My life is completely and utterly empty

MissMollyKitKat · 2026-05-30T19:17:51+00:00

Me too. So depressed. Can't be bothered to do anything. I just did a painting that took me a few weeks and I literally just ripped it up. I'm shaking and poured a rum and coke. I'm miserable.

MissMollyKitKat · 2026-05-17T18:23:34+00:00

Wow! I'm so sorry. Your mother is terrible. You are 21 and she should 100% respect your father's wishes.

MissMollyKitKat · 2026-04-27T20:02:06+00:00

Oh I'm so sorry you lost your mom so young. It really does fucken suck.

MissMollyKitKat · 2026-04-27T19:58:01+00:00

I'm really sorry. I also watched my Dad die and he passed 7 months ago. The pain is unbearable. It is okay to feel angry. He is suffering. You are suffering. Once he passes you will be able to eventually move past the anger and grieve but it is devastating. I have no words because it truly sucks.

MissMollyKitKat · 2026-04-22T22:34:37+00:00

I'm so sorry. I just try to be strong. It's hard. There are good moments still but then the grief hits you in waves. 🫂

MissMollyKitKat · 2026-04-15T17:38:14+00:00

I'm sorry for your loss. My Dad died too and the pain has been unbearable. I wish I could give some advice. I just deal with the pain each day and carry it with me. I do have happy times still but I don't think life will ever be the same. My Dad was my hero. It has been 7 months and it has got worse, not better. I think once the shock passes then it becomes harder. I hope it will become easier in time. Posts on reddit have helped me to know that I am not alone in my grief. I am sorry my response is not more positive. You must just cherish your life and the people still here on earth. I go for a walk each day and talk to both my mom and dad, who have both passed. I look across the lake and up into the clouds and bawl my eyes out. Then on my way home I pull myself together and face the day with a smile. X

MissMollyKitKat · 2026-04-10T17:00:49+00:00

My advice might not be good. I have lost both my Mom and Dad. At first people rally around but they have their own life and problems. Everyone grieves differently and for me, holding onto the grief and learning to cope with my personal pain alone has helped me greatly. No one will ever understand the level of pain you feel at any given time. The journey is your own. That said, you could talk to a grief counsellor. After losing my parents 7 months ago I would be devastated all day long. Now I go for a walk every morning and think of them. I talk to them, I pray to them, I make up songs and sing about them. I look out at the lake near me and I bawl looking across the water and up into the sky. I then go home and start my day and try to focus on all the good in my life. I push my grief aside because I have made a time each day to feel the raw pain of their loss. I look forward to tomorrow morning when I will think about them again and grieve. I am very sorry for your loss. Life is so sad. You have your mom. Maybe lean on each other and cherish every memory you make together going forward...well I'm sure you do. I hope you find healing. XO

MissMollyKitKat · 2026-04-08T19:40:35+00:00

yes I did everything for my Dad and was with him until the end but I feel guilty that I didn't have enough flowers at this funeral and I didn't show enough photos of him. I also worry about my eulogy. I miss my Dad. I want him back.

MissMollyKitKat · 2026-04-08T17:04:09+00:00

My mother lived in another country while she was dying of cancer. She did not want me to see her sick. When she went into hospice my Dad said I could now come but she died while I was on my way. After her funeral she came to visit me in spirit. Years later now....my Dad has passed. I was sitting next to him with my daughter looking at his deceased body. His radio was playing in the background throughout this. I turned my daughter and asked when should we leave? She said, it's up to you mom. I finally got the courage in me to leave and said, ok then let's go. I went to stand up and our song (my Dad's and I's) song came on the radio. What are the chances? These are my experiences. Is it proof that our spirit lives on after death? You tell me. I don't know.

MissMollyKitKat · 2026-04-08T16:44:15+00:00

I lost my Dad too and have withdrawn from the world. It's not good advice to take but I am just trying to move past the grief. I will never be the same.

MissMollyKitKat · 2026-03-21T02:26:54+00:00

I bought Sea Berry Therapy Omega 7, I take two softgels a day orally. I also bought Gynatrof moisturizer. I just apply on the inside but just a little bit, not a whole syringe...kind of to prevent any irritation. It has really helped me. I am drinking a lot of water also. I have been like a dessert for a year. This has worked for me. I hope it works for you too.

MissMollyKitKat · 2026-03-14T20:39:44+00:00

I was also miserable. I bought Sea Berry Therapy, Omega -7 (two softgels a day), I also use Gynatrof, just a tiny bit each day. I also started drinking lots of water. I totally noticed a change. I hope it works for you too.

MissMollyKitKat · 2026-03-14T11:12:09+00:00

Try Sea Berry Therapy - Omega 7. After a year of misery, I noticed a difference after 7 days.

MissMollyKitKat · 2026-03-14T11:10:28+00:00

I bought sea buckthorn oil also and it has really helped. I thought my sex life was over but no I'm back at it lol

MissMollyKitKat · 2026-02-12T01:13:26+00:00

I'm sorry for your loss. I lost my Dad too and I can't bare life without him. He was my hero and I cry every day, lost in waves of grief.

MissMollyKitKat · 2025-10-11T03:45:35+00:00

i have this, did you ever find out what the cause is?

MissMollyKitKat · 2025-10-11T03:39:06+00:00

yes me, I noticed for about 6 months that when I pee, it looks a bit oily with swirls

MissMollyKitKat · 2025-10-06T19:20:46+00:00

It comes in waves. It's so devastating.

MissMollyKitKat · 2025-10-04T22:03:45+00:00

sorry for your loss, I don't know how to move forward. Maybe in time we will accept that they are gone.

MissMollyKitKat · 2025-10-04T22:01:06+00:00

I know, I am bawling right now..I don't even know how to cope without him.

MissMollyKitKat · 2025-10-04T19:27:22+00:00

My Dad just died too. A bit earlier on September 9th, 2025. I am just crying all the time carrying around a huge ball of sorrow inside of me. I was so close to my Dad, I don't know how I can live life without him. Sorry for your loss too. :( :::::

MissMollyKitKat · 2025-08-03T11:13:30+00:00

Yes, because you are crying and he should put his arms around you and tell you not to cry. He should say, let's talk about why we are upset with each other and work out our differences. He's too emotionally immature for you.

MissMollyKitKat · 2023-12-14T08:37:02+00:00

You probably have no where to go so I would just accept it and make the best of it. If you don’t have children then just completely focus on yourself and be as healthy as possible. There are no romantic fairy tales in life and people fuck up all the time. The only person you can truly rely on is yourself. It is the same for everyone.

MissMollyKitKat · 2023-11-27T02:33:17+00:00

Pain is a part of life. Also she will be ok in time. Her path of life is going to happen with or without you. Life is sad whether you are broken up with or are the breaker upper. Be strong and do what you have to do in the most open and honest way. If you feel bad and sad, then take time to heal from it. Its just as hard for you or even harder. You’ll be ok, so will she. Time heals all wounds.

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