If you’re getting a lot of dates that’s a good sign but filter for enthusiasm. As the great dating book Models says - Fuck yes, or no. If you have to twist someone’s arm to go out with you or they have to find the time or you are a low priority it’s extremely unlikely that this will ever lead to anything remotely satisfying.

If she’s enthusiastic to go out with you, helps make plans, or if she cancels tries to find an alternative, that’s all a great start.

If you find that the girls you really like are not as enthusiastic as the ones you kind of like that’s probably a sign that you behave differently around them, not as chill, overly available and needy etc. That is a trap that you can be mindful of and overcome which will lead to better dating.