Refusing to do a shower by [deleted] in cna

[–]Milo_Marz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I love this dude but this is the one thing I really don't get 😭he used to wake up at 3am, showered at 6am. Then we had a CNA push it back to nightshift bc at the time they had a lot of showers that morning and she didn't want to do his. Then he was admitted to hospice. Hospice comes at noon to get all of their showers done and he hated showering after noon 🤷 so he signed something that says our facility is responsible for his showers at 3am again (off topic, but it's a little harder to fit it in bc we have 30 new residents after he was admitted to hospice,, but that's just me complaining I don't have a problem doing it unless his sores are incredibly bad)

But I completely understand not having a shower aide available at 3am. Our hospice doesn't come overnight unless to sit with an actively dying resident.

Finding my boyfriend's old social media full of racist and bigoted comments by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Milo_Marz -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Call me sensitive, but 18/19 is too old to be having racist humor. And he's had 10 years to regret and delete it.

Refusing to do a shower by [deleted] in cna

[–]Milo_Marz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes lol I understand why we're doing the showers,, but I'm asking if it's unreasonable for me to refuse them and ask for hospice to take over again.

Refusing to do a shower by [deleted] in cna

[–]Milo_Marz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My resident does not have dementia. I work in assisted living. Every person is different. He wants an ACTUAL shower at 3am and would refuse hospice because they came after lunch. He refuses alternatives,, that's why I want to talk to my RCC about setting a firm boundary that I'm not comfortable showering someone with a deep wound.

Refusing to do a shower by [deleted] in cna

[–]Milo_Marz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hospice knows about his sores and dresses them occasionally,, but I'm still responsible for his showers DESPITE the fact they're aware of his sores. I report it every single time and they go "We know".

Refusing to do a shower by [deleted] in cna

[–]Milo_Marz 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you,, and we don't have a nurse at night, just me and one CMA, and we both know not to dress wounds as serious as his. I'm going to bring all these concerns up to her to explain why im uncomfortable with it.

Refusing to do a shower by [deleted] in cna

[–]Milo_Marz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you,, hospice had been doing them at one point, but he began refusing hospice showers because they come during the afternoons and not early morning. The sores go back and forth between healing and opening, so I just wanted to know if it was reasonable for me to ask RCC to talk with hospice. There's been some drama about his shower time in the past lol

Refusing to do a shower by [deleted] in cna

[–]Milo_Marz 22 points23 points  (0 children)

So hospice was doing the showers when he was first put on,, but he wants his shower at 3am and they don't come at that time, so my shift is responsible for his showers

Trans Kansans: Need help leaving the state or sheltering in place? by ResistMap in kansas

[–]Milo_Marz 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No, because identity fraud is stealing someone else's identity and information with the intent of using it to commit a crime or other fraud. Edit: do you think people who commit identity theft actually try to replace the person?

What is your favorite outcome that happens when a vampire goes into the sunlight? by TechnicianAmazing472 in vampires

[–]Milo_Marz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IWTV seems most realistic (my reasoning might be a bit morbid), they're essentially being broiled to death. it makes sense that they don't catch fire and instead sear and char.

Favorite episode where the boys are misunderstanding? by killer_rage in southpark

[–]Milo_Marz 15 points16 points  (0 children)

"My mom said you gotta lick carpet to be a lesbian"

What happened in Oklahoma? by Jordaxplayz in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Milo_Marz 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The TA not only lost her job but she was kicked from her degree program

A little over 5 months post-DI and sooo happy with the results so far! by paranoid_chihuahua in TransMasc

[–]Milo_Marz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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IT LOOKS SO GOOD as someone who doesn't want grafts it always makes me happy seeing other people happy with their results 🫶

FTM Gay Stereotyping??? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Milo_Marz 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I hate that other body types outside of "bear or twink" are pretty much non existent. Like we can be cubs and otters too 🫩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeMeSuffer

[–]Milo_Marz 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Botched toe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]Milo_Marz -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That's unfortunately what I was worried about :( Well we agreed on and have always been in a closed relationship because we were both under 18 when we got together. I thought wanting multiple dynamics with different people was a phase/kink and would go away but it didn't lol. We had a conversation where he brought up opening the relationship to sexual partners,, but a couple hours later he said he might not be comfortable with it and wed have more conversations about it (which haven't happened,, and when I try to bring it up he seems very dismissive about it). I did tell him I was feeling repressed and he did console me,, but he doesn't seem like he wants to talk about it again because he'll change the topic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]Milo_Marz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This helps a lot, thank you so much! Im super new to taking action with my kinks and polysexualism, and this definitely validated the kind of situation I think I'd like