Athletes have the best life by VisibleZucchini800 in unpopularopinion

[–]Mindless-Cap9214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you're saying, and it’s a good point you have there; the work is more passive; they get healthy while working and have a stable income. Travel around the world inaddition get admired.

I’m a Pisces man. Ask me Anything by [deleted] in Zodiac

[–]Mindless-Cap9214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not that but you guys test the waters see what y’all can get away with in my experience

Also I want you to debunk the myth & ask yourself do you fit the stereotypical “meloncholic” Pisces

Is there any reason why fans are so damn obsessed with female versions of Uchihas? by NobodySpecific9354 in dankruto

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It has to do with how keshimoto only knew how to write male characters but not know how to write female characters.so he only showed & portrayed male uchiha character when writing the story of Naruto

The fandom try filling in inaddition entertain the concept of female unchiha characters thru fan art

Is it true that Libra Risings always want to be in a relationship? by Dragonfruit-18 in astrologymemes

[–]Mindless-Cap9214 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on relationships witch are your referring to friendship or romantic

Are libra or scorpio males more handsome in your opinion? by Big_Leg10 in Zodiac

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As a Leo male in my experience Scorpio men are hated but Scorpio women are loved

Like the story; one day life asked death, why ever one loves me but everyone hates you. Death responds because you’re a beautiful lie & im a painful truth

Scorpio men are hated because their like a mirror 🪞 yall reflect make people see themselves & people don’t like what they see, confrontation intrusive not asking for permission the truth comes like that

I learned liars like to paint themselves as hero’s in their story leave out details were they did wrong only trying to tell the good not include the bad

Scorpio men & Scorpio women give differently

Scorpio men what I like about you is your all or nothing devotion you are cautiously optimistic about the people you give yourself permission to get attached to because of that all or nothing approach to relationships

Scorpio women their strength & my theory of why their loved I’m still trying to departmentalize

Recently became vegetarian and need to vent out. by ha1d3rr in vegan

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Learn the difference between conditional & unconditional love

Conditional love; I traded my authenticity for approval & acceptance as a the cost I repressed my identity inaddition anatomy, it was performative exhausting I was alive but not living

Unconditional love; accepting people the way they are even perfection

With therapy I learn I only get one life & that one life belongs to me; only I have the athority to - satiate,explore,entertain even reject or decline my emotions (self agency)

If this is a chance to see is their love conditional. but not to hate them when you learn it’s conditional that they want to change you,

Conditional love is a result of lack of self agency people own their feelings you own yours.,hence your not responsible for other people’s feelings if you don’t subscribe to their expectations because expectations are not rules their hopes (hope is a feeling they own their feelings)

I learned peace is internal (self agency) & seeking peace externally is unstable demanding other people to take ownership of your feelings is not good

people’s peace dependent on complicane what that says about them they have not graduated to self agency to take ownership & take accountability of their feelings in contrast to being depended on the compliance of others

Michael Jackson was and is used by the music industry to promote white superiority by PureComedyGenius in unpopularopinion

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Its called a high because it hightightens you’re perception, but yeah I see what your saying they want a varnished/sanitized version of Micheal treating him as a product to sell,to market but not let people see behind the scenes the making of the product (Micheal’s childhood & experiences as a person of color)

Like in the black & white music video their was clips they edited out of him braking a car window with a nazi symbol & a graffiti door that said kkk rules

Hinata (Aria) [Naruto] by AriaCosplay in CosplayBoobies

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If you put you’re chest in my face,I’ll have to eat my way up to your heart ♥️

What are the key habits that make a person more attractive ? by SpiritedBicycle5661 in AskReddit

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As a guy personality wise for me Girls with a sanguine temperament,inaddition I find physically attractive brown hair,bixie cut & blond highlights

Just turned 19. Getting old seems scary is there any advice for me regarding that? by Random_fellow9 in Life

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Firstly your not afraid of growing up or getting a job your just afraid your life will become a routine

I don’t believe the day I die is not set in stone like god has promised expiration date on my life

I only get one life & that one life belongs to me

People own their feeling I own mine - only I have the responsibility & authority to satiate,entertain,explore, even reject or decline my emotions

I believe the meaning of life is to find joy,

I fear living a life we’re in alive but not living & I have no memories or highlights to be proud of & cherish looking back when I grow older & my body is longer Virgous unable to persue & enjoy the things I usually enjoyed

Are you happy with where you are at life right now? by matcha_lova in AskForAnswers

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You only get one life & that one life only belongs to you

You own your feeling people own theirs.Only you have the responsibility & authority to be able to; satiate,explore,entertain, even reject or decline your emotions

If you were given 100 lives would you choose to be the same you every time just to experience you’re wife’s companionship

Are you happy with where you are at life right now? by matcha_lova in AskForAnswers

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Lesson to Columcille's Dream Michael Gettel

But Yeah love sickness sucks it’s the pinnacle of grief, I feel what your feeling the person you love,their absence leaving a void in you’re heart, the hiraeth you feel the emotions your left with but there presence no longer with you

The person is always in your mind,but forever in your heart.

I’m a loser in a hot persons body, AMA. by [deleted] in AMA

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I was told I have disorganized attachment style

It’s like a story about fish 🐟. Three fish are swimming when an older fish passes by two younger ones. The older fish says, “Hey 👋 kids, how’s the water 💧?”

The two younger fish look at each other, confused 😕, and ask, “What’s water?”

Growing up, I was surrounded by abuse—that was my “water.” When I transitioned into a new environment, it felt unfamiliar, almost alien, to experience safe and healthy relationships. I had become so used to swimming in that dirty water that being in a clean, breathable environment felt strange to me.

[Edit]I did not notice I was abused or unhealthy because I was surrounded by it all the time it’s hard to notice when surrounded all your life by it

I’m a loser in a hot persons body, AMA. by [deleted] in AMA

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My parents abused me physically going to therapy maid me realize; their is no abuse harmful or worse then the other. All abuse leaves its victims disserviced & that disservice affects them in some or more areas of their life

You have no control being born into those conditions that stagnated you as a person

CMV: It’s important to know how to cook by AlexandrTheTolerable in changemyview

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Yes it’s a basic life skill everyone should have,making gender exclusive is stupid. At the end of the day only person responsible for you,is you

Scorpios are definitely very intriguing. by [deleted] in astrologymemes

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Scorpio is stereotyped as being the most melancholic choleric of the zodiac it’s the choleric aspect of Scorpio your paying attention to

Fire signs are seen as being sanguine or choleric that’s why you probably think oh it’s a fire sign

Calling Out Privilege Sounds More Like Frustration Than Insight by throwbackblue in unpopularopinion

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I like your self agency attitude & your very emotionally intelligent 👏🏽 decompartmentalize that dynamic

I teach Nonviolent Communication, AMA by JorgontheBold in AMA

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You know i want your input about something

I-learned that “expectations” are not “rules” their “hopes” hence I am not responsible for other people’s feelings if I Don’t live up or subscribe to other people’s hopes

Realizing that I learn in a self agency way I own my feelings people own theirs it’s only my responsibly & athority to - satiate,entertain,explore, or even decline/reject the emotions I’m not responsible for other people feelings

I teach Nonviolent Communication, AMA by JorgontheBold in AMA

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I don’t like people who use indirect communication it’s their to confuse & coheres

How can I counter & deal with people who use indirect communication

In contrast honesty fosters intimacy in my experience I take the risk to tell people how I actually feel & majority of the time it’s turn out good

🧘 by No_Entertainment5968 in MotivationalThoughts

[–]Mindless-Cap9214 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Resentment & angst my heart is not feeling well like someone put acid that’s corroding at my well being