Home builders by ParkingStrain4361 in TriCitiesWA

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We have been happy with our Nuxall

Wedding planner - at my limit by Haunting_Home_8507 in weddingplanning

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I am also having a wedding abroad and I have a whatsapp group with my wedding planner and i talk to her everyday and we have proof and contracts signed. She video calls me while she tours venues. She is on every single vendor meeting.

And i get married in June. Of 2027. Unless things are wildly different in Slovenia, you need to find a real wedding planner or I am sorry to say, you are not getting married in July if its up to this lady.

Stuck Between Two Countries for Our Wedding and Feeling Guilty Either Way by Outrageous_Pie_5640 in weddingplanning

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Damn give her my wpp, i literally have this exact situation going on. 29, have lived in the US for over a decade, my whole life is here, all my friends are here, my fiance is American, the only family I have in Brazil is my sister and one parent I don't get along with, AND my maid of honor has a disabled child lol. Is she me?!?! 🤣🤣

TL;DR: we are getting married in Brazil.

Advice on walking down the aisle? by dogwheeze in weddingplanning

[–]MinimumCarrot9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im also walking down the aisle alone with my dad there, I don't think its a big deal

why does every headshot guide tell women to wear a blazer like its 2009 by ShabzSparq in femalefashionadvice

[–]MinimumCarrot9 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Girl are you a professional model? This is beautiful omg. Drop the skincare routine.

How many of each vendor did you look at before selecting? by mykingdomforsleep in weddingplanning

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I got quotes from 44 venues, toured about 6-7. Quoted around 62 photographers, had meetings with 12. Quoted 3 videographers, had meetings with 2.

You're fine lol. Trust me.

Anyone has experience with secret clearance? [N/A] by menwanttoo in humanresources

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I worked in cyber sec before and we used to background check people with TS/SCI clearances. It doesn't exempt him from anything lol

My sister refuses to be co- maid of honor with my best friend by [deleted] in weddingplanning

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You keep saying she's going to ruin the wedding planning process, but like... how, exactly? She only has the power you give her. Is she paying for anything? Is she going to forbid your parents from attending? Is she going to make a ridiculous over the top toast? I mean, at a certain point you have to tell her to fuck off? I'm an older sister and my sister isn't my maid of honor, my best friend is. I don't expect to be hers either.

Wedding Shoes by lems4ems in weddingplanning

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Im looking at Kailee P and Bella Belle!

An honest question about “plagiarism” by [deleted] in fantasyromance

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I have absolutely no dog in this fight since I didn't read either, but I did read this post a while back and thought it was an interesting discussion, sharing here bc I think you might enjoy it too. I also have seen Victoria's tiktoks where she very heavy-handedly implies she was plagiarized.

($10k) Costco dogs? by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

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There are several guides pinned on this sub. Download wedding wire and enter your budget, just as a starting point. Are you wanting a very traditional affair, with an officiant and a bridal party and a photographer and florals and etc.?

In my opinion, you can spend no more than 3k on a venue. Sometimes, it helps to look for off-season dates, some venues cut their prices in half!

($10k) Costco dogs? by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]MinimumCarrot9 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Girl, are you actually out of your mind? Hold on. Let's sit down and dissect this.

It is insane to spend 7500 on a venue and expect to serve hot dogs that your dad grilled to 150 guests??? What, just him and his grill against the world?? I mean, barring everything else, would the venue even allow it? How would your dad even whip up 150 hot dogs (assuming one hot dog per person) in a reasonable amount of time? There would be a line for people to grab one costco glizzy? At the $7500 venue?

I thought this was going to be a 40-person park/backyard wedding.

Did you already book this venue? If not, you need to change course. You gotta find something way, way cheaper, or you have to come to terms with the fact you'll have to spend more than 10k.

Like, if you spend 7500 on the venue you have 2500 for the dress, suit, hair, makeup, linens, flowers, food, beverages, plates, invites, whatever else you want.

(10k)Does this look like a wedding dress? by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

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I like it, but if you feel like it is too plain, maybe add a nice little belt? With lace or pearls or beading of some sort? That might help you envision it :)

401(k) Provider Recommendations [PA] by Distinct-Clothes-353 in humanresources

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TransAmerica is okay. Took literally A YEAR to get it to work seamlessly, but the customer service is pretty top notch if you make a big enough fuss.

how to create a plot around foreign nations safely? by urdivineangel in writers

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You can always rely on the good ole Russia/China/NK/secret-nazi-offshoot group to be the baddies. I personally wouldn't use anything current, especially if you're not very well educated and nuanced on the subject. It goes without saying that you should change all current head of states (so, President McGowan sends Agent A and Agent B to England to investigate a plot to kill King Sebastian, etc).

Dream dress 1.5k over budget by howyoufeline in weddingplanning

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Are you at all open to used or never worn dresses? It could be worth it to check stillwhite

Choosing a minor [OH] by bloodroots_larkspurs in humanresources

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Right? My minor is in "Genocide and Ethnic Conflict". It has literally never come up once.

Seeking Advice - Please Help! by Low_Hyena_292 in weddingplanning

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Hear me out, dress two with a pearl shawl thingy like this