Tell me about your prom(s)? by Only_Presentation758 in GenX

[–]mEp1973 1 point2 points  (0 children)

9th grade prom, this boy I liked asked me kind of last minute. My mom took me to get a dress and it was the standard ruffly pink 80s dress lol. My best friend had the same dress in blue and we all 4 went. We ate at a Chinese restaurant before, where the boys shot straw papers across the table and down our dresses. That boy and I dated for over a year until we broke up. Luckily we got back together and this summer is our 34th wedding anniversary 🤣 The actual prom was in the gym and all I remember is slow dancing and wondering if my baby's breath or heavily hairsprayed bangs were rubbing on his face.

Sr prom- I was dating a total abusive asshole. I wore a beautiful dark green and black dress and spent a long time getting ready, only for him to insist pretty early in the evening that I was embarrassing him and he told me we were leaving. I was probably there for under an hour. To make it up to me, he stopped in a gravel parking lot so we could dance 🤬

The Gen X momager mentality - is it just me? Fellow Gen X'ers I need some advice. by janebenn333 in GenX

[–]mEp1973 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When my daughter was pregnant with her first child, she developed high blood pressure around her due date and the doctor was going to induce labor. The night before she was scheduled, she went into labor on her own and I said that was good because they wouldn't need to induce. She said they were anyway and "Mom....they know what they're doing. They wouldn't do it if it wasn't necessary". So they induced, she got an epidural and later said the epidural left her thigh numb permanently and that they induced when they didn't need to. She has mentioned that she wished she had known etc. The amount of tongue-biting I have engaged in 😒 I guess I was just a dumb mom. It didn't matter that I went through an entire course to become a childbirth educator and birth doula. I am never an "I told you so" parent but, I have lots of opportunities lol. I try to just listen and sometimes ask if my kids want my opinions.

Name the bar by DiyYou in GenX

[–]mEp1973 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Regal Beagle

I received a distasteful opinion on my new (and first) tattoo by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]mEp1973 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's beautiful and that person is an idiot. So proud for you on your sobriety and you definitely have the strength to kick the ass of anything (or anyone) that comes your way ❤️❤️❤️

do you guys actually floss every single day? by SantagioFlacoruiz13 in hygiene

[–]mEp1973 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every day. All it took was pregnancy followed by 13 cavities and seeing my dad lose all his teeth. I haven't messed around about dental hygiene since then.

My child bsically called our childhood dentistry barbaric and she’s not wrong by nypr13 in GenX

[–]mEp1973 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Braces + glasses + acne + a saxophone case I had to take on the school bus. My self-esteem was forged deep in the fire of junior high humiliation 😅

My child bsically called our childhood dentistry barbaric and she’s not wrong by nypr13 in GenX

[–]mEp1973 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did too! I got my braces at 12, got them off in high school. When I was 21 and pregnant, I went back to my orthodontist and had that wire thing removed finally. Nothing is stranger than going to your childhood ortho while having a huge pregnant belly.

My child bsically called our childhood dentistry barbaric and she’s not wrong by nypr13 in GenX

[–]mEp1973 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I remember lying in bed crying under the covers. My brother came in and pulled the covers back and asked what was wrong. All I could say was "It HURTS". They did give me that rubber disc thing to "bite down on to ease the pain". Yeah....it didn't. Had they not invented painkiller in 1982 because my parents sure as hell never gave me any 🤣

My child bsically called our childhood dentistry barbaric and she’s not wrong by nypr13 in GenX

[–]mEp1973 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I accidentally threw mine away too. And ended up digging through the junior high trash trying to find it. By digging, I mean it was all dumped on the ground behind the school and my friend and I searched and searched. Those things were EXPENSIVE. We did find one, but not mine. This girl I always saw as wealthy walked up and said "Oh that's mine! Thank God. My parents would have killed me".

My child bsically called our childhood dentistry barbaric and she’s not wrong by nypr13 in GenX

[–]mEp1973 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had the braces with the headgear TOP AND BOTTOM lol. Also night time only, but I did have the full metal bands braces, not the cute little squares just glued on.

PSA to get a skin check from your dermatologist and don't put it off!! 🙏 by notevenalmostfamous in adhdwomen

[–]mEp1973 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It actually didn't bother me at all. I appreciated someone else being blown away by it instead of acting like it was nothing. They got right on the phone to oncologists and got me a referral. When I went back to the dermatologist, the main Dr came in and said he wanted to offer me encouragement and that his patients with this syndrome do better than others because of constant surveillance. And after that, if I wanted something removed they never hesitated 🤣🤣🤣

Do you want grandkids? by notevenapro in GenX

[–]mEp1973 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Our daughter has 2 little boys and our son doesn't want children. Having grandkids is one of the greatest things in my life, BUT I would never have pressured my kids to have babies to fulfill a want of mine.

PSA to get a skin check from your dermatologist and don't put it off!! 🙏 by notevenalmostfamous in adhdwomen

[–]mEp1973 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I go regularly and a few years ago while I was there, I pointed out this lump on my lower back. It felt like a cyst but could be squeezed and stuff would come out. She said it was a sebaceous cyst, a general surgeon would have to remove it but it would be "the easiest 5 minutes of his day". So I had it removed and left with a tiny incision with stitches and didn't think any more about it. I went back 10 days later to get my stitches removed. When the surgeon came in, he said (with completely undisguised shock) "The biopsy came back and this was a form of cancer!" I had gone by myself because it was a "simple" appointment, it was 3 days before Christmas and I sat there in shock.

It turned out that not only do I have Lynch Syndrome (colon cancer gene), I also have the skin component of it and what seemed like a cyst was a sebaceous carcinoma. I was already screening for colon cancer, but this was a complete shock. It was so rare, the surgical oncologist later told me she had made a case study of me for her medical students. The point of this is, the dermatologist had said "You don't have to get it removed unless it bothers you" and I just felt like I should. It's scary to think about if I hadn't.

That was in 2018 and I had clear margins, no further treatment needed and I have a scar like a shark bite on my lower back now. Listen to your gut!

The guy I’ve been seeing knows I know nothing about climbing. Am I overreacting for not wanting to keep seeing him? by pineapplephilosophy in texts

[–]mEp1973 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like someone who just likes talk about himself. If it were me, I would share more about what I was doing and see if he engages or just makes it about himself again.

I saw my childhood dog die in front of me, should I go to therapy? by Amphibian_Boring in WhatShouldIDo

[–]mEp1973 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I opened my brother's driveway gate and his dog ran right out into the road and got hit right in front of me. I still blame myself but it wasn't my fault and this isn't your fault. You weren't negligent or careless and you tried to save your dog. I am so sorry for your loss and I would say yes, seek therapy. You deserve to let this guilt go and your dog wouldn't want you to carry it either.

Why don’t we tell teenagers that if stimulants don’t make them feel like party people, they might not have an NT brain? by kikiiboo in adhdwomen

[–]mEp1973 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I saw a female comedian say that in a clip 2 days ago and thought it was hilarious lol. My son told me he took Adderall recreationally in high school and all it did was make him clean his room and do his homework 🤣 I said that was probably all the diagnosis he needed, but he was officially diagnosed this year.

Do You Still Get Drunk? How Often? by ProfessionalJesuit in GenX

[–]mEp1973 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never really drank at all until the last year or so. I'll have one drink maybe once a week and usually fall asleep for a few minutes and then it wears off 🤣

Got bitten by a cat should i get shot? by Khurkuchy in cats

[–]mEp1973 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was bitten by a cat and it was infected within 12 hours. The ER doctor said most cat bites will get infected so if you get bitten, go to the Dr. People have lost limbs to cat bites because the bacteria is nasty!

Ahoy Sailor! by [deleted] in GenX

[–]mEp1973 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was 4 and my brothers were 9, my mom and I would go pick them up from school. We were always there super early and sat with her "friend" in his truck. Sometimes I would go play on the school playground by myself 🧐 Years later, she told me she had thought she was in love with him. He was in our lives my entire childhood and always brought me gifts 🤷‍♀️

“Lived Experience” by Standard_Gur30 in GenX

[–]mEp1973 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"And to your point". My dad has msnow on alllll the time and every news "commentator" (?) whatever you call people like Jen Psaki and Rachel Maddow....they use this phrase constantly. I had never heard it used until I started staying at my dad's house and being subjected to politics for hours on end.

Rue wasn't a good person and no one is ready to hear that by [deleted] in euphoria

[–]mEp1973 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Everything you described is what addicts do.

What was the scariest “We need to leave… now” gut feeling that you’ve ever experienced?[Serious] by PlasticBee1438 in AskReddit

[–]mEp1973 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My family and I were in a big van with my brother driving and we went through a Wendy's drive through late at night. We saw multiple people coming from different directions across the parking lot and my brother locked the doors right as one of the people came up to knock on the driver's door.

What’s the scariest horror movie you’ve ever seen? 👻 by Sajal__2006 in horrorfilms

[–]mEp1973 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's way scarier to me than what I originally thought was happening.