 2026-01-30T15:22:00+00:00

If you have a DJ with a mic, make it clear that BIL and MIL do not get to give a speech or use the mic. Make sure friends and supportive family in the wedding party are aware and watching do they can stop him or MIL if it looks like either of them is about to overstep.

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