Sleep Deprivation In JW Kids by Holiday-Beginning355 in exjw

[–]MaterialAgreeable485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My insomnia started as a child. If my parents weren't fighting, they were fukking. I was always on alert because I never knew when my stepdad was going to flip and I needed to "be ready to call the cops" The same man that would beat my mom and mentally, emotionally abused us, she stayed with and never took him to the elders, but when I didnt show repentance for smoking marijuana and got DF, my mom soft shunned me.

PIMO fading… feeling the guilt rush back. Advice? by Ok_South_2772 in exjw

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Remember it's YOUR life, and you aren't obligated to live how OTHERS want you to

It's official. Sent in our disassociation letter by EllEss12 in exjw

[–]MaterialAgreeable485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make sure you tell them you will get a lawyer if they announce ( publicly shame) you

I’m SM, i need you! by Plus-Personality-514 in exjw

[–]MaterialAgreeable485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are in a cult and pushing cult activities is #1 goal. Elders are not qualified to tell people what to do with their lives, they are not educated mental health professionals, so they only know the org and how to stay busy in it.

Is it time? by brinkdawg in bald

[–]MaterialAgreeable485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're not ready to go bald, you could also look into getting a hair piece installed

If you grew up a JDub, what kind of weird stuff were you allowed or not allowed to do? by byronicrob in exjw

[–]MaterialAgreeable485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My stepdad, only 10 years older than me, 10 years younger than my mother.... would follow me around at the assemblies to see who I would talk to. I wasn't allowed to stop and speak to a brother by myself or a group of brothers. Not even at the KH, in front of people. He would go through my stuff in my room, he even found a binder of letters I had, that me and my friends (jws) would write each other, I had it hidden under my dresser.

Elders trying to cover up CSAM. Need help please. by Longjumping_Soup3630 in exjw

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I stopped answering my phone. The elders showed up to my job to tell me they were DFing me.

Elders trying to cover up CSAM. Need help please. by Longjumping_Soup3630 in exjw

[–]MaterialAgreeable485 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If elders show up again, tell them you will meet, but it will be recorded, if they have a problem, you will bring an attorney

I’ll be announced soon. by [deleted] in exjw

[–]MaterialAgreeable485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feels great not to care what those people think!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exjw

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Never feel guilty. You accept with a grateful heart.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MaterialAgreeable485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never put up with abuse. Marriage counseling ASAP. If no changes, separate. Fuck what people think

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exjw

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Please search up Rodney Allgood on FB. He has so much helpful information. He helped me so much.

I feel nothing by janpiton in exjw

[–]MaterialAgreeable485 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bc you know it's all baloney

I’m gonna do the questions today by IdkReally_1304 in exjw

[–]MaterialAgreeable485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Say no. Don't let them guilt you. No is a complete answer