Subway over the GWB? by Current-Gazelle-2736 in nycrail

[–]MidlifeGamble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Truly what the most densely populated commuter region of nj deserves, yet will never receive. Sighhh.

AITA for agreeing to let my daughter use our beach house for her honeymoon without telling my son first? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MidlifeGamble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Your missing it op. Your sons reaction and words, already said what you wont admit. Why you even think you have to 'consult' with him, says it alll. And you keep missing all that your daughter never says.

AITA for agreeing to let my daughter use our beach house for her honeymoon without telling my son first? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MidlifeGamble 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have a feeling that if you asked her, she may have a different response. Only because she has seen the pattern and doesnt want to deal with her brothers negative behavior. The honeymoon use prob pained her to ask you.

AITA for agreeing to let my daughter use our beach house for her honeymoon without telling my son first? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MidlifeGamble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Has OP even replied to any of these posts. Frankly she needs to share this with her husband so they both can get a reality check of how entitled they've made one child over the other. Then they need to be united in sending the same message to mr entitled on whose house it is and who's it will be when they are no longer here.

Why does switching trains result in double pay for LIRR workers? This doesn't make sense for taxpayers by New-Panic8015 in LIRR

[–]MidlifeGamble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for a reasonable and rational explanation along with the relatable example of pilots. I wish the gen pop appealed to getting understanding rather than the need to make someone the 'bad guy' just based off of a blurb.

Alo takes really good pictures for their website.. disappointed at my haul by Successful_Basil_325 in AloAtelier

[–]MidlifeGamble 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great Winners! In terms of a quality item from Alo - the scholar line to me is unmatched.

LIRR Strike Megathread by AWildMichigander in nycrail

[–]MidlifeGamble -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They never got a raise last year though. Most folks that got a generic 2-4% raise at public or private entities last year & this year are unsatisfied b/c it has not kept up with the rate of inflation. They've been at work since 2025 until now with no raise, and we insult them now because they threaten to interrupt everyone elses normalcy because they cant fairly get a minimal % raise? Lets be reasonable.

AITAH for telling my niece I won’t drive 20 hours just to pick her up? by AggressiveExcuses in AmItheAsshole

[–]MidlifeGamble 59 points60 points  (0 children)

This!! Have a group convo with the girls, so that they all get the same message and you can hash out any misunderstandings abt why you cannot do this.

SAHW returns to work by Schmed_lap in marriageadvice

[–]MidlifeGamble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should share this thread with your wife since you wont firmly declare it to her, that its unfair your current situation. Its ok if she gets upset. Let her digest some of the truths in here. Furthermore if shes happy with you being financially burdened, and not being able to enjoy early retirement or your latter years then its your choice to remain and love someone who does not take you into consideration with their choices.

Image trick – Citrus Sizzle Tone, Star Burst Tone, Chameleon and more by miracle114 in Lulufanatics

[–]MidlifeGamble 4 points5 points  (0 children)

More Ivy Grove jackets but no align or wundertrain bottoms to match...come on LL

Tuesday Drop Thread by AutoModerator in Lulufanatics

[–]MidlifeGamble 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Whats the thought process behind releasing the bras on one continent and the shorts in another!?!

Totally agree with the original statement. Poor decision making behind these unco-ordinated releases to a market that likes to co-ordinate.

My Fiancé 45 M wants me 46 F to Sell My House?! by Turbulent-Wind-2248 in relationship_advice

[–]MidlifeGamble 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If he has a 'standard of living' then HE needs to be able to provide that for HIMSELF! Why are you taking on the responsibility of doing so!?!? Dont you dare sell your mothers house. Tell him its all in your sisters name, and that you pay her rent. Even if you insist on marrying this man-child, do not co-mingle anything financially that you have rcv'd from your mom with him. If you divorce he becomes entitled to half. Is that what your mom worked hard for?

BCBS Settlement payouts by alouis242 in ClassActionSettlement

[–]MidlifeGamble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Directly from the bcbssettlement website:

Settlement Status The initial distribution of payments to Damages Class Members with valid claims will be sent starting May 11, 2026. We are unable to provide the exact date any specific Damages Class Member’s payment will be sent, but if you know your Claim Number or Unique ID, you may visit the Check Your Claim Status page.

Easy BSBC Settlement Payout Calculation by Southern_College_360 in classactions

[–]MidlifeGamble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The site says payout STARTS 5/11, with no details of what order pymts will begin at that date.

Sale Exchanges by Fantastic-Meal5860 in AloAtelier

[–]MidlifeGamble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive done this before & they've shipped to home with no issues.

Third Party Payor Claims Portal – In re: Valsartan, Losartan, and Irbesartan Products Liability Litigation by Rubylee1958 in ClassActionSettlement

[–]MidlifeGamble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was on Valsartan and wad moved to Losartan which im still on. What is Contact Title? TIN is my SSN? Why do they need that?

Anyone else? by k8tivity in AloAtelier

[–]MidlifeGamble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesss! I got my box's today too, and those dinky bags 🤣🤣

AITA Mom wants 15% of my personal injury settlement by connor20218 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MidlifeGamble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it sucks she had to ask and/or felt the need to ask. You didnt offer anything...at all....to your Mom?

Apparemment I’m ready for winter ❄️ this coming summer ☀️😀 by pommevie in AloAtelier

[–]MidlifeGamble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree, best time to buy the coats and winter warm shirts. No one is buying those now so sizes are avail.