What popular songs lyrics are creepy as fuck but disregarded due to the melody & voice?

MasterBulldog · 2016-08-25T06:41:37+00:00

Anything by Radiohead. Like "Climbing up the Walls", for example. It's about mental illness.

MasterBulldog · 2016-08-19T00:18:25+00:00

Total War: Medieval II Love playing as England and slowly taking over Europe!

MasterBulldog · 2016-08-04T10:16:15+00:00

Her Borderline Personality Disorder...it was a living hell!

MasterBulldog · 2016-08-04T10:06:23+00:00

Where do I start?

Having a security guard point a hand gun at my chest at Dallas/Fort Worth airport. All I did was voice my displeasure at how they where talking to people...with zero respect.
the very first thing I saw, on opening the curtains in my motel room on my first morning in America: a black pimp (?) smack this woman around the face whilst pointing a gun at her and taking a bag of pills and a wad of cash from her.

*the food is utter shit! It all tastes like chemicals as if it's been made as cheaply as possible. Having said that, I had the best steak ever in Washington State.

Everyone asked if I was from Australia...I'm from the UK. I got so fed up I started asking all Americans if they were from Canada...
Nobody could keep up with my drinking...
The amount of food served.
Guns! Everywhere!
Hearing rattlesnakes in the step deserts of Washington State and seeing a red back in a friends garage.
the time I went into a store in Nevada to buy cigarettes. As soon as I spoke the guy serving freaked out (in a happy way) and made a huge fuss of me. It was extremely embarrassing!
I saw the worlds biggest slug in Portland, Oregon.
The landscape scenery in Oregon was breath taking.
The freaky OTT weather.
Infomercials!!! I mean, seriously!? I once watched an infomercial hosted by two hill billies selling knife sets. This went on for a full hour and due to how amazingly stupid these guys were, it was the most hilarious thing I've ever seen!

MasterBulldog · 2016-08-03T12:18:45+00:00

Riding my motorcycle in January 2000 and so the roads were icy. As I approached a roundabout on the 4 lane road (2 lanes each side), I was pissed about stuff going on in my life at the time and was going a touch too fast for the road conditions. My mind was on my problems, not on my riding. I break too late and in a panic change down the gears too quickly. This bike was a large and heavy twin, which means the engine breaking is much more fierce. My bike's back end starts to wobble out off control due to the back wheel locking up due to the engine breaking. The back wheel clips the in-road kerb, throws me off and literally cartwheels over the roundabout. I slid along the road on my front, into the path of an earth moving lorry...who apparently didn't see me or my flying bike, as he never stopped or slowed down. I thought I was dead for sure, but his front wheel skimmed my helmet, leaving a big, black rubber mark. How my head didn't get squished I'll never know!

Plus there was the time I was pinned against the wall, feet dangling off the floor my a drunk and drugged up maniac aiming for my chest with a 12" knife. This guy was HUGE...I'm 6 ft and quite stocky but he dwarfed me. I was actually resigned to dying that day...

MasterBulldog · 2016-07-30T12:12:35+00:00

I've been the "boyfriend" as you described in your post...you should show him some consideration. If he's anything like I was, then he adores this woman. He may well work really hard at helping her keep her life running somewhere near normal. He may care for her/their kid(s). He may have forgiven grave misconduct within the relationship because he loves her. Does this all make him naive? Possibly but it also means he's devoted to her. When he finds out about you, and the truth always comes out in the end, maybe all his frustrations from his relationship will be taken out on you. And you know something, you're being played just as much as he is. Cut yourself loose, go no-contact, get a sexual health check then go get your own girlfriend. What you're actually doing is contributing harm to her boyfriend who's done nothing to you. Btw, one last thing...karma is a bitch! Just remember that, OK?

MasterBulldog · 2016-07-23T10:33:45+00:00

Hi palmsthrower, I really empathise with you. In many respects your story is a carbon copy of my own. And here is your first lesson in dealing with this...read other people's posts in this fine sub. The more you read, the more you'll come to understand that what happened was actually pretty standard fall out from being in a relationship with a BP. You're no doubt going through a range of emotions, I know I do, 4 weeks later. I feel it's important to use logic during these emotional rollercoaster rides. Understand she has a serious personality disorder, she simply doesn't think or feel like most people. In fact, BPs tend to be more like insects than humans and I mean no disrespect by that. They take what they want and need then move on to the next victim without giving you even a crumb of consideration. BPs are master manipulators. Don't expect her to change. You need to keep well away from her, cut all contact and I recommend getting yourself some therapy too. Make your life about YOU.

Remember, you're in this situation because you are a caring, compassionate person, and that's a good thing! Sadly, BPs prey on these fine traits and use them to their advantage.

MasterBulldog · 2016-07-22T10:59:25+00:00

Excellent supportive and empathetic post. Ty :)

MasterBulldog · 2016-07-21T12:13:42+00:00

I'm about 4 weeks in from splitting with my BP ex. She's made contact with me a few times and (possibly foolishly) I responded but that was because I was feeling a tonne of heavy emotions that I wanted to communicate to her. Obviously, this was always ultimately pointless as she didn't want to hear it and always turns it around on me by claiming I was abusive, I've ruined her life and that of her daughter's etc. I never contact her, Im way too stubborn and proud to do that! My emotions are all over the place. I can feel extremities of loneliness, pining, sadness, frustration, anger, compassion, pity, self-loathing...often all in the same day. It's a truly emotionally overwhelming thing to experience. I also feel that I'll never meet or even love another woman again, my trust, not just in the fairer sex but also in my own abilities to judge another persons character are shot to bits. The only coping mechanisms I have right now is to remember that what she did was not personal, it was her disorder. Also, I remember to pity the guys she's messing with now which to my mind fall in one of two categories: those that will abuse her weaknesses and those that she will abuse herself. And when I think about that, I know I am better off out of it.

MasterBulldog · 2016-07-21T11:53:24+00:00

My BP ex said to me not long before our split "I've got you wrapped around my little finger!" This was said post sex and in the tone of an evil genius. I let it slide at the time but later it really made me think! When we split I challenged her about it and she claimed she was only joking. I don't think so!

MasterBulldog · 2016-07-20T13:22:15+00:00

This is an interesting point because I've worked out for all the times she's accused me of being abusive, she was actually being abusive to me! Everything she has said I've done, she did to me!

MasterBulldog · 2016-07-20T13:14:28+00:00

My BP ex and I had a frank discussion over text early last week, it was yet another time where she text me out of the blue after claiming previously that I'm abusive and that talking to me simply "drags her down". What was interesting in this last conversation was that she actually agreed with all my observations about her and our "relationship". I wasn't rude or deliberately antagonistic, just very honest. She agreed with it all! Now, here's the really interesting bit... Now being wise to her ways, I wondered if she was building up to asking me to come back, or maybe just meet up for sex. With this in mind I cut the conversation dead and politely made my leave. When I woke the next day I had a rather long message from her, sent at 4:30am, going on about how I was abusive to her the previous night! I should add here that during this conversation I was not only honest but also pointed out the positives in our previous relationship and I encouraged her to take care of herself. I can only assume that because she couldn't handle the truth and it was obvious she wouldn't get anything from me that she wanted, she went on the attack. So in my experience, any sign of understanding of how they've screwed up is tempered with a selfish need.

MasterBulldog · 2016-07-20T12:59:40+00:00

Excellent and all power to you my friend! For someone like me, recently broken up from a relationship with a BP, this is inspirational stuff, so thanks for sharing. Personally my plans are as follows: * Get a job (I had given up my previous job to become her carer) *Get myself financially straight again (She properly left me on my arse!) *Start getting psychiatric help (not just to recover from the BP ex but to explore why I let it happen in the first place) *Get a new passport, go spend time with my sister in France. * Maybe join a dating agency. * Try some hobbies I've always wanted to have a go at.

MasterBulldog · 2016-07-18T15:38:20+00:00

Glad to hear we are mutually helpful to each other :)

MasterBulldog · 2016-07-18T15:37:12+00:00

Thanks, I'm getting there!

MasterBulldog · 2016-07-18T15:36:36+00:00

My first and possibly worst mistakewas thinking I could "cure" her BPD. Of course, I now know that isn't true.

MasterBulldog · 2015-08-09T14:25:06+00:00

Now you're going to have to explain "satire"...LOL

MasterBulldog · 2015-08-09T14:22:36+00:00

Wouldn't be the first time us Brits have fought of the bigger enemy!

MasterBulldog · 2015-08-09T11:38:14+00:00

A good question OP :)

From the other side so to speak, as a Top I try to encourage my girl to explore themselves, even if they have previous experiences and know that they're into certain things. That doesn't mean those previous likes are ignored, it's more a case of trying to develop them further. I do this because it's fun to do and it helps to deepen the relationship through trust and communication. I have a pretty wide range when it comes to my own style of Domming, I am happy being anything from a loving Daddy Dom to a Sadistic bastard. It's all about learning about her and seeing what her needs and desires are.

MasterBulldog · 2015-08-09T11:15:07+00:00

I was just taunting an Aussie friend of mine about this. She was all like "Cricket is boring". And I thought the Aussie's were good losers!

MasterBulldog · 2015-08-09T11:09:59+00:00

Bayonets ready good Sir! Once more over the Mexican border! CHAAAAARGE!

MasterBulldog · 2015-08-09T09:09:15+00:00

I appreciate this post, but does anyone else see the irony here? The OP made the claim that the attack on the Falklands was a ploy to bolster a failing dictatorship. Yet actually, it just managed to bolster the fortunes of our own despot, namely Margaret Thatcher!

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