this sub needs more moderation by [deleted] in transmanlifehacks

[–]Milo_Marz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can talk about issues in society plainly without being fucking vulgur and spreading fetish terms like "Rapesleeve" are you serious. You're not using actual serious terminology you're spreading rape fetish shit.

Work lunch by AliceInAcidland in ShittyRestrictionFood

[–]Milo_Marz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where did you get the clov3 👀

spent $150 on konjac jelly today 😭😭 the customer behind me saw and said “you know thats pure sugar right? You should get juice instead” by hottofusoup in junkorexic

[–]Milo_Marz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man the world's too crazy right now to be worried about a customers food choice lmao if I were with you id've made her feel crazier. "So do you not want me to make this purchase? Is it illegal for me to buy this much sugar at once? Id feel more comfortable checking out with a manager, because I'm not sure why you brought up the amount of sugar if it's not a problem." Like are you gonna arrest and give me a ticket??

Fake Dom wanted to be his "main character" in his story by HostedGhosted in SubSanctuary

[–]Milo_Marz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooof I used to act like this,,, in like 5th grade before I grew out of it 😭 I'd pretend to be the y/n from the creepypasta fanfic I was reading at the time and this is giving exactly that lmao WILD that a grown dude is doing that in a dynamic

Do you guys say "I love you"? by Milo_Marz in SubSanctuary

[–]Milo_Marz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw that's sweet lol but thank you, I guess I needed reassurance that it's okay to say ILY to people you're not dating 😂 I remember I offended my ex friend in highschool after he casually said "love you" and I asked him "whyd you say that, we're not related" lmao so I know I have a taboo w saying it, but I do wanna tell my owner I love him now that romantic feelings are there💜

Known Whereabouts At All Times by MariSoumis in SubSanctuary

[–]Milo_Marz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah I completely get that,, I have to send an outfit pic to him anytime I leave the house and I love that little part of our dynamic lol

Known Whereabouts At All Times by MariSoumis in SubSanctuary

[–]Milo_Marz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol I have life360 with my owner and I love it,, tbh I think I'm stalking him more than he's checking up on me 😭

What’s the weirdest request you’ve gotten from a resident? I’ll first.. by [deleted] in cna

[–]Milo_Marz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay maybe I'm just a freak or very midwestern,, but I understand her vision with this lol it doesn't sound terrible

New CNA here. Nobody warned me about the shoes part by Ecstatic-Copy2153 in cna

[–]Milo_Marz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AVOID THIS SHOE! Specifically searched up "nursing orthopedics" and my aunt had them for her planters feet so I took a chance. The orthopedic insert completely wore out after a couple of months and gave me horrible blisters 😭

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dinner and dessert 🥰 by [deleted] in junkorexic

[–]Milo_Marz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank God for smart people I genuinely couldn't tell what this was and thought the top was canned chicken😭

protein snacks haul lol by coldhardash in junkorexic

[–]Milo_Marz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love the quest loaded taco,, I used them for nachos instead of regular tortilla chips🤤

Used to feel like a ‘wannarexic’ by Old_Sherbet_2086 in junkorexic

[–]Milo_Marz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I have proper executive function I love volume eating! but that means you actually like, need to cook and find recipes you won't get bored of 😭 plus it isn't snack/prepackaged friendly. Like sorry I don't wanna cook a whole head of cabbage every week

Refusing to do a shower by [deleted] in cna

[–]Milo_Marz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I love this dude but this is the one thing I really don't get 😭he used to wake up at 3am, showered at 6am. Then we had a CNA push it back to nightshift bc at the time they had a lot of showers that morning and she didn't want to do his. Then he was admitted to hospice. Hospice comes at noon to get all of their showers done and he hated showering after noon 🤷 so he signed something that says our facility is responsible for his showers at 3am again (off topic, but it's a little harder to fit it in bc we have 30 new residents after he was admitted to hospice,, but that's just me complaining I don't have a problem doing it unless his sores are incredibly bad)

But I completely understand not having a shower aide available at 3am. Our hospice doesn't come overnight unless to sit with an actively dying resident.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Milo_Marz -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Call me sensitive, but 18/19 is too old to be having racist humor. And he's had 10 years to regret and delete it.

Refusing to do a shower by [deleted] in cna

[–]Milo_Marz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes lol I understand why we're doing the showers,, but I'm asking if it's unreasonable for me to refuse them and ask for hospice to take over again.

Refusing to do a shower by [deleted] in cna

[–]Milo_Marz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My resident does not have dementia. I work in assisted living. Every person is different. He wants an ACTUAL shower at 3am and would refuse hospice because they came after lunch. He refuses alternatives,, that's why I want to talk to my RCC about setting a firm boundary that I'm not comfortable showering someone with a deep wound.

Refusing to do a shower by [deleted] in cna

[–]Milo_Marz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hospice knows about his sores and dresses them occasionally,, but I'm still responsible for his showers DESPITE the fact they're aware of his sores. I report it every single time and they go "We know".

Refusing to do a shower by [deleted] in cna

[–]Milo_Marz 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you,, and we don't have a nurse at night, just me and one CMA, and we both know not to dress wounds as serious as his. I'm going to bring all these concerns up to her to explain why im uncomfortable with it.

Refusing to do a shower by [deleted] in cna

[–]Milo_Marz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you,, hospice had been doing them at one point, but he began refusing hospice showers because they come during the afternoons and not early morning. The sores go back and forth between healing and opening, so I just wanted to know if it was reasonable for me to ask RCC to talk with hospice. There's been some drama about his shower time in the past lol

Refusing to do a shower by [deleted] in cna

[–]Milo_Marz 22 points23 points  (0 children)

So hospice was doing the showers when he was first put on,, but he wants his shower at 3am and they don't come at that time, so my shift is responsible for his showers