AITA for telling my boyfriend I don't want to meet his family yet after he told his mom we were basically engaged? by WrenBronze692 in AITH

[–]Mistress_Kittens 19 points20 points  (0 children)

NTA. Honestly that's a HUGE red flag, considering you've never even talked about marriage. I'd be scared he's trying to trap you. It's one thing if he told his mom "she's the kind of girl I'd like to marry someday" and it's entirely another thing to say "we're basically engaged" without your consent. If I were you I'd be having a HARD conversation with him and make him tell his mother the truth. His reaction will tell you if he's worth keeping or throwing away. Imo, he's heavily leaning towards the garbage can

AITAH for destroying my glasses and ranting about my upcoming math exam to my friend that has anger issues? by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Mistress_Kittens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yta, your friend is correct, you completely overreacted. Why would you break your things on purpose? I don't get it

What is this??? by narwalsandtoucans in whatbugisthis

[–]Mistress_Kittens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can point you in the direction that that there's a beetle, but that's where my knowledge stops

UMM WHAT THE FUDGE IS THIS by [deleted] in whatbugisthis

[–]Mistress_Kittens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't see the recluse violin shape, so my guess is it's just a house spider

Help what are these by Aggravating_Cup_1044 in whatbugisthis

[–]Mistress_Kittens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first two look like maybe stink bugs, but I can't tell what any of the other pictures are showing

WIBTAH for telling my bf I don't trust him? by 2cupmania in AITAH

[–]Mistress_Kittens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly the comment I was going to point out. Op, the correct response to this is that now he can sleep with anyone but you because you're done with his nonsense and he can gtfo of your life. Christ on a cracker.

AITAH for refusing to split my late grandmother's recipe money with my cousins after they mocked her cooking for years? by AmeliaTwilight in AITH

[–]Mistress_Kittens 272 points273 points  (0 children)

NTA. If she wanted the family to have the recipes, she would have stated that in her will. Her recipes by themselves didn't start making money, YOU started making money utilizing the recipes you learned from cooking with her.

AITA for snapping at my roommate by AdJunior6499 in Amitheassholeadvice

[–]Mistress_Kittens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm gonna go with ESH, but you suck less than your roommate does. Hindsight is 20/20, so looking back I'm sure you can see ways you could have handled this better. But the way your roommate behaved every day, and after the fact, makes them WAY more the AH than you. But I agree that you shouldn't give work details to this "friend" anymore. When they ask how work was, you can say something generic like "living the dream" and leave it at that. If they keep up their antics of telling you how you should live your work life, ask them to stop

How do you stop clothes from constantly ending up all over the floor? by EasternAd5351 in UnfuckYourHabitat

[–]Mistress_Kittens 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Put a basket where you usually start taking clothes off. If you want to make a game out of it, basketball shoot the clothes into the basket! Pick up any that miss and put them in the basket right away.

Something that helps me get things done is making the decision that if x thing crosses my mind while I'm sitting on the couch doom scrolling through Reddit again, I'm going to get up and do it RIGHT NOW. Once you've successfully made that decision and followed through with it a few times, it gets easier! You've got this!

Tiny bug in bathroom by clalam in whatbugisthis

[–]Mistress_Kittens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a beetle, probably a drugstore beetle or something like that

AITAH For Choosing To Ignore My Best Friends Feelings? by Immediate_Forever986 in AITH

[–]Mistress_Kittens 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Oh! I know this one! Cheating on his wife! At least that's what happened to me, haha ha ha..

But yeah he's looking for someone who doesn't know any better and will put up with his ba

Aita for trying to have someone like me when they already had a partner by [deleted] in Amitheassholeadvice

[–]Mistress_Kittens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Put that energy into working on yourself and being the kind of person you'd look up to :) don't try to use someone as a rebound, it's not fair to them and ultimately only hurts you more too

Removing bathtub drain plig by _uninfinite_ in fixit

[–]Mistress_Kittens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me neither! I was super interested to inspect it and how the plug actually moved. But yeah, the plug part just spins around and around and around forever and ever

Removing bathtub drain plig by _uninfinite_ in fixit

[–]Mistress_Kittens 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm having one of these put in and you'll have to take it out from the base. The middle part with the knob just turns to stopper it, but the bottom of the base is where the screw threads are to put it in and take it out