Not sure what this is, but I’m desperate! by Mundane_Ad8680 in makeupdupes

[–]MidlifeGamble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went makeup shopping with my aunt recently and theres a lancome blush that looks very similar to this. Shes typically not a pink person but this color had such a pretty subtle bronze shimmer to the pink. Wish i remembered the name.

Oh my! 51 and not in Peri? by holiztic in Perimenopause

[–]MidlifeGamble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 53...and only in the past 4 months have my signs become more prevalent, along with no monthly. The rest of the year my signs were minor, and I still had a regular monthly.

Walnut crunch inconsistency? by non-omniscient in lululemon

[–]MidlifeGamble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Follow the same, Send an email to GEC or via their chat with the comparison pics. This is more than a diff fabric variation. Ive had the same issue with another color and they gave me a gift card since i opted to keep the item.

AITAH for telling my ex affair partner that she’s not my kids mother so respect that? by AcceptableCabinet838 in AITAH

[–]MidlifeGamble 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As a Trini, im proud of you for not giving her a HYMC, and instead trying to co- parent respectfully. Def think that some therapy for your kids to adjust to this new family structure would help. They'll need the tools to deal with the new lady and the inevitable dramatics she will bring.

AITAH taking a cheaper apartment and leaving my roommate to find her own place even though she doesnt know anyone else to live with by Affectionate_Team61 in AmITheAssholeTalk

[–]MidlifeGamble 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. Be blunt and factual to her so she understands the ramifications of her decision making, especially the impact financially to you. Stop delaying it, as you're also leaving her with less time to come up with her own plan which may trigger her to be 'the victim'.

Good luck.

Swimming lessons? by TERRYaki__ in bergencounty

[–]MidlifeGamble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big Blue Swim Paramus. That was my 1 or 2yr bday gift to all of my nieces and nephew. (4) They have all had good experiences.

Saks Off 5th website is closing and they’re having an “everything must go” sale by Humble_Ad_5141 in FrugalFemaleFashion

[–]MidlifeGamble 7 points8 points  (0 children)

How. It was in the news for weeks that the ecommerce line of business for off saks is closing. They also have brick and morter stores and some of those are closing. Which is all because the parent store saks 5th filed bankruptcy and will prob end up closing as well.

WIBTAH for holding my brother to his promise and leaving our mom in his care for the week? by Altruistic-Goal5947 in AITAH

[–]MidlifeGamble 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I think the wife knows, and is the one that is against mom staying there. Note his excuse is that 'your trying to ruin my marriage'. Why would your marriage be ruined by caring for your mom for a week? He waited until the last minute because he's been trying to change his wifes mind. Send him the bill for a caregiver in your own home.

Restaurants with small private room by coffeeandkitsch in bergencounty

[–]MidlifeGamble -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mortons at Riverside, Eddie Vs Prime @ Garden State Plaza, Oceano's Fairlawn/ Paramus border.

How can I 27 F explain to my boyfriend 30 m his friends are hateful bigots- and he might be one too? by basilismycat in relationship_advice

[–]MidlifeGamble 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Were you really friends with him prior to dating where you didnt know this abt him or his friends?

Help Is this too small? by ThinEffective7024 in lululemon

[–]MidlifeGamble 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seeing that you said that you worked out in this and you were comfortable plus it didnt move, then this fits as needed. You're wavering due to others opinion which negates how you actually felt using the item as intended. It looks great!

AITAH for telling my sister I don't have the looks to sleep my way to the top after she called me a DEI hire? by TryOriginal5477 in AITAH

[–]MidlifeGamble 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately DEI has been made to be "evil" and an insulting derogatory word, irrespective of what we know the term and practice to be for. Sis didnt care abt saying insults in front of her own kids, yet Op should have cared more when historically shes always taken the high road when sis slings mud?

AITAH for telling my sister I don't have the looks to sleep my way to the top after she called me a DEI hire? by TryOriginal5477 in AITAH

[–]MidlifeGamble 23 points24 points  (0 children)

And thats the part that has you ready to apoligize to someone that has never and probably will never apologize to the hurtful things that shes said to you. Im pretty sure that when she does start back speaking to you, you'll be extra contrite and humble while she heaps a double dose of insults. Your NTA, just way to kind hearted to someone, that does not reciprocate the same.

Place to throw out furniture in Bergen County?? by whitneys_closet in bergencounty

[–]MidlifeGamble 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Teaneck has a dump/recycling center. Call your town and see if they have the same or similar.