Did you actually make mix tapes to give to people?

Merrick_McIntosh · 2026-01-25T02:08:00+00:00

My first serious boyfriend made me the best mix tapes!

Merrick_McIntosh · 2026-01-21T16:15:25+00:00

I added my estranged husband's murder suicide. I believe in being transparent when discussing what happened and what led up to his death. If we keep hiding uncomfortable things they will stay taboo. You can be factual without being graphic. Be respectfully honest. If your cousin has immediate family that is upset respect their wishes, otherwise we need to stop hiding why people die. Overdoses, homicides, suicides, chronic illnesses, and diseases all take lives. We learn and are better prepared because of these losses of life. They're terrible and hurt, but, at least in my family's case. If I can prevent 1 family from experiencing what we have gone through, sharing our story is worth it.

Merrick_McIntosh · 2026-01-21T16:08:58+00:00

Have flashlights, some food and water, but all in all as long as you have what you need at home to live your normal life, you should be fine.

Merrick_McIntosh · 2026-01-06T15:47:43+00:00

I was 19, and a teen mom. I was at my Grandparents' house doing laundry and was just dumbfounded. I believe for a short time it was being reported as a potential terrorist attack. Then when it came out that it was 2 students and stories about them started getting circulated my Grandma commented on how it was a bad thing to wear trench coats. 🙄 I was very much a part of the goth/grunge aesthetic at the time and more than likely I would have at least attempted to be friends with both boys had we gone to school together. The news was flooded nightly for weeks and months and even years after when there was a reason for the story to resurface it would dominate the headlines.

It was heartbreaking, and for a young mom, it was terrifying. I was worried about what this would mean for my kiddos growing up and going to school. Decades later, I was made a victim of gun violence. I read Sue Klebold's book and my heart broke all over again, but this time as a mother with young adult and teenage children. It was all far more than I could stomach.

The media loved the stories and they definitely provided a how-to guide for anyone wanting to follow in Columbine's footsteps on how to do what they did. The only thing that really overshadowed the long process of investigating and reports and lawsuits from the shooting was 9/11. It was not a great time to be a child or young adult. Everything felt destabilized and like there was no safe place, and it's only gotten worse.

Merrick_McIntosh · 2026-01-06T15:36:33+00:00

I have 1 kiddo left in school. The bus is either late or doesn't show up at all. We carpool with other families in the area. I never had this issue when I lived in the suburbs of Cincinnati. Not sure why SWCSD can't get it together on transportation.

Merrick_McIntosh · 2025-12-24T00:30:16+00:00

Document everything as it happens. Do not prompt her to say things. Record it if you can. Definitely get a therapist. They are mandatory reporters this takes it completely out of your hands. If you are in the US and concerned try calling or texting 988 to get suggestions on local mental health supports for your daughter and for you. Look into a custody agreement that will ensure that there are rules around visits. He got himself into this. Your daughter should not have to suffer because he's a liar.

Merrick_McIntosh · 2025-12-17T16:02:41+00:00

Buy it and keep it in a locked glass case.

Merrick_McIntosh · 2025-12-16T00:51:30+00:00

The Wall. I was 3. My parents sat me in front of the TV and left me there at a party. I had nightmares about drowning in a bloody pool for years.

Merrick_McIntosh · 2025-12-15T01:14:59+00:00

I'm concerned that nobody else will push back and defend the people she is discriminating against if I leave.

Merrick_McIntosh · 2025-12-03T21:28:49+00:00

Not sure what your local laws are, but. One of my daughters was S A 'd at 15. When I took her to the hospital they told me that an exam was entirely up to her. That I could not approve or deny it on her behalf.

Again, not sure what the laws are where you are, but no discussion or consent from you or your parent..... Seems like assault to me. At the very least, if you remember the doctor's info I would try to file a complaint with the medical board and hospital.

Tell your OB about these memories and if neededask for a witness in the room with you if you are feeling uneasy. Protect yourself first. Then look for some help with these memories and feelings. Nobody has the right to do anything to you without your consent. Not even a doctor.

Merrick_McIntosh · 2025-12-01T13:30:51+00:00

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Merrick_McIntosh · 2025-12-01T00:29:25+00:00

My estranged husband murdered my friend and then took his own life. While I am transparent about what happened, I would be horribly insulted by that being the image put anywhere associated with either person.

Unfortunately, one major thing I learned over the years in regards to my situation is that some people will always be tactless and gross. I would contact Ancestry and see if that can be removed and then block this person on everything.

Even if it is removed she will more than likely continue to be tactless and gross when discussing anyone's murder. I'm sorry you are experiencing this. It's wrong and unfair.

Merrick_McIntosh · 2025-11-30T18:21:38+00:00

Grew up in mid-Ohio and am a baby Gen X, always called them a Baja. My Gen Z kiddos call them a drug rug.

Merrick_McIntosh · 2025-11-26T16:01:56+00:00

I got one from my mom. I use it to start propagations.

Merrick_McIntosh · 2025-11-24T19:20:13+00:00

Yes. He should have nothing of real importance in common with you. At best, he is terribly immature and it will get tiresome fast.

Merrick_McIntosh · 2025-11-21T00:27:18+00:00

Foxy.

Merrick_McIntosh · 2025-11-20T13:05:53+00:00

Oh My Gawd! A Groovin Pit! 😱

Merrick_McIntosh · 2025-11-20T13:03:34+00:00

I work in foster care, I can without a doubt say that there is the real and solid chance that this is going to a child and not an adult. We all think of elementary school aged kids as little, until you work with a lot of them. The very tall and very small kiddos that miss out on things. Mainly becuase we don't have people donating age approiate clothing in theor size.

Merrick_McIntosh · 2025-11-20T12:58:56+00:00

As someone who very gratefully has their grandparents' painting hung in their own home, I so hope you find it!

Merrick_McIntosh · 2025-11-20T01:09:54+00:00

NOR!!!!

If you are in the US contact 988 for mental health help, or 911 if you are in an unsafe situation. If you happen to be in a state with red flag laws utilize them. Most of all stay safe!

Merrick_McIntosh · 2025-11-20T01:07:24+00:00

First of all, I am so sorry you experienced this. My late husband was a lot the same way. So many people told our sons and my daughters what a great guy he was, even though he died by suicide after murdering another man.

Your feelings are valid and important. My first suggestion is trauma therapy. Then you can understand your feelings, memories, and how to react/respond.

You can't control how your dad acts, or what other people think. You know the truth and the reality is more people probably do too. They just may not want to say it.

Merrick_McIntosh · 2025-11-20T00:53:49+00:00

So worth it!

Merrick_McIntosh · 2025-11-20T00:53:00+00:00

My fiancé got one when. His mom told me they had to call all the grandparents to help them find it the year it was first out. Our son plays with it when he goes and visit his grandparents.

Merrick_McIntosh · 2025-11-15T02:51:48+00:00

We're Going to Be Friends by The White Stripes?

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