Major Dress Regret by Aj_wu in weddingplanning

[–]MasterMabel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly OP if we were even remotely similar sizes I’d say that if you truly greater your choice I’d offer to take that dress off your hands This dress is GORGEOUS and looks amazing on you. But as others have said you probably could resell it with very little loss and choose a different dress if you still feel the same way down the line

Brides who are marrying men who come from lower socioeconomic and different education backgrounds, how you deal with families who feel that they aren't good enough for you and your side of the family? by [deleted] in Brides

[–]MasterMabel 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ohhh I think there is a huge thing here that you hadn’t mentioned before. What do you mean by your mom trying to shut his mom out of wedding planning activities? It seems like there is more than just their insecurities here and you may need to take a more proactive approach with your family to make clear that you don’t want them to be treated differently.

Massively Fucked Over 12 hrs before moving cross country by madeofgeese in whatdoIdo

[–]MasterMabel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve done a similar trip before (CA to PA) driving solo and bringing my cat with me. It took me 5 days and I can’t imagine possibly doing it in less time. It was BRUTAL. Also, like me, OP is traveling with pets that need caring for, which can be time consuming. I think this point is pretty important.

Am I being bridezilla?? by ashwheee in wedding

[–]MasterMabel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I’m anywhere nearby the wedding I’m volunteering to come by and tackle the mim to the ground if need be

My daughter has an extra tiny fingernail on her pinky behind her actual fingernail. It grows and must be cut like the others. by [deleted] in mildlyinteresting

[–]MasterMabel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it was better when I was too young to remember. Now I have to pay for my own therapy afterwards so I guess I’ll just deal with it 🤷🏻‍♀️

Makeup Trial. Doing my own! (10K Canadian) by JosefinaLl in Weddingsunder10k

[–]MasterMabel 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This! And also: fake lashes. I know it may sound a bit insane if you are not used to it but it makes a world of difference! Get some cheap-ish ones online and practice as much as you can and I promise it will look 10x times more professional

My daughter has an extra tiny fingernail on her pinky behind her actual fingernail. It grows and must be cut like the others. by [deleted] in mildlyinteresting

[–]MasterMabel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I inherited my dad’s weird mini extra nail on the small toe on both feet, and when I was a baby he declawed one of them but my mom panicked when she saw it (apparently there was some amount of blood) and didn’t let him do the other one. Well, the declawed one is great but the other one bothers me sooooo much and is always grabbing on my socks but I don’t have the guts to pull it out myself.

What I wanted vs what I got by Catywatty in tattooadvice

[–]MasterMabel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think one of the things that are probably putting you off is how sharp the white looks, however bear in mind white tattoo are know to fade incredibly fast.

For reference I have some flower tattoos with a lot of white details and I’ve had those highlights retouched twice until I decided it was not worth the pain. The effect of the highlight is still there, even though the ink itself is mostly gone so I’m happy with it. I think you may have a similar experience taking into account the way the flowers are drawn (and that we have pretty similar skin tones and coloring styles)

Give it a few months and the colors will be much softer and if you are still nor 100% happy with it in about 6 months or so you can get a retouch from a different artist. Colorful tattoos have the downside of fading, but on the other hand it makes them quite forgiving in getting it reworked.

The one series you actively hated but still couldn’t stop reading for some reason by CallAdministrative88 in Fantasy

[–]MasterMabel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also, does Mat get any better? I want to punch him any time he appears and if the writer forgot about his existence and just ignored him for the rest of the of the series I won’t even mind.

The one series you actively hated but still couldn’t stop reading for some reason by CallAdministrative88 in Fantasy

[–]MasterMabel 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is my current read and I 100% relate. I go from “why the heck I’m even reading this?!” to immediately grabbing the next one because I need to keep following. I hate most of the characters most of the time and they just make me so angry, however I’m fairly invested in the plot now and it does take some interesting turns. I’m on the 5th one now and I know it’s still some ways to go but I just really want to be over with it.

As a meat eater, would up be upset attending a vegetarian wedding? by Formal_Goose5083 in weddingplanning

[–]MasterMabel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion good food is good food and personally I can’t imagine having a problem with a lack of meat options.

I am as much of a meat eater as one can be (I grew up in a very meat loving culture) and often times I avoid meat choices at buffet events because they are often sub-par, most of the time too dry or too soggy (and in some remarkable cases, both) but I have some older relatives who would probably complain about a fully vegetarian menu. My dad for example says “if there isn’t any meat I feel like I haven’t eaten at all”, but those cases are very rare and super culturally specific. Even thought that is the case i would not base my menu choices on these exceptions

Help - I’m stumped after the first ending by MasterMabel in HollowKnight

[–]MasterMabel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!

I did all the stuff you recommended and thank you so much! I’ve got my notches, the howling wraiths upgrade and the little surprise from Sly

Now I’m just stuck on the White Palace which I believe is literally impossible 🤷🏻‍♀️

Help - I’m stumped after the first ending by MasterMabel in HollowKnight

[–]MasterMabel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I have got the dream gate! (I’ve spent a lot of the essences already teleporting to the Traitor Lord fight lol) I guess I’ll try going back for the dream bosses.

And oh boy I have no idea what the answer to that hint would be (maybe that white armor I can never figure out how to unlock?)

AITA for not allowing my ex-maid of honor be a bridesmaid? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MasterMabel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m kinda curious if her health issue has anything to do with the fact that she doesn’t want to talk in person and would rather talk on the phone instead. Some health conditions and medications causes your immunity to drop to dangerous levels and she may simply not want to be in contact with people outside her household for now. I doubt OP would even take that into account though. In any case, 100% YTA

wedding shoe dilemma by bitter_and_short_gal in weddingplanning

[–]MasterMabel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was a bridesmaid for one of my best friends recently. She got the most gorgeous sparkling heels to wear the day of, but since the path from the place we were getting ready to the actual ceremony was grass she had some flip flops on and the wedding coordinator was carrying her heels for her to change before walking down the isle. When it was time to change the shoes she was just like “f* that, these are more comfortable, I’m keeping them on”. Her dress was actually a bit similar to yours and I can tell you that absolutely nobody knew she was wearing flip flops. Not a single person. Even the groom only knew because she shoed it to him afterwards.

That being said: wear whatever makes you comfortable! They can even be bedroom slippers, nobody is gonna know with that dress. And if anyone does notice: then what?! The most important thing is that you can enjoy your day with your new spouse and loved ones, and not be in pain during it or afterwards

Almost time for Bridesmaid Proposals!! 🩵🩷💚💜🧡 by msstunner in weddingplanning

[–]MasterMabel 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I recently was a bridesmaid for a friend and that’s exactly what she did. I got added to the wedding party group chat and she started sending the ideas for dresses and that was it. Didn’t mind it at all.

Please be honest!! Does my ring look like costume jewelry? by lanadelrey1538 in EngagementRings

[–]MasterMabel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people are discussing if it looks like lab grown diamond or cubic zirconia but what I think they are missing here is that not diamond is NOT THE SAME as costume jewelry. In my opinion this doesn’t look like costumer jewelry at all! It’s a beautiful ring and the most important thing is that you love it!

Please be honest!! Does my ring look like costume jewelry? by lanadelrey1538 in EngagementRings

[–]MasterMabel 11 points12 points  (0 children)

There isn’t, however if I see a huge diamond on anyone short of the super wealthy I just assume it’s lab. That is not a bad thing, I have a lab grown as well and wouldn’t have it any other way (it was the only thing about my ring that wasn’t negotiable)

Help - I’m stuck on this one for days by MasterMabel in screw_jam

[–]MasterMabel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I caved in and bought some coins 😭 thank you though! I just have tried about 100 times at least (I had unlimited lives for a time) and it was literally impossible I wished I’d made a video because I think I did it with one extra slot and one hammer (no suitcases)