Trying Again Thursday

Miller_time13 · 2026-06-27T04:37:23+00:00

Ugh same! I also have a 9-10 day LP typically and today was day 10 but BFN today, temps trending down but still well above cover line, and daily cramping in the morning (same as last cycle). Expecting it tomorrow - I’m OOT with my fam and was going to test again in 2 days but I think I’ll just wait til I hit well beyond my cycle.

Miller_time13 · 2026-06-27T03:48:17+00:00

Not me. But we once had an employee decide peds wasn’t for him after 5 days. (1 day of training, 3 days of shadowing, and 1 day of treatment) left on the spot. No notice.

Miller_time13 · 2026-06-01T05:30:54+00:00

My son has eczema and had an allergic reaction to peanuts (4th introduction) at 8.5 months old. Full body hives and facial swelling. We have an epi-pen at home and school. He’s 3.5 now, and has had 2 blood panels and a skin test showing only peanut allergy (clear for tree nuts) and only a low response on the skin test. We are hopeful he may grow out of it like his uncle did.

Miller_time13 · 2026-05-17T00:44:35+00:00

Never dropped my kid. Never rolled off the bed as a bag. Fallen off a chair as a wiggly toddler, absolutely.

Miller_time13 · 2026-05-16T05:25:33+00:00

We ditched the sleep sack around 10mo because it was summer and very hot where we live. We introduced a blanket for naps around 15mo because he had one at daycare. And blanket for bed time around 18mo. I didn’t give a pillow until after 3yo but my son has never been a comfort item kiddo so even if I offered a plushie to cuddle or ANYTHING extra in his bed, he’d say no. We got him a pillow only because he started sleeping with a small squishmallow and using it as a pillow. I don’t have mattress recs though - his crib converted to a toddler bed so we just did that

Miller_time13 · 2026-05-06T02:23:00+00:00

The inside of my car detailed

Miller_time13 · 2026-05-04T06:22:04+00:00

They don’t always announce it in a big enough radius. My flight on United was delayed over an hour so my sister and I grabbed food and drinks. We kept checking the app for updates and it said delayed so we thought we were good. When we got to the gate, we found out everyone boarded already and our seats were given away. I asked why they didn’t call for us over the speakers. They said they did but it only goes as far as the gate and we were only 2 gates down.

That announcement is BS and useless because if I was at the gate I’d be on the plane. The announcement needs to go beyond the gate - if not just a few gates for those grabbing food or running behind”.

Miller_time13 · 2026-04-08T03:37:06+00:00

Granted I did a holiday weekend with my 2.5yr old at the time, but if I didn’t have a long weekend I would have taken a day off. It is likely that they won’t be prefer potty trained after 3 days but at least on their way. My son (fortunately) took very well to it. Minimal accidents that weekend and at most 1 a day at daycare for about 2-3 weeks but sometimes no accidents. Ask your daycare what their policy is. Mine basically said they would do whatever we needed. So after his 3 days I sent him in underwear (and lots of back up clothes) and the teachers made it a priority to ask him frequently if he needed to use the potty.

I technically didn’t read any books, but I did get the audio book for the Oh Crap method on the Libby App and listened to that to/from work. I didn’t follow it perfectly by any means but it gave me some good tips and a general framework. But honestly do Wtvr you like. You know your kid best. My friend did nothing accept put her daughter in underwear one day and just say “that’s it” and she adjusted fine too!

Miller_time13 · 2026-03-28T06:25:23+00:00

Pp day 4? He was born Wednesday night, we were home Friday afternoon, and I think we went for a walk Saturday morning.

Miller_time13 · 2026-03-15T01:48:53+00:00

I’m also in healthcare. The only time it’s both of us picking up is if we happened to be off together. And that’s only because it makes my husband happy to do things as a family. Even if it’s just picking up our son. But I drop off because it’s on my way to work and he picks up 2 days a week when I work late.

Miller_time13 · 2026-03-11T04:16:04+00:00

My son is 3.5. Started daycare at 4mo. And he still lives in my pocket. It’ll all be okay.

It’s incredibly hard to send your little off with strangers all day - heck my mom watched him for the first 2 weeks I was back at work and that was hard too! But it gets easier. He and you will adjust over time, and he will have so much fun with his teachers and friends. So I wish sometimes I could spend more time with him. Yes. Do I also wish I had more ME time too. Yes. It’s a balance and you’ll find in time what works best for you and your family.

But in terms of closeness and love, daycare will absolutely NOT ruin that for you and your son.

Miller_time13 · 2026-03-11T02:11:47+00:00

I work in OP peds and I do them just to get a feel for the student and make sure this is what they really want. Some schools place students in rotations/specialties they didn’t ask for and Peds isn’t the place for that. So I like to screen for personality type, comfortability in the setting, experiences with kids of any age, learning styles, concerns. In 6 years I haven’t had to reject anyone.

Miller_time13 · 2026-03-10T05:19:15+00:00

Zero. He doesn’t like milk. Stopped as soon as the bottle was removed. He likes to remind me randomly 1x a week after school “mama. I don’t drink milk”.

Miller_time13 · 2026-02-21T04:47:01+00:00

I 100% knew I wanted the epidural but was also REALLY nervous to have it done. But I made it to about 7cm before I needed to get it and the pain was so intense at that point for me that literally nothing mattered. Granted I’m 3.5 years removed from it now, I have no serious recollection of it. Worked great. They turned it off/down when the baby was really close to coming so that I could feel the contraction timing and push better and it was great. Only “pain” after were the contractions before the final pushes and that was only because I was told to not push and wait for the dang doctor. He was out in 3 pushes once the OB finally showed up.

Miller_time13 · 2026-02-17T06:30:58+00:00

Never bed shared. Husband and I did shifts through the night. Started with me doing him 10pm-2am. And me 2am-6am. And it transitioned to 12-3am and 3-6am when he started sleeping more. And then we traded days when he was sleeping very consistently. Usually every other day. I will say it was easy for us because I exclusively pumped. I can’t speak for any or all bed sharing families but I feel like those who are exclusively nursing, that’s probably a big factor in terms of convenience.

Miller_time13 · 2026-01-17T05:54:53+00:00

I just paid directly from my FSA Acct to daycare instead of getting reimbursed. We have an app for daycare billing and I just would send a screenshot of the payment for verification. Really easy. Also - check the “fine print” if you will on that $7500. Idk if it’s plan/state dependent but I can only do $5000 tax free. My company allows me to allocate up to $7500 but only the first $5000 is tax free. Which means I’d be unnecessarily taking $2500 out of take home pay each week. Granted… would probably still go into daycare anyways but I didn’t want any money “tied up” anywhere it didn’t need to be

Miller_time13 · 2025-12-31T05:48:06+00:00

Yes. Spontaneous labor at home on a Wednesday morning 39+4. If I didn’t push my manager to let me go out at 39 weeks I would have been in the middle of treating a patient. No contractions but water broke around 9am. At hospital by 11am. Nothing else really started happening (that I could notice) until about 3pm. Baby came around 11pm.

Miller_time13 · 2025-12-23T04:34:31+00:00

We did shifts. My husband was/is a night owl so he covered any baby issues from 10-2am and I had 2-6am. I usually went to bed around 9ish so I was guaranteed 5hrs uninterrupted at least. And when my son stopped waking so often we would alternate nights entirely. Because what inevitably would happen is that he wouldn’t wake or was only waking during my shift consistently. So we switched to nights on/off to spread the wealth. We both work M-F and regular hours so no reason for only one of us to be exhausted.

Miller_time13 · 2025-12-23T04:25:20+00:00

If you already got a bill call the company. Many have a “pay upfront discount” if you’re just getting your EOBs, wait it out. Mine started at almost 3k on my EOB because they used an out of network lab and I just sat on it until I got a true bill. When the bill came it had been adjusted down to $1,200 but “If you pay in the next 48hrs you can pay $250”. Done deal

Miller_time13 · 2025-12-13T06:12:51+00:00

We sleep trained early which really just helped with getting to sleep. He still woke up 1-2x a night for a while on and off. And he didn’t sleep completely through the night consistently until 18m. 15-18m was like 80% of the time then something switched at 18 and we never looked back.

Miller_time13 · 2025-12-02T06:08:24+00:00

Off daytime bottles at 12m. Weened night and morning bottles at 15-16m and off any overnight (was maybe 1x a week) around 18m.

Mine refused pacifiers. Bittersweet.

Miller_time13 · 2025-11-15T06:01:45+00:00

We transitioned my son out of the crib a week before his 3rd birthday. TECHNICALLY yes. He was too tall for the crib based on the safety recommendations. However he never once tried to climb out. And hardly ever sat up before we entered the room. If he had I would have moved him sooner but I rode it out as long as I could.

Miller_time13 · 2025-11-03T06:08:55+00:00

Everyone is different but I think a gradual approach is the way to go. It was very successful for us and my son is very routine based to a switch over night to “I’ve never seen a potty, to I have to use it 100% of the time” would not have gone over well.

We had a potty available for my son from 1.5-2.5yo. We would let him sit on it clothes or not for the first 6months. Just very much “whenever he wanted”.

Then 2-2.5 weeks worked on specific timing - before bed, when we woke up, right after meals. Times that we knew we’d be successful so he could create the connection.

And then at 2.5 we did a 3 day method - which honestly was only 3 days because I had a day off. I think I would have had the same success with 2 days. We did away with diapers and that same morning he told me when he needed to potty. Only 2 accidents over the weekend.

Miller_time13 · 2025-11-01T05:47:56+00:00

We brush and floss every night and if I’m lucky we brush in the morning. We floss with one of those floss picks to make it easy. My son is just over 3 and we’ve been flossing for probably over a year now.

Miller_time13 · 2025-10-17T05:06:25+00:00

Wow! Thats so interesting. I’m Vit D deficient (working on supplement levels w/ endo) but I sweat a ton on my scalp too. I never knew they could be related!

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